FabSwingers.com forum: Do you get on with your Mother

By *irce OP Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

You may proceed with the burning...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Never had one.

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I do now, I'm divorced and they're dead.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Never had one.

Me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, she is a nice woman. Although I can't spend more than a week in my in-laws' company because our personalities are so different. That's the same as my own family too, though

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I got on her alright

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By *irce OP Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Never had one.

Lucky you....

Have a soft spot for mine...

Just left of the shed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did with my ex husbands mum. I still miss his family even though we got divorced back in 2003.

I never really got involved in my last ex's family. I felt I was betraying my ex husbands family which was a bit weird.

My last ex's mum died a few years ago, she was a nice lady but I didn't really know her that well

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Not that we're married but yes, I do get along pretty well with my mother-'in-law'.

We have a mutual appreciation of my own mother's failings, and she's a right minx when she gets pissed (which is often enough to make you wonder if she reads the health pages of The Daily Mail in that spew bile into the house but so long as we don;t talk about immigrants or poor people, we're fine).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I didn't get on with my mother in law. I tried but she wasn't having any of it. She didn't get on with many people. An extremely bitter woman.

My father in law and sisters/brothers in law were all extremely sound people. I still speak to all of them regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I did, she was a lovely lady. We didn't always see eye to eye on life but she loved my kids & we had a mutual respect for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did. I adored my ex in laws. They loved me too. We got on so well. Shame their son didn't feel the same way about me any longer!! Oh well. His loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like hell she's a vile sour faced manky toothed old bag and I would happily give any member of Isis her address for a bomb target

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely well. I get on with all my ex in laws and see them more often than my own family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she had her moments but I got on with her I guess

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

I used to get on great with my ex-MIL....until I realised she was a bit fruit loop...my ex had already realised this way before me....when my ex FIL's divorce finally came through he went out and bought an MR2 roadster.."she's had her midlife crisis, i can buy mine now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like hell she's a vile sour faced manky toothed old bag and I would happily give any member of Isis her address for a bomb target "

well said!!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Absolutely love mine!!! We're still really close even though she's not really been my mil for 4 years. It's hard to just let go after being a part of each others lives for over 20 years.

We go for coffee & lunch & she does my washing & ironing if I leave any when I go on holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like hell she's a vile sour faced manky toothed old bag and I would happily give any member of Isis her address for a bomb target "

Errr you know that you're dipping into her gene pool right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard not to get on with mine - she doesn't speak English

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite lucky with the other MrsMac. I've only met her about 8 times in 13 years. The first time I met her was 5 weeks after I gave birth to her granddaughter and the second my wedding. Any more frequent and I doubt I would be so pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that we're married but yes, I do get along pretty well with my mother-'in-law'.

Those pesky immigrants how dare they come here running away from war and interigration... They must answer the question of our great nations nationality test....p.s which most of the uk population can't answer in simple English...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All men should want to pump the MIL after all we will look like them in 20 years time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky in that I do get well with the in-laws (in small doses). They have their quirks of course but on the whole they're good decent people

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By *atnat85Woman
over a year ago

northwest

Pretty well, she sees me as the daughter she never had who is perfect in every way

Her husband?Not so much ,he's 9 years older than me and is a cocky, smug know it all !

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Never had one.

Me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before divorce, no. She was frankly boring and we found any conversation a strain. Since divorce, she's been utterly vile to me & my daughter.

Glad I no longer have to have anything to do with her.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I get along with mine in short doses

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

god no, blinkered deluded prejudiced woman, always happy to see her leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on fine with mine... even after herself decided we should go seperate ways. technically she's not mother in law now. . But she's still nanny to the kids, so I do see them quite often, especially since herself and them have fallen out .. nobody should miss out on time with the kids. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Died a few years ago. But yes actually I did.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

The outlaw! No!

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do now, I'm divorced and they're dead."

This.

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

My mother in law is fantastic. I can tell her anything.

My mum is the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wife's family used to drive me nuts, all of them. Think brother In law was worse always trying to compete if we bought something they bought bigger more expensive, yet when we bought something MIL would say we are wasting money, but end if day think it was me with problem , and that problem was them

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Even when I divorced her beloved son I still saw her, went to her birthday parties even had her one Christmas.

Genuinely missed her when she passed away three years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on with mine to a point, I don't dislike her, but spend as little time with her as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got on to well with first mil

Hell of a lot more fun than

Her daughter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, I even refuse to answer the phone is she phones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never got on with my ex mother in law

She was a right snob, everything was for show, didn't do anything for you unless everybody knew about it and she's never let you forget

I just stayed away from her to be honest

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Guess I've had two, although not married to the first guy, they loved me and because of that I ended up being the one running round. Plus they where both alotm older than my mum so I treated them like grandmas. Nothing like my family.

Apparently I'm the best mother in law ex mother in law depending on the day of the week ever. Apparently instead of having one pain for a child I've now got two

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I sat on my husband's mum once, she was only about 4ft 10 and about 7stone and I was about 20stome. Getting in a taxi didn't see her and sat straight on top of her wonder I didnt squash her insides out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got on great with mine. Sadly she passed away in 2013 from cancer.

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By *ogan42Man
over a year ago

Willington

Loved mine to bits, was on my side 100 per cent, was always a rock, cancer took her and God got a good Angel. Since then me and the ex split up, loved all my in laws, just not the ex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both of us get on with eachothers family. less so with our own though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes although she does exhaust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like hell she's a vile sour faced manky toothed old bag and I would happily give any member of Isis her address for a bomb target

Errr you know that you're dipping into her gene pool right? "

No as she's my ex mil now!!!!

She once said to me hurry up and have kids as your eggs will be going stale and you might have a spastic!!!.

When I asked what a spastic was she said one of them Mongol children I didn't even know what that meant.

My relationship ended less than a year later. think my gene pool had a lucky escape, someone else hasn't though poor woman.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Nope. Just nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all Ive tried but also she seems to do is criticise me, I'm not saying I'm perfect at all.. But she can't even bring herself to be happy for me when I do well with things.

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