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Ok so it's been a year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And no fish are biting. Not for me?

Just after no strings, anytime meets for sex, isn't that what people are here for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"isn't that what people are here for? "

Yes we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"isn't that what people are here for?

Yes we are. "

With people who float our boats.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Boat floaters R us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And no fish are biting. Not for me?

Just after no strings, anytime meets for sex, isn't that what people are here for? "
some are some aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, that would be the dream lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"isn't that what people are here for?

Yes we are. "

Who's this 'we' you speak of?

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

It's no surprise.

You must have read the many many threads that cock pics do nothing for anyone much here (unless they are something really special) yet that's all you have.

Maybe there are others for friends only but people don't want to become friends just to see a photo with personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick your hand in the Tarpon pool...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you have to decide for yourself whether it is worth the effort. If I were here for a year and didn't get a meet I would leave (apart from bull shitting on the forums). But ypu might see it differently. Maybe instead of leaving you need to do things differently? Maybe a night out at a pub is a better use of your time?

I simply can't tell you that. Self evaluate and act accordingly. Good luck.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And no fish are biting. Not for me?

Just after no strings, anytime meets for sex, isn't that what people are here for? "

Yep - and there's no reason why you can't find it. It's mainly about the approach I think, get yourself known (eg post on the forums and get involved etc).

When I first joined I used to do the whole scattergun approach and messaged loads of people and, largely, got nowhere. I took a break and really cut back on the volume of people I messaged on my return but spent some time and effort on each - people that I really liked the look of.

Doing less, but better, worked for me.

And try and be as upfront and transparent as you can be. There's one claim on your profile I would suggest isn't strictly accurate (based on the pics at least) for example. If people can't trust what you're saying then it's likely to deter them from engaging with you.

Good luck fella - you CAN succeed on here. Trust me I'm so bloody average and you would appear to have a lot more going for you - so if I can meet people there's certainly no reason why you can't!

I hope you find what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And no fish are biting. Not for me?

Just after no strings, anytime meets for sex, isn't that what people are here for? "

Yes it is , but do you honestly think anyone would look at your profile and choose it over all the other single guys offering themselves ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting yourself known in forums doesn't achieve much other than abuse hehe ,change your profile put better pics up and send well thought out messages based on target profile with a smiling face pic

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"And no fish are biting. Not for me?

Just after no strings, anytime meets for sex, isn't that what people are here for? "

I'd suggest you change your approach OP. I couldn't get anywhere either when I first came on here. It was all very pointless really. Some guys (myself included) won't get anywhere by just blindly sending out messages.

I decided to just jump in the forums and I got myself noticed that way. Skip to the here and now and I've now got lots of lady friends and have many potential meets in the pipeline, plus my first social event next week.

Not sure how this all happened. I didn't change as a person. I just changed my approach. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"isn't that what people are here for?

Yes we are.

With people who float our boats."

Wish i could bold that last line, but yeah this is very important.

NSA sex is basically meeting someone for nothing other than personal pleasure, without obligation, therefore only the people whose fantasy you fit into will wanna meet you. Many guys often don't get this and wonder why everyone doesn't just open their legs for them, after all they have a cock to fill that hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, think your self lucky, it's been 6 years for us!

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