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By *uzzb OP   Man
over a year ago

nr Sherborne

Hi

I'm mostly gay because I like to be anally stimulated. However, I still like women, but am not going to change my profile from gay to bi to suit the circumstances - I prefer to be honest. A bi-guy, when he makes love to a guy,is being gay, so not a lot of difference in reality, and can you believe what a guy says anyway?

So, are women generally offended by being approached by men who call themselves gay, or am I being stupid in not having a different profile for when I wish to contact women?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If a GAY man fancied me I'd check my voice and chin hair.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

and in reply to your question - yes you are being stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never given it any thought, if they don't like me then do one

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Never given it any thought, if they don't like me then do one "

You call yourself Bi not Gay - The O.P. did ask about Gay men.

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

It works very different for every girl. I have seen profile of girls which prefer bi man or even play only with bi man

For me personally is huge turn of. As I have many gay friends when comes to sex I like man to be manly.

Anyway you likening your ass stimulated don't make you bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like women you are bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do a switcheroo with your profile preferences or is that too simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely being mostly gay is just the same as being bisexual....

If it's not..... I'm in breach the trades descriptions act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you put A bi guy when making love to a guy is gay lol what about a ts xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A love women that feed me haribo

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Someones sexuality is of no business of mine unless it's for sexual reasons and if someone said they where gay I'd have no interest and they would have no interest in me

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Your profile clearly says your gay so if you chatting to us it would purely be for chatting...there couldn't be any other reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think it odd yes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even answer a message from a man who classed himself as gay, I wouldn't be offended but I'd assume that, because they're gay, they are not interested in women.

Just as I wouldn't proposition a woman while having 'straight' on my profile.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Also what you say op makes not the least bit of sense.

If your attracted to men and women it doesn't matter what sex your with at the time your still bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gay guy would put me off as I'm female and a gay guy would not be interested in me

Regardless of what you want to put on your profile if your sexually active with men and women your bi and I love bi guys so that wouldn't put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also what you say op makes not the least bit of sense.

If your attracted to men and women it doesn't matter what sex your with at the time your still bi"

I was thinking that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A love sex with men and women but not with fem guys or cats n dogs

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

A gay man would have no interest in a woman at all so why would you approach a woman? If you find men and women sexually attractive then surely you must be bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet last year from another site with a couple x I was fully dressed and the female wanted to try it as lesbians while her husband watched xx was hot hot

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By *uzzb OP   Man
over a year ago

nr Sherborne

interesting comments, thanks. I can see most people are baffled, but it is the ambiguity in most of us that baffles me. If I am interested in a woman, then at that point I'm not being gay, but feel it only fair to point out that the majority of my experiences are with other guys, so I call myself gay. I suppose I am 90% gay / 5% straight / 5% bi !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The meaning of Bisexual to me is that you are attracted to members of both sex, Gay means you are only attracted to the same sex.

If a gay man came on to me I would feel that was a sign that I looked like a man... not something a woman wants to feel!

if you like men and women sexually you are bi, no matter how much you like either sex as a % of your sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you like women you are bi."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you like women you are bi.

"

Indeed

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes but, no, I ain't no lezza, what you mean, you're saying gay but you aint? You want it up the backdoor, so can't say straight, as bi bloke is gone gay when he gives it you? Now you want the women, so you have some front tunnel?

Whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're bisexual. Even if you are bisexual with a strong preference for men.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Hi

I'm mostly gay because I like to be anally stimulated. However, I still like women, but am not going to change my profile from gay to bi to suit the circumstances - I prefer to be honest. A bi-guy, when he makes love to a guy,is being gay, so not a lot of difference in reality, and can you believe what a guy says anyway?

So, are women generally offended by being approached by men who call themselves gay, or am I being stupid in not having a different profile for when I wish to contact women?"

If you're attracted to women too you're bi. As other people have said. It really is that simple. Plenty of women like bi men. Plenty of women don't. I can't imagine many women would jump at the chance to shag a gay man though.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If a man claiming to be gay messaged me about meeting I'd wonder why on Earth he was approaching a woman. Gay, for a man, means sexually attracted to men only.

I wouldn't get involved because I'd consider him very confused and potentially more hassle than I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So,by using that reasoning,the men on here who mostly like women, but once in a while fuck a man,really are straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bisexual..

most of my sexual experiences have been with men..

Most of my experiences with women have been with a man present...

I find women attractive I find men attractive....

I am bisexual... .

And so are you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only gay when you have a legal partnership agreement between you and your same sex loved one. Anything else is just experimentation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So,by using that reasoning,the men on here who mostly like women, but once in a while fuck a man,really are straight. "

I occasionally like to be fucked by a man so i'm definitely a bisexualist...does fucker or fuckee make a difference? I wouldn't have thunk it

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

I love gay and bi men ....my son is gay so im prob not the best person to ask but i thought id add my view to the mix,

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"If a GAY man fancied me I'd check my voice and chin hair."

This

If you like both men and women, you're bi. Whether you have a preference for one more than the other.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"So,by using that reasoning,the men on here who mostly like women, but once in a while fuck a man,really are straight. "

Are you telling me they aren't?

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We don't get bothered with labels. If we find someone we like, and who likes us, we'll have some fun. If we don't we will just have fun on our own - simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I'm mostly gay because I like to be anally stimulated."

So do many men but that doesn't make them gay or bi... because they like it from women... Sorry to be picky but this sentence really stood out for me here!

And yes, if you like to have intercourse with women and men then you are bi.

M

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"Hi

I'm mostly gay because I like to be anally stimulated. However, I still like women, but am not going to change my profile from gay to bi to suit the circumstances - I prefer to be honest. A bi-guy, when he makes love to a guy,is being gay, so not a lot of difference in reality, and can you believe what a guy says anyway?

So, are women generally offended by being approached by men who call themselves gay, or am I being stupid in not having a different profile for when I wish to contact women?"

They'd Probably be confused more than anything else as "gay" implies exclusive attraction to members of the same gender. Offended is a bit of a strong word.. People that mail me I have no physical interest in; their interest is flattering and far from offensive.

Also anal stimulation has nothing to do with sexuality.. The prostate is a sexual sweet spot for every biologically male person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If I am interested in a woman, then at that point I'm not being gay, but feel it only fair to point out that the majority of my experiences are with other guys"

The vast majority of my sexual conquests have been with my right hand. In that point I'm not being a-sexual...

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