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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok…. Cough-cough…I don't normally do this but,,,,.Erm…this mate of mine who just happens to be a openly bisexual guy swinger that occasionally crossdress’s for sexual kicks……has recently been contacted by a post-operative male to female Transsexual inviting him to meet for sex….

Ahem….. Now this mate of mine!!! , openly admits this scenario somewhat knocked him completly for a six, as it’s something he’d never even considered might ever present itself as a option let alone a proposition.

Now although as stated earlier,,,,…My ,, ahem..mate!!!, is indeedy, fully bisexual and happily meets males and females, he has always made it abundantly clear,,,,, he’s never found himself sexually drawn towards bona-fide transvestites or men like himself who share a simple Crossdressing fetish.

So now having declined this proposition to meet the aforementioned male who is now technically and legally female, …..My, ahem… mate!!!! is somewhat inquisitive to know what other people “straight or bi” would do presented with a similar situation ….….….not withstanding sex reassignment operations can be performed from male to female or vice-versa

I hasten to add ,,,,,, This mate of mine, is not the sort of person who would just bonk anyone for novelty value, as he fully respects people of all legally acceptable sexual diversification.

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By *orestersCouple
over a year ago

The Forest

My tuppence worth - if you don't fancy them, then you don't fancy them - simple as that! The choice is all yours and nobody else's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unless of course you do fancy them,but are afraid of being in the position of wondering,before she/he had the op,was he/she bigger than me teehee

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

When I was a kid my mate Dan said transexual's had plastic fannies.

He was only 8 but he seemed to know what he was talking about, his brother Dave who was 10 had told him and Dave had got 'tops' off Sharon down the street so was pretty worldly wise.

So for that reason, I'm out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was a kid my mate Dan said transexual's had plastic fannies.

He was only 8 but he seemed to know what he was talking about, his brother Dave who was 10 had told him and Dave had got 'tops' off Sharon down the street so was pretty worldly wise.

So for that reason, I'm out!

"

you outed yourself,because your mates brother got sharons top off?

brave of you?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"When I was a kid my mate Dan said transexual's had plastic fannies.

He was only 8 but he seemed to know what he was talking about, his brother Dave who was 10 had told him and Dave had got 'tops' off Sharon down the street so was pretty worldly wise.

So for that reason, I'm out!

you outed yourself,because your mates brother got sharons top off?

brave of you?"

You haven't worked for a tabloid newspaper before have you? That was spectacular paraphrasing!

And scarily very accurate

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Ok…. Cough-cough…I don't normally do this but,,,,.Erm…this mate of mine who just happens to be a openly bisexual guy swinger that occasionally crossdress’s for sexual kicks……has recently been contacted by a post-operative male to female Transsexual inviting him to meet for sex….

Ahem….. Now this mate of mine!!! , openly admits this scenario somewhat knocked him completly for a six, as it’s something he’d never even considered might ever present itself as a option let alone a proposition.

Now although as stated earlier,,,,…My ,, ahem..mate!!!, is indeedy, fully bisexual and happily meets males and females, he has always made it abundantly clear,,,,, he’s never found himself sexually drawn towards bona-fide transvestites or men like himself who share a simple Crossdressing fetish.

So now having declined this proposition to meet the aforementioned male who is now technically and legally female, …..My, ahem… mate!!!! is somewhat inquisitive to know what other people “straight or bi” would do presented with a similar situation ….….….not withstanding sex reassignment operations can be performed from male to female or vice-versa

I hasten to add ,,,,,, This mate of mine, is not the sort of person who would just bonk anyone for novelty value, as he fully respects people of all legally acceptable sexual diversification.

"

if this mate of yours fancies her then he should go for it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from a personal point of view, I wouold not feel happy meeting someone that had been a man before for any sort of sexual encounter, the thought would always be in the back of my mind.

I have no problem socialising with TV's / CD's/ post or pre op transexuals, and have had some great nights out in Canal Street in Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You haven't worked for a tabloid newspaper before have you? That was spectacular paraphrasing!

And scarily very accurate "

when i was about 14,yeah,i use to deliver them on my bike

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It would be all about the chemistry... if I fancy someone then I fancy them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would be all about the chemistry... if I fancy someone then I fancy them.

"

I guess thats the most respectful and fairest way to look at it..

Top answer

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

If she hadn't told your mate, might he not have noticed and have gone for it anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she hadn't told your mate, might he not have noticed and have gone for it anyway?"

That’s a very interesting thought ,,,and one I couldn't answer off the top of my head,,,, “

So now having thunk about it for a bittie! ……..

I guess if the truth be told,,, yeah,, I perhaps would have met with her...Oop's I meant my "ahem mate" would have met with her....

I know that sounds kinda somewhat hypocritical and maybe makes my "ahem mate" seen a bit arsey..... But hey, it was an unusual situation and we don’t always make the most considered decisions all the time…..

Retrospectively speaking of course

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"If she hadn't told your mate, might he not have noticed and have gone for it anyway?

That’s a very interesting thought ,,,and one I couldn't answer off the top of my head,,,, “

So now having thunk about it for a bittie! ……..

I guess if the truth be told,,, yeah,, I perhaps would have met with her...Oop's I meant my "ahem mate" would have met with her....

I know that sounds kinda somewhat hypocritical and maybe makes my "ahem mate" seen a bit arsey..... But hey, it was an unusual situation and we don’t always make the most considered decisions all the time…..

Retrospectively speaking of course

"

You're one of the most considerate people on here you feckin weirdo.

Oh...apparently I'm not, but you get the point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

You're one of the most considerate people on here you feckin weirdo.

Oh...apparently I'm not, but you get the point. "

Awwww Viccyboi....... I'm welling up with emotion...... here cop this (((( HUG ))))

I luv ya man!!!!

Hey,,,,, before ya-all start..... that was mealy a "Man-hug"..... nothing sexual about it at all!!!.... and its ok to share the luv with another guy....as long as theres no touching of willies,,,, sheeezzzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok…. Cough-cough…I don't normally do this but,,,,.Erm…this mate of mine who just happens to be a openly bisexual guy swinger that occasionally crossdress’s for sexual kicks……has recently been contacted by a post-operative male to female Transsexual inviting him to meet for sex….

Ahem….. Now this mate of mine!!! , openly admits this scenario somewhat knocked him completly for a six, as it’s something he’d never even considered might ever present itself as a option let alone a proposition.

Now although as stated earlier,,,,…My ,, ahem..mate!!!, is indeedy, fully bisexual and happily meets males and females, he has always made it abundantly clear,,,,, he’s never found himself sexually drawn towards bona-fide transvestites or men like himself who share a simple Crossdressing fetish.

So now having declined this proposition to meet the aforementioned male who is now technically and legally female, …..My, ahem… mate!!!! is somewhat inquisitive to know what other people “straight or bi” would do presented with a similar situation ….….….not withstanding sex reassignment operations can be performed from male to female or vice-versa

I hasten to add ,,,,,, This mate of mine, is not the sort of person who would just bonk anyone for novelty value, as he fully respects people of all legally acceptable sexual diversification.

"

You got my message then ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

You got my message then ?? "

pmsl..... shushhhhhhhhh.....Goodness me Baz….. I was trying to protect our anonymity…… struth everyone will pointing at us now…..

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"

You're one of the most considerate people on here you feckin weirdo.

Oh...apparently I'm not, but you get the point.

Awwww Viccyboi....... I'm welling up with emotion...... here cop this (((( HUG ))))

I luv ya man!!!!

Hey,,,,, before ya-all start..... that was mealy a "Man-hug"..... nothing sexual about it at all!!!.... and its ok to share the luv with another guy....as long as theres no touching of willies,,,, sheeezzzzzzz

"

*puts on deep voice and puffs out chest* Yes, well...non of that nonsense here...I'm off to watch the Foote and drink beer now...

*points at nearest female*

Cor! Show us yer tits luv???

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"

You're one of the most considerate people on here you feckin weirdo.

Oh...apparently I'm not, but you get the point.

Awwww Viccyboi....... I'm welling up with emotion...... here cop this (((( HUG ))))

I luv ya man!!!!

Hey,,,,, before ya-all start..... that was mealy a "Man-hug"..... nothing sexual about it at all!!!.... and its ok to share the luv with another guy....as long as theres no touching of willies,,,, sheeezzzzzzz

*puts on deep voice and puffs out chest* Yes, well...non of that nonsense here...I'm off to watch the Foote and drink beer now...

*points at nearest female*

Cor! Show us yer tits luv???

"

Hey hey hey! If there's any manhugging going on a I want a bit of the action guys, come here you two!

((((manly huggles with no willies touching))))

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Awwww Viccyboi....... I'm welling up with emotion...... here cop this (((( HUG ))))

I luv ya man!!!!

Hey,,,,, before ya-all start..... that was mealy a "Man-hug"..... nothing sexual about it at all!!!.... and its ok to share the luv with another guy....as long as theres no touching of willies,,,, sheeezzzzzzz

*puts on deep voice and puffs out chest* Yes, well...non of that nonsense here...I'm off to watch the Foote and drink beer now...

*points at nearest female*

Cor! Show us yer tits luv???

Hey hey hey! If there's any manhugging going on a I want a bit of the action guys, come here you two!

((((manly huggles with no willies touching))))"

awww Funkster.....Here Cop this... this is my no-touching-willies man-hug to you... (((HUG)))… however, I'll leave Viccyboi to his own devices, and let you two grind out whatever type of macho style man-hug suites you both best,,,,.... and I promise not to peep while your doing it...ahem…… I can see ya ……

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"

Awwww Viccyboi....... I'm welling up with emotion...... here cop this (((( HUG ))))

I luv ya man!!!!

Hey,,,,, before ya-all start..... that was mealy a "Man-hug"..... nothing sexual about it at all!!!.... and its ok to share the luv with another guy....as long as theres no touching of willies,,,, sheeezzzzzzz

*puts on deep voice and puffs out chest* Yes, well...non of that nonsense here...I'm off to watch the Foote and drink beer now...

*points at nearest female*

Cor! Show us yer tits luv???

Hey hey hey! If there's any manhugging going on a I want a bit of the action guys, come here you two!

((((manly huggles with no willies touching))))

awww Funkster.....Here Cop this... this is my no-touching-willies man-hug to you... (((HUG)))… however, I'll leave Viccyboi to his own devices, and let you two grind out whatever type of macho style man-hug suites you both best,,,,.... and I promise not to peep while your doing it...ahem…… I can see ya …… "

Oh go on then...nobodies watching ((HUG))

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