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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

this is for all the single people out there....

do you class yourself as a swinger, or someone who just enjoys sex (and lots of it!)

I'd say I was the latter...which are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who enjoys sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically singles are not swingers. I just shag around lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who adores sex here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a swinger looking for friend and regular

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I see myself as having fun an sex is fun i don't see myself as a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who enjoys good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

Sex addicted:p

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Some one who enjoys great sex xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as a swinger... never used to but now I go to clubs and meet with couples I do.

Before that I was just a slut looking for single male versions of me.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"this is for all the single people out there....

do you class yourself as a swinger, or someone who just enjoys sex (and lots of it!)

I'd say I was the latter...which are you?"

I agree I'm not a swinger as a single but when joining couples I become part of the swing world

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm the shittest swinger alive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say a bit of both, I've had group sex with couples, they were swinging, therefore so was I, I've attended swingers clubs, I'm a member there so by definition I am also a swinger.

I also meet people one on one, that's not swinging.

Although I dont get why people are so precious about the term, some people guard the name like its a valuable commodity. Its just a word that describes a group of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure swinger is the right word for a single guy and I think everybody enjoys sex lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the word "Swinger" in the 60's defined someone who "Swung" both ways ?? .... I definitely just adore copious amounts of messy sex !!!....

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Not a swinger, but I meet people who are sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the word "Swinger" related to person who "Swung " both ways ?? I think I just prefer good old sweaty hetro sex !!!..

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I am whatever I want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only adopted this lifestyle because my preferred situation is no longer an option.....

This lifestyle allows me to have a sex life with a degree of emotional detachment that help me deal with the circumstance I'm in......

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I love sex about as much as is humanly possible. I adore being around women more than I like being around oxygen. The fact that I'm not getting any at the minute is by the by I just wouldn't see any point in putting a label on what is essentially just sex, albeit sex with a variety of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who enjoys sex but up for a swinging relationship.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

The latter also.

Currently at least..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a swinger looking for friend and regular "

this

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Technically singles are not swingers. I just shag around lol "

Wikipedia says nothing about swingers only being couples.

I'm a swinger. I'm on Fabswingers, I go to Swingfields and swinging clubs, I have swinger friends. Ergo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"someone who just enjoys sex (and lots of it!)"

I'd definitely class myself as this.....As most others I'd imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Headonist

Sexual adventurer

Buffet of sexual pleasure

Take your pick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Technically singles are not swingers. I just shag around lol

Wikipedia says nothing about swingers only being couples.

I'm a swinger. I'm on Fabswingers, I go to Swingfields and swinging clubs, I have swinger friends. Ergo..."

*waits for someone to edit wikipedia*

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I class myself as someone who enjoys sex, exploring my boundaries and opening up to new ideas. I'm not a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a swingle

And yes I love sex

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Swinger. Very much into the dynamics and social aspects of swinging, not just the casual sex.

Now to find someone to swing with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id say a bit of both, I've had group sex with couples, they were swinging, therefore so was I, I've attended swingers clubs, I'm a member there so by definition I am also a swinger.

I also meet people one on one, that's not swinging.

Although I dont get why people are so precious about the term, some people guard the name like its a valuable commodity. Its just a word that describes a group of people"

I won't use the term 'Swinger' for myself because I'm not an elitist knob, which is the type of (some) people I think the term has been adopted by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no label i just love good sex

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Just happy meeting nice people for casual sex, so call me what ever you want....as i don't need a label .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is for all the single people out there....

do you class yourself as a swinger, or someone who just enjoys sex (and lots of it!)

I'd say I was the latter...which are you?"

Labels. Does it matter? What is the difference?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I thought you had to be part of a couple to be a swinger

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"Just happy meeting nice people for casual sex, so call me what ever you want....as i don't need a label ....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just happy meeting nice people for casual sex, so call me what ever you want....as i don't need a label ..... "
this 2 X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought you had to be part of a couple to be a swinger"

Some people think that.

In the 1960's.

Some people think being a swinger is a personal thing, about who you are and your attitude to sex. So anyone can be a swinger.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Someone who enjoys sex but up for a swinging relationship. "

this for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinger

If I just enjoyed sex I would settle down to enjoy sex

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I thought you had to be part of a couple to be a swinger

Some people think that.

In the 1960's.

Some people think being a swinger is a personal thing, about who you are and your attitude to sex. So anyone can be a swinger. "

Think I'm just someone who has sex then,it's far less confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The later...in theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is for all the single people out there....

do you class yourself as a swinger, or someone who just enjoys sex (and lots of it!)

I'd say I was the latter...which are you?"

They latter here too ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After going to a swingers club last week for the first time, I would say I'm not a swinger!

I just love fucking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just someone who enjoys sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy sex, Talking about sex and watching people having sex, I like meeting new people but I wouldn't call myself a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who enjoys sex, I dont think I have enough of it to make me a swinger

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I see myself as a liberated single fem

An have experimented sexually it has been a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread. I wonder if the term 'swinger' has such bad connotations it puts people off using it for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy it without the attachment that comes with dating.... The boundaries can be further apart also. I refuse to mislead someone into thinkin it might go somewhere if I know it won't from the outset.

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By *omeotherguyMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Both, with the right person.

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

I love sex and enjoy it with others. When i was in a relationship I was a swinger but now I am single I suppose I am just someone who is honest about what he wants which is sex but with a social side.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I did all the swingjng I wanted to and thoroughly enjoyed it and now I am just enjoying some great sex

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Definitely the latter. I've never considered myself a swinging

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Definitely the latter. I've never considered myself a swinging "

a swinging?

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Possibly f buddy s or friends with benefits is the modern term

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Definitely the latter. I've never considered myself a swinging

a swinging?"

My phone will get me into some serious trouble some day

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Definitely the latter. I've never considered myself a swinging

a swinging?

My phone will get me into some serious trouble some day "

I'm thinking cheeky swinging monkey,no?!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a swinger looking for friend and regular "

I forgot to say emojis are banned from this discussion....this is a serious thread yanno!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely the latter. I've never considered myself a swinging "

trapeze artist?

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

I like sex lots of it too !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just enjoy it without the attachment that comes with dating.... The boundaries can be further apart also. I refuse to mislead someone into thinkin it might go somewhere if I know it won't from the outset. "

but do you class yourself as a swinger or not?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Definitely the latter. I've never considered myself a swinging

a swinging?

My phone will get me into some serious trouble some day

I'm thinking cheeky swinging monkey,no?!"

I'm a bit big to be a monkey possibly a gorilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread. I wonder if the term 'swinger' has such bad connotations it puts people off using it for themselves. "

Those dirty swingers are the other people that have sex with multiple partners! Eurgh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a swinger looking for friend and regular

I forgot to say emojis are banned from this discussion....this is a serious thread yanno!!"

by the looks of things swingers are banned from it to the concensus is we all want good sex and regularly with someone we like and whose name we know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just enjoy it without the attachment that comes with dating.... The boundaries can be further apart also. I refuse to mislead someone into thinkin it might go somewhere if I know it won't from the outset.

but do you class yourself as a swinger or not?"

I'm not really sure, wouldn't be offended if others thought I was.. I suppose I would describe myself as promiscuous (safe always until familiarity and both checked out).. Or the 1960's version of swinging, as opposed to wife swapping. Open minded about it really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting thread. I wonder if the term 'swinger' has such bad connotations it puts people off using it for themselves.

Those dirty swingers are the other people that have sex with multiple partners! Eurgh! "

It's scandalous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a swinger looking for friend and regular

I forgot to say emojis are banned from this discussion....this is a serious thread yanno!!"

I don't do seriarse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a bampot.....

A bampot that likes to fuck!

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By *im le2Man
over a year ago

AYLESTONE

I just like sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the whole swinging scene, I also adore having sex, I,d class myself as a swinger

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