FabSwingers.com forum: Lights on lights off ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Preferred and why ??

For me lights on all the way !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me either way.

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

it's how the karate kid likes it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like lights on but for some reason guys always turn them off

Seriously, it depends on the mood and ambiance...

-Courtney

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Waking up in the middle of the night and having a fumble: off.

Otherwise, on.

Better with just a lamp on though maybe.

Or candles.

Or opening the curtains if there's a strong moon.

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

Depends .... Given the mood both can be sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Preferred and why ??

For me lights on all the way !

Lights on, if it's dark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pitch black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft lighting....dont do fumbles in the dark.. Unless I'm blindfolded

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol

I like lights on but not bright.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Pitch black

And ankle length nighty, lifted just enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on ........ xxx

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

On... Want to see what i "eat"::p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on for us ,we like to see eachothers faces and bodies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft lighting such as candlelight or lamp light. As i like to see all the delights that are coming my way. To me visual stimulation is a big turn on.

Definitely not a 100 watt bulb shining in my eyes, would feel as though I'm being interrogated by the Gestapo.

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By *iouxBWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I like soft lights so I can see as well as feel

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Lights on..... a side light, not a big bright light. Soft lighting preferred.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both...

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I'm shy but I'm also afraid of the dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mood lighting rather than studio lights!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I'm shy but I'm also afraid of the dark

BOO!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Situation.

I'm going to fence sit a choose dim, ambient lighting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like soft lighting or candles. Bright lights make me feel like I'm under a spotlight !

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm shy but I'm also afraid of the dark

Bless your cotton socks

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

On but not the big light. I only put the big light on when I'm hoovering.

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"On but not the big light. I only put the big light on when I'm hoovering.

All that sucking needs good lighting? *hides*

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

Lights off at home, because that is what my wife insists on. And for that reason, lights ON with anyone else.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Off for sleeping.

Dimmed for having fun.

Seems to be staying off a lot lately.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Lights on is my preference, the visual stimulation is also a great part of the intimacy, soft mood lighting is great

But Off for zzzzzzzzzzzzzz.. (But it can also be fun in the Dark too..)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On for naughty stuff. Off for cuddly sex.

Both good.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"I'm shy but I'm also afraid of the dark

BOO!!!"

I'm always nice to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On!

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Depends.....have dimaable led light in lamp in bedroom bright or low can also pulse through all the colours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft lighting preferred or open curtains to shed a little light into the room, assuming this does not mean folks can stare into the room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm Soft lighting so I can see him and his eyes and he can see me......dark fumbles with moonlight for the midnight snack......

Mwah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Yikes....

On for Fucking

Off for Sleeping

Simples

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I like candle light

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

I love candles but safer with led candles just in case one gets knocked over

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I love candles but safer with led candles just in case one gets knocked over

I put them on my fireplace away from the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends if the car doors are open or not lol

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

"I love candles but safer with led candles just in case one gets knocked over

I put them on my fireplace away from the bed

and hotel room smoke alarms don't like candles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On i like to see what im eating

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I love candles but safer with led candles just in case one gets knocked over

I put them on my fireplace away from the bed

and hotel room smoke alarms don't like candles

I don't use them in hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on but soft lights ,I like to see what I'm sucking lol,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

In the main...lights on but just sometimes its nice to play slowly in total darkness..just to shut off that one sense.

It's kinda cool..you cant see where your touching or being touched so have to let other senses guide you. You have to pay more attention to the sounds and movements a person makes..yeah...its just different i suppose now and again

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Then third option would be to leave the lights on (not too bright, as already suggested) and one of you wears a blindfold. That way, the senses are heightened for the blindfold wearer and there's no fumbling around in the dark for any 'accessories'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer lights off with just enough light to see

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

Lights on pkease

Just not too bright

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like lights on but for some reason guys always turn them off

Seriously, it depends on the mood and ambiance...

-Courtney "

No confidence if your a guy and switch the light off I think...

You got to enjoy the view of your mission

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