FabSwingers.com forum: Rant for today!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thursday is rant day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But i wouldnt be able to perv then

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

I get you!

But it adds to the thrill if you assume it's a real, bona fide person who is the same as the one depicted in the profile/pictures surely?

"But i wouldnt be able to perv then

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

But why should people be forced to meet?

Why should people be forced to leave veris?

Veris do not guarantee genuine.

And it's pretty harsh for people who can't get meets.

Like, I get people get frustrated by people who are "fake", but forced veris don't sound like the solution if I'm honest.

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

I've been stood up twice by veris ... Does that mean I should cry looking for a red button?

People will meet if they want to and sometimes you get unlucky or something unfortunate could have happened to interfere !!!

Just don't bother arranging to meet them again and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not saying that.. Just fed up with folks arranging mets then not turning up.. It's just rude and ill mannered..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

Why does it bother you? Can't people run their accounts as they wish?

Unverified? Ignore them .. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've been stood up twice by veris ... Does that mean I should cry looking for a red button?

People will meet if they want to and sometimes you get unlucky or something unfortunate could have happened to interfere !!!

Just don't bother arranging to meet them again and move on

I do simple report and block..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

Why take the accounts off? No-one is forced to mail them.

Common sense goes a long way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab should delete party profiles that charge silly £s for condoms,snacks etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

Only issue is what happens when you have a meeting that doesn't verify you as they are not verified, or just doesn't verify you.

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!!

Why does it bother you? Can't people run their accounts as they wish?

Unverified? Ignore them .. Simples! "

Bit harsh !!! I'm new to this site so not verified yet. Does that mean I should be ignored ?

Sometimes newbies can turn out to be a real gem so everyone should be given a fair chance and its up to each individual to choose wisely !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I meet and have verifications from when I first joined which I keep hidden.

With new friends I don't do verifications or ask for them as I choose to keep my friendships private.

Verifications aren't to everyone liking and aren't instrumental in my decision to meet.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't have a new verification so I would be kicked off and having been since the site opened and paid site supporter, I would prefer to stay and enjoy the site.

You do your thing, I will do mine differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!!

Why does it bother you? Can't people run their accounts as they wish?

Unverified? Ignore them .. Simples!

Bit harsh !!! I'm new to this site so not verified yet. Does that mean I should be ignored ?

Sometimes newbies can turn out to be a real gem so everyone should be given a fair chance and its up to each individual to choose wisely !!"

BTW hard to ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!!

Why does it bother you? Can't people run their accounts as they wish?

Unverified? Ignore them .. Simples!

Bit harsh !!! I'm new to this site so not verified yet. Does that mean I should be ignored ?

Sometimes newbies can turn out to be a real gem so everyone should be given a fair chance and its up to each individual to choose wisely !!"

Some people have no common sense and have to use verifications as their main/ only tool in deciding whether the meet people.

Some people have brains and meet newbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!!

Why does it bother you? Can't people run their accounts as they wish?

Unverified? Ignore them .. Simples!

Bit harsh !!! I'm new to this site so not verified yet. Does that mean I should be ignored ?

Sometimes newbies can turn out to be a real gem so everyone should be given a fair chance and its up to each individual to choose wisely !!"

That's not what I meant! If the OP doesn't want to meet unverified accounts or have them thrown off, then all she needs to do is ignore them rather than have this 'big red button'.

I agree 100% with you - it took me a while to get verified and in no way am I suggesting that as a general rule for the site - just for the OP if she doesn't like them!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

My last veri was September 2014. Are you going to delete my account too OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off"

*waves goodbye*

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By *y LiegeMan
over a year ago

solihull

I agree its amazing how many on here are fakes... im slowly learning to spot the signs .. but there is no sure way of knowing.. verified or not... drives me daft!!

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!!

Why does it bother you? Can't people run their accounts as they wish?

Unverified? Ignore them .. Simples!

Bit harsh !!! I'm new to this site so not verified yet. Does that mean I should be ignored ?

Sometimes newbies can turn out to be a real gem so everyone should be given a fair chance and its up to each individual to choose wisely !!

BTW hard to ignore

Wait did the beautiful lady just playfully slap me with a compliment

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I think fab should delete party profiles that charge silly £s for condoms,snacks etc

Take a look at the profile for The Annex, (theannex), and the section on Slaves of Subjection if you think private parties can be bad. That's a legitimate club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got given a fake veri this week witch I reported but it still shows on my pro as a veri.....should i leave op????

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!!

Why does it bother you? Can't people run their accounts as they wish?

Unverified? Ignore them .. Simples!

Bit harsh !!! I'm new to this site so not verified yet. Does that mean I should be ignored ?

Sometimes newbies can turn out to be a real gem so everyone should be given a fair chance and its up to each individual to choose wisely !!

Some people have no common sense and have to use verifications as their main/ only tool in deciding whether the meet people.

Some people have brains and meet newbies.

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!!

Why does it bother you? Can't people run their accounts as they wish?

Unverified? Ignore them .. Simples!

Bit harsh !!! I'm new to this site so not verified yet. Does that mean I should be ignored ?

Sometimes newbies can turn out to be a real gem so everyone should be given a fair chance and its up to each individual to choose wisely !!

That's not what I meant! If the OP doesn't want to meet unverified accounts or have them thrown off, then all she needs to do is ignore them rather than have this 'big red button'.

I agree 100% with you - it took me a while to get verified and in no way am I suggesting that as a general rule for the site - just for the OP if she doesn't like them!

Wasn't meant to come across as a snipe at you Dan! Apologies if it did

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree its amazing how many on here are fakes... im slowly learning to spot the signs .. but there is no sure way of knowing.. verified or not... drives me daft!!"

Exactly and the time wasters too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got given a fake veri this week witch I reported but it still shows on my pro as a veri.....should i leave op????

Missing the point!! Fab needs to try and combat the fake accounts and time wasters on here.. We all hate single guys saying there couples etc.. More needs to be done..

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"I got given a fake veri this week witch I reported but it still shows on my pro as a veri.....should i leave op????

Missing the point!! Fab needs to try and combat the fake accounts and time wasters on here.. We all hate single guys saying there couples etc.. More needs to be done.. "

You get fakes in all walks of life ... It would be helpful I suppose but very open to abuse! So I've no idea how it could be made to work

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I.. More needs to be done.. "

What could you do differently?

It is frustrating but nevertheless, a tough one to crack

The site provides tools to use, they can only minimise the risk never eradicate it

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I was going to comment but I can't be arsed I'm a fake

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"I was going to comment but I can't be arsed I'm a fake

Good job I ducked you in the other thread then or id have been stood up again

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I got given a fake veri this week witch I reported but it still shows on my pro as a veri.....should i leave op????

Missing the point!! Fab needs to try and combat the fake accounts and time wasters on here.. We all hate single guys saying there couples etc.. More needs to be done.. "

What more can they do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been stood up 6 times by people with verifications.. I've been here 4 wks and don't have one but doesn't mean to say I'm not real

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"I've been stood up 6 times by people with verifications.. I've been here 4 wks and don't have one but doesn't mean to say I'm not real

Was definitely their loss !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got given a fake veri this week witch I reported but it still shows on my pro as a veri.....should i leave op????

Missing the point!! Fab needs to try and combat the fake accounts and time wasters on here.. We all hate single guys saying there couples etc.. More needs to be done.. "

The only way fab can combat the fake accounts is by people reporting fake veris and none meets. If enoght people complaint a bout a account I'm sure fab would remove the account but what's stopping then makin a new account. It's the nature of the beast and up to the user's to keep thiers wits about them. I'm sure we have all at one point fallen fowl to a fake account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been stood up 6 times by people with verifications.. I've been here 4 wks and don't have one but doesn't mean to say I'm not real

Was definitely their loss !!! "

Thanks but I've had so much time effort and money wasted I'm rather fed up with bit tbh

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I was going to comment but I can't be arsed I'm a fake

Good job I ducked you in the other thread then or id have been stood up again

I'd guarantee it

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"I got given a fake veri this week witch I reported but it still shows on my pro as a veri.....should i leave op????

Missing the point!! Fab needs to try and combat the fake accounts and time wasters on here.. We all hate single guys saying there couples etc.. More needs to be done..

But you would also have the problem of fake "reports" like I could report you for a no show and would be very hard for you to prove otherwise

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I've been stood up 6 times by people with verifications.. I've been here 4 wks and don't have one but doesn't mean to say I'm not real

God damn them miles

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

It would just up the volume of fake verifications in my _iew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got given a fake veri this week witch I reported but it still shows on my pro as a veri.....should i leave op????

Missing the point!! Fab needs to try and combat the fake accounts and time wasters on here.. We all hate single guys saying there couples etc.. More needs to be done..

But you would also have the problem of fake "reports" like I could report you for a no show and would be very hard for you to prove otherwise"

Exactly!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been stood up 6 times by people with verifications.. I've been here 4 wks and don't have one but doesn't mean to say I'm not real

God damn them miles

Might have to start travelling miles as the guys around here sure don't appreciate my ass

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

"I got given a fake veri this week witch I reported but it still shows on my pro as a veri.....should i leave op????

Missing the point!! Fab needs to try and combat the fake accounts and time wasters on here.. We all hate single guys saying there couples etc.. More needs to be done..

Exactly... We should report and block.. The more folks do this the list time wasters there would be..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

Call that a rant?

So, how are these masses of time wasters spoiling your life on Fab?

And what steps have you taken to help yourself in this matter

why do you feel it's not working?

And why I'd that someone else's fault?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

Exactly what issue is they are causing you being on 6 months or a year and not being verified?

If you don't want contact from unverified people the site gives you the tools to filter your mails and block them. The rest is down to the individual as to what they want to use site for .

Why stress about those who clearly don't interest you ? Far more posative just to focus on the ones you are.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!!

Why does it bother you? Can't people run their accounts as they wish?

Unverified? Ignore them .. Simples! "

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

That means I'd get kicked out because nowadays I only meet friends whom I've met before and don't believe in duplicating veris from the same people...

a wee bit arbitrary methinks..

It's never a sound idea to make rules from rants

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I've been stood up 6 times by people with verifications.. I've been here 4 wks and don't have one but doesn't mean to say I'm not real

God damn them miles

Might have to start travelling miles as the guys around here sure don't appreciate my ass

Now that is sad not to mention a huge waste of a very nice arse

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

"I've been stood up 6 times by people with verifications.. I've been here 4 wks and don't have one but doesn't mean to say I'm not real

God damn them miles

Might have to start travelling miles as the guys around here sure don't appreciate my ass

Now that is sad not to mention a huge waste of a very nice arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My rant is shit relations.. Cousins.. Lazy bastards who drop others in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just write all my own verifications took me a while and a lot of different email addresses but hey here Iam. verified

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I got given a fake veri this week witch I reported but it still shows on my pro as a veri.....should i leave op????

Missing the point!! Fab needs to try and combat the fake accounts and time wasters on here.. We all hate single guys saying there couples etc.. More needs to be done.. "

In my experience I think single women only meeting with an FB is more common than single guys pretending to be a couple.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"I got given a fake veri this week witch I reported but it still shows on my pro as a veri.....should i leave op????

Missing the point!! Fab needs to try and combat the fake accounts and time wasters on here.. We all hate single guys saying there couples etc.. More needs to be done..

In my experience I think single women only meeting with an FB is more common than single guys pretending to be a couple."

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Who let Thursday in?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thursday is rant day"

Some people just can't wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

Fab provides all the tools you need, except one.

First filter new and unverified members.

Second, don't look at new and unverified members.

Third, don't initiate contact with new and unverified members.

Fourth, use the one tool Fab can't give you and what lots of people don't have; a smidgeon of gumption.

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By *eedelightsWoman
over a year ago

London

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Should I be taken off as I have no veri in last 6 months?

Please fab sort it out!!! "

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Thursday is rant day

Some people just can't wait.

As somebody famous says on here:

Patience is the key!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who let Thursday in?!

That's a lol'er right there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thursday is rant day

Some people just can't wait.

As somebody famous says on here:

Patience is the key!

It's only a few hours away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know loads who meet but havent got a veri, use the tools on here and your gut.. thats what i do and ive never had a fake meet or or that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But why should people be forced to meet?

Why should people be forced to leave veris?

Veris do not guarantee genuine.

And it's pretty harsh for people who can't get meets.

Like, I get people get frustrated by people who are "fake", but forced veris don't sound like the solution if I'm honest.

Exactly.. if people dont like it then its simple... delete the profile

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I haven't met anyone from here for sex since July - A few more months and I would be kicked off?

It's not a lack of trying that is for sure!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

And no

1.You can report no shows on " report profile."

2. Why should anyone have to have veris? They are meaningless anyway.

3. There are plenty of people who have had no shoes from verified people ( genuinely verified people, )

4. Lots of people don't get veris; some have difficulty getting them.

5. Some don't want veris ( I don't ; I have a few because people ingnored my requests not to leave them)

6. Just chill; learn to spot the potential no shows and fakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

OP, we go many months between meets sometimes. This may be because we are not in the mood or because we can't see anyone we fancy. We rarely get taken in by "fakes," however, so cannot see a problem. Why do you see a problem?

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

Ooh stroppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sucks to be let down or messed about.

What you propose wouldn't fix the problem.

Just try to better filter people out and try not to put yourself in a situation where you'll be too disappointed.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It sucks to be let down or messed about.

What you propose wouldn't fix the problem.

Just try to better filter people out and try not to put yourself in a situation where you'll be too disappointed.

-Courtney "

No no no no no!!!!!!

That's far too sensible and provides no reason for a whine and a whinge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just write all my own verifications took me a while and a lot of different email addresses but hey here Iam. verified "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fakes and time wasters make you appreciate the genuine people more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!!

And no

1.You can report no shows on " report profile."

2. Why should anyone have to have veris? They are meaningless anyway.

3. There are plenty of people who have had no shoes from verified people ( genuinely verified people, )

4. Lots of people don't get veris; some have difficulty getting them.

5. Some don't want veris ( I don't ; I have a few because people ingnored my requests not to leave them)

6. Just chill; learn to spot the potential no shows and fakes.

Shit! ! Is that who you tell a fake person cos they don't give thier shoes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, even them who are verified waste time, being verified doesn't mean someone will turn up lol.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

OP, if verifications are so important to you, use your filters to exclude unverified, and use your eyes to check the date of their last published verification. The information you need is already on profiles, so you can make the site work for you the way you want it to.

The rest of us will go on using our own common sense, and guess what? Some of us DO meet unverified people! So the site works fine for us, just the way it is.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

*waves goodbye*"

I could rectify that... Just saying

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

We had a 3 day long meet last week - but we have no new Veri's for over 12 mths. Doesn't mean we're fake.... Just that we value our privacy

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab should design a "history" bar next to the person's profile.

Number of forum warnings

Number of forum bans

Number of warnings re abusive messages etc etc etc

It could also include number of historic profiles against the same IP address. This to work with a rule of no more than two live profiles against any IP address

Then we could see the people who are serial transgressors and simply close the offending profile and set up another

It would also be nice to have a very prominent "report abuse" button. The report goes to a moderator and if it's upheld a copy of the abusive message automatically appears on the abusers profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget the timewasters and fakes should be the whinge bags that are removed from the site.

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over a year ago

"When is fab going to do something about the time wasters n fake accounts... We need a BIG RED button..!!!!

If accounts have no veri after 6 months should be taken off

If accounts have had no new veri after 12 months to be taken off

Grrrrrrr.... Rant over for today

Please fab sort it out!!! "

OP buy yourself a tin of roses chocolates, get the wrapping from a strawberry cream, then stick it to your screen over the block button.

hey presto you have a big red button to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is an idea, wouldn't it be good if they scraped the veri system? lol.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

"... It could also include number of historic profiles against the same IP address... Then we could see the people who are serial transgressors and simply close the offending profile and set up another "

Most home broadband providers use dynamic IP addresses nowadays. A new IP address can be generated in seconds, merely by rebooting the router.

And since Admin have said that only 1-2% of members use the Forums, a statistic on Forum bans would be irrelevant for the vast majority of profiles.

The site owners have been running this site for many years, and I think we just have to TRUST them, to have already put in place any/all technological measure that can help reduce fakes and timewasters.

The one thing that Admin can't give us - and the one thing that really works for me! - is common sense.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Fab should design a "history" bar next to the person's profile.

Number of forum warnings

Number of forum bans

Number of warnings re abusive messages etc etc etc

It could also include number of historic profiles against the same IP address. This to work with a rule of no more than two live profiles against any IP address

Then we could see the people who are serial transgressors and simply close the offending profile and set up another

It would also be nice to have a very prominent "report abuse" button. The report goes to a moderator and if it's upheld a copy of the abusive message automatically appears on the abusers profile

You know that almost nobody has a static ip address, right?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Most home broadband providers use dynamic IP addresses nowadays. A new IP address can be generated in seconds, merely by rebooting the router.

And since Admin have said that only 1-2% of members use the Forums, a statistic on Forum bans would be irrelevant for the vast majority of profiles.

The one thing that Admin can't give us - and the one thing that really works for me! - is common sense."

Absolutely

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Besides, even people considered "trouble makers" on the fora, do meet and are reliable.

So forum infractions are no indication of being a timewaster or fake.

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By *mstillere2Man
over a year ago

middleport

Well ive been here never had a meet or a veri but have some good friends and good chats in forum and chat room and been site supporter most of that time so im not fake maybe a little shy when it comes too meets though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Err thanks for that I'll wait my impending doom in a few months. It was fun whilst I was allowed here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Besides, even people considered "trouble makers" on the fora, do meet and are reliable.

So forum infractions are no indication of being a timewaster or fake."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forget the timewasters and fakes should be the whinge bags that are removed from the site."

Hahaha

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over a year ago

Most home broadband providers use dynamic IP addresses nowadays. A new IP address can be generated in seconds, merely by rebooting the router.

And since Admin have said that only 1-2% of members use the Forums, a statistic on Forum bans would be irrelevant for the vast majority of profiles.

The one thing that Admin can't give us - and the one thing that really works for me! - is common sense."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is an idea, wouldn't it be good if they scraped the veri system? lol."

No , we like the veri system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am neither a fake or a timewaster...

but then I would say that

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We're not too far away from a year with no new veries. Are we up for the chop?!

Fab will become like Logan's Run (well, not really)!

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