FabSwingers.com forum: FAB a pay site.

By *rincesscaracouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn

We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope cause id leave

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

There are lots of pay sites and they have just as many pricks and timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd probably leave, too. We pay for clubs, that's enough.

- Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, because I think a pay site gives some people an even more sense of entitlement.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.... Because what they all said ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it would work at all. If you only want to interact with people who have paid something, then set your filters so only site supporters can contact you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are lots of pay sites and they have just as many pricks and timewasters."

I have been on a pay site and its just as bad there even for guys you still get the...............................

dreamers messers fakes thrill and pic hunters etc.

It just goes with what we do there will always be idiots who spoil it for the genuine folks ??????.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pay sites have just as many idiots and time wasters as free sites

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By *rincesscaracouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?"

Ok I can see where you are coming from, a one off joining fee then ongoing site supporter fee as is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is fab is to popular at the moment 2 years ago in the evening the was at most say 18000 profiles online , nowadays it's more like 26000. We're taking a guess that about 35% are verified

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Just do a forum search and you will find this topic discussed a million times; with the overwhelming answer that:

1. Pay sites have as many , if not more " pricks" than Fab.

2. Hordes of the genuine would leave. So fab would die.

The joy of fab is that it has a rather nice friendly " amateurish" feel about it; which you certainly don't get on the commercialised pay sites.

And you are given some tools ( filters etc) to help with ing out the " pricks". Use them and stop whinging.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?"

There are just as many tossers on pay sites as here...

If you want to filter those who dont pay from your pool of possible playmates start supporting the site and use the site supporters only filter

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

"Just do a forum search and you will find this topic discussed a million times; with the overwhelming answer that:

1. Pay sites have as many , if not more " pricks" than Fab.

2. Hordes of the genuine would leave. So fab would die.

The joy of fab is that it has a rather nice friendly " amateurish" feel about it; which you certainly don't get on the commercialised pay sites.

And you are given some tools ( filters etc) to help with ing out the " pricks". Use them and stop whinging."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just do a forum search and you will find this topic discussed a million times; with the overwhelming answer that:

1. Pay sites have as many , if not more " pricks" than Fab.

2. Hordes of the genuine would leave. So fab would die.

The joy of fab is that it has a rather nice friendly " amateurish" feel about it; which you certainly don't get on the commercialised pay sites.

And you are given some tools ( filters etc) to help with ing out the " pricks". Use them and stop whinging."

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?

Ok I can see where you are coming from, a one off joining fee then ongoing site supporter fee as is?"

Are you talking to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be on a pay site and from what i saw there were far more girls looking for money etc in return for sex. Whether it was because they thought people paid for the site so they would be prepared to pay for sex i couldnt say. But every guy i talked to got lots of messages but almost all were sugar daddy hunters...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?

Ok I can see where you are coming from, a one off joining fee then ongoing site supporter fee as is?"

When you go to a club single guys always pay a premium rate to get in,this usually deters the wannabee's from getting in and spoiling it for the genuine guys seeking fun.

There could be a similer thing on fabs except????? and as will be pointed out the clever guys will just pose as a couple to join and then post "my partner is ill at the mo so swinging on my own" for now.......yeah right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?"
most would leave especially guys its a nightmare here for us as it is

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

FFS! Its every 5 mins! Then leave, and join One of the many paysites!!!

You think it gets better than fab for a website?!

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By *rincesscaracouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?

Ok I can see where you are coming from, a one off joining fee then ongoing site supporter fee as is?

When you go to a club single guys always pay a premium rate to get in,this usually deters the wannabee's from getting in and spoiling it for the genuine guys seeking fun.

I agree but if they stood to lose money less would do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think? most would leave especially guys its a nightmare here for us as it is

I am a single guy and disagree its all down to patience and understanding of what couples and single women want and not what we guys want.

Its only a nightmare if you make it one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?

Ok I can see where you are coming from, a one off joining fee then ongoing site supporter fee as is?

When you go to a club single guys always pay a premium rate to get in,this usually deters the wannabee's from getting in and spoiling it for the genuine guys seeking fun.

I agree but if they stood to lose money less would do it."

Try and get in to Libertys in Lutterworth as a single guy and see what they charge to join as well as the fee to get in on a saturday ???.

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By *rincesscaracouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn

I don't think there's any need for that! If you ain't happy on fab then by all means go and spend your hard earned cash elsewhere! "

Did anyone say they weren't happy? It was a bloody opinion on a possible solution to something everyone here moans about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?

Ok I can see where you are coming from, a one off joining fee then ongoing site supporter fee as is?

When you go to a club single guys always pay a premium rate to get in,this usually deters the wannabee's from getting in and spoiling it for the genuine guys seeking fun.

I agree but if they stood to lose money less would do it."

I am afraid not. I have used pay sites. Just as many loonies. It would be no cure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be a member of a leading NSA site and single guys had to pay in excess of £30 per month.

There were probably more knobs on there than in fab

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?"

There are loads of pricks and wasters on pay sites too.

You get out what you put in. Rather than whinging about how it's not working for you, try a different approach to make it work better for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?"

Leave fab and join a pay site. problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my view people are very dubious of pay sites due to the number of automated members the same usually has in an attempt to take your money - in other words they are often a con.

I think you need to think back to when you first joined fab and whether you would have still joined had it been a pay site. I suspect I would have dismissed it as I dismiss others. It was not until I became a member that I realised it was 'legitimate' so to speak.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't think there's any need for that! If you ain't happy on fab then by all means go and spend your hard earned cash elsewhere!

Did anyone say they weren't happy? It was a bloody opinion on a possible solution to something everyone here moans about."

I don't moan about it so clearly not everyone moans about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's any need for that! If you ain't happy on fab then by all means go and spend your hard earned cash elsewhere!

Did anyone say they weren't happy? It was a bloody opinion on a possible solution to something everyone here moans about."

Everyone moans about what?

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By *rincesscaracouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?

There are loads of pricks and wasters on pay sites too.

You get out what you put in. Rather than whinging about how it's not working for you, try a different approach to make it work better for you.

Who said it wasnt working for us?? FFS we could have a meet every night of the week if we wanted I repeat it was an OPINION!!

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By *rincesscaracouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn

I don't think there's any need for that! If you ain't happy on fab then by all means go and spend your hard earned cash elsewhere!

Did anyone say they weren't happy? It was a bloody opinion on a possible solution to something everyone here moans about.

Everyone moans about what?"

Time wasters and fakes. Count the threads about it.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Time wasters have money too Yano

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's any need for that! If you ain't happy on fab then by all means go and spend your hard earned cash elsewhere!

Did anyone say they weren't happy? It was a bloody opinion on a possible solution to something everyone here moans about."

Your a very angry person ain't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think? most would leave especially guys its a nightmare here for us as it is

I am a single guy and disagree its all down to patience and understanding of what couples and single women want and not what we guys want.

Its only a nightmare if you make it one."
hehe hey you have cracked it then ,share your secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?"

How much would you charge? How would you determine that the cost was the optimum one that elimnated 'pricks and wasters' but didn't put off the 'genuine' swingers?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?

There are loads of pricks and wasters on pay sites too.

You get out what you put in. Rather than whinging about how it's not working for you, try a different approach to make it work better for you.

Who said it wasnt working for us?? FFS we could have a meet every night of the week if we wanted I repeat it was an OPINION!!"

So why do you want it to be a pay site? If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

And don't shout at me, my hearing is perfectly fine thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem is fab is to popular at the moment 2 years ago in the evening the was at most say 18000 profiles online , nowadays it's more like 26000. We're taking a guess that about 35% are verified

So why don't you only message verified people? And only site supporters? Then you're achieving what you want. It's so easy to ignore the people you think have made up that difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody is in a mardy today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's any need for that! If you ain't happy on fab then by all means go and spend your hard earned cash elsewhere!

Did anyone say they weren't happy? It was a bloody opinion on a possible solution to something everyone here moans about.

Everyone moans about what?

Time wasters and fakes. Count the threads about it."

Do you think you are confusing 'everyone' with 'some'?

Been on the scene for years and never had a problem. Know plenty of other people that say the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's any need for that! If you ain't happy on fab then by all means go and spend your hard earned cash elsewhere!

Did anyone say they weren't happy? It was a bloody opinion on a possible solution to something everyone here moans about.

I don't moan about it so clearly not everyone moans about it."

With all this moaning going on anyone would think it was a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it would work at all. If you only want to interact with people who have paid something, then set your filters so only site supporters can contact you."

Yep this exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?

There are loads of pricks and wasters on pay sites too.

You get out what you put in. Rather than whinging about how it's not working for you, try a different approach to make it work better for you.

Who said it wasnt working for us?? FFS we could have a meet every night of the week if we wanted I repeat it was an OPINION!!"

If you could have a meet every night. surely that negates the claim about timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair to the op if someone call me a whinger when i just asked for an opnion i wouldnt be diplomatic about it either.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I don't think there's any need for that! If you ain't happy on fab then by all means go and spend your hard earned cash elsewhere!

Did anyone say they weren't happy? It was a bloody opinion on a possible solution to something everyone here moans about.

Everyone moans about what?

Time wasters and fakes. Count the threads about it."

So if you already know how many threads there are about it, you already know what the overwhelming opinion of site members is; and don't need to ask again?

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By *rincesscaracouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"To be fair to the op if someone call me a whinger when i just asked for an opnion i wouldnt be diplomatic about it either. "

Thank you.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"To be fair to the op if someone call me a whinger when i just asked for an opnion i wouldnt be diplomatic about it either. "

I would have said the same had I not read the 'you're all tossers'thread first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am I not wrong in thinking it's already a paid site xx just go for the verified people surely that's what it's there for xx

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By *rincesscaracouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Saltburn

I don't think there's any need for that! If you ain't happy on fab then by all means go and spend your hard earned cash elsewhere!

Did anyone say they weren't happy? It was a bloody opinion on a possible solution to something everyone here moans about.

Everyone moans about what?

Time wasters and fakes. Count the threads about it.

So if you already know how many threads there are about it, you already know what the overwhelming opinion of site members is; and don't need to ask again?

I asked how many threads about wasters and fakes NOT fab being a paysite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I've ever payed is to cheak on a member whom I suspected was giving me the run around as to his location. Thankfully my doubts where disproven. This is the only reason why id pay again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair to the op if someone call me a whinger when i just asked for an opnion i wouldnt be diplomatic about it either. "

And if it was you, I probably wouldn't answer the same way. But green arrow and profile tell me all I need to know in this case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair to the op if someone call me a whinger when i just asked for an opnion i wouldnt be diplomatic about it either.

I would have said the same had I not read the 'you're all tossers'thread first.

I know i was here pre tossers

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Great idea !!! I could pay to be ignored and deleted unread..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair to the op if someone call me a whinger when i just asked for an opnion i wouldnt be diplomatic about it either.

I would have said the same had I not read the 'you're all tossers'thread first.

Yes the green arrow is often a godsend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the risk of repeating what others have said, the pay sites are set up to wring as much cash as they can from you, they have fake 'bot' profiles to make you think that you're being interacted with. Plus the level of entitled single males rises dramatically, they've paid so they expect sex now!

Fab is the only site I've encountered where the members actually genuinely converse and truthfully interact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We think FAB would be a better place if it was changed to a pay site. We think it would get rid of a lot of the pricks and wasters.

What do you think?"

We are neither pricks or wasters but we would leave if we had to pay to be here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's any need for that! If you ain't happy on fab then by all means go and spend your hard earned cash elsewhere!

Did anyone say they weren't happy? It was a bloody opinion on a possible solution to something everyone here moans about.

Everyone moans about what?

Time wasters and fakes. Count the threads about it."
count the verifications on people's profiles lots of successful meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair to the op if someone call me a whinger when i just asked for an opnion i wouldnt be diplomatic about it either.

And if it was you, I probably wouldn't answer the same way. But green arrow and profile tell me all I need to know in this case

I rarely green arrow tbh x

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And on that note, I think it's best left there.

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