FabSwingers.com forum: What do you wear for a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm supposed to be on a forum break but I'm bored lol

I have a meet very soon and I've got my lingerie sorted but now I'm struggling on deciding what to wear. It will more than likely be a dress of sorts probably one that nips in at the waist because I'm bottom heavy. I've been looking at cut out sweetheart dresses and there's some gorgeous vintage type ones about.

Anyway, it got me thinking what does everyone else like to wear for meets? - I'm so nosey

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

A condom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I've seen, you have a nice dress sense, so wear what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A condom?"

good to know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll tend to go smart casual if I can .. Shirt, tidy trousers, shoes rather than trainers etc.

I'm less bothered about what the lady wears as long as they bring a smile and a positive attitude it's all good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From what I've seen, you have a nice dress sense, so wear what you want. "

Aww thank you lovely, that's nice of you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear what I feel good in, which will be a classy, form-fitting dress, high heels, and whatever lingerie takes my fancy at the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll tend to go smart casual if I can .. Shirt, tidy trousers, shoes rather than trainers etc.

I'm less bothered about what the lady wears as long as they bring a smile and a positive attitude it's all good

Always good to see a man put the effort in

sounds good that's nice to hear xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wear what I feel good in, which will be a classy, form-fitting dress, high heels, and whatever lingerie takes my fancy at the time."

Sounds gorgeous xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear riggers a high viz and hard hat some of these women are a bit rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black slim fit Dickies shirt, brown DMs, turned up jeans and burgundy Harrington last night.

It either did the trick, or the complete opposite, because it was all off within an hour

(This wasn't a sex meet, started off as a regular 'date' (hate that word eugh)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear what I feel good in, which will be a classy, form-fitting dress, high heels, and whatever lingerie takes my fancy at the time.

Sounds gorgeous xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy in a relationship , P drives me up the fuckin wall with what to wear

She either turns it into a guineas world record attempt at how many layers up to and including duffer coat she can't get on or that no slinky sexy thing fits her on this particular day even though it fitted fine last week.

Start with what you feel sexy in that is not too naked if you decide not to play ,, think going clubbing with half an intention of pulling

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It depends where we are going and if it's a day or night meet. I make an effort always but try and dress comfortably even if what's underneath isn't quite so comfy!!

Have a great time

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

For me it depends on where the meet is taking place. I do love my vintage style tea dresses from Lady V as they really suit my shape but they make me look a bit sweet & innocent!!

I do have my trusted little black dress but would love to find a few new ones. I end up buying shoes instead though!!

Oh to be a man..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual tends to be the rule, nice shirt, trousers and shoes.

Nothing I would be uncomfortable in.

Suits are too formal for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart casual tends to be the rule, nice shirt, trousers and shoes.

Nothing I would be uncomfortable in.

Suits are too formal for meets

Mind you, I have worn wellies, jeans and a barbour on occasion when it's been a walk in the countryside

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Trainers. In case I have to make a speedy exit!

Seriously, smart casual. Smart shoes, decent jeans, nice top, good aftershave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky pants! Freshly laundered. I have several.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally meet people either in the evening or when I've just left work, so it's smart dresses all the way for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally meet people either in the evening or when I've just left work, so it's smart dresses all the way for me. "

Love that look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear riggers a high viz and hard hat some of these women are a bit rough

Mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually something slutty but if it's at my flat I've been known to open the door naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally meet people either in the evening or when I've just left work, so it's smart dresses all the way for me. "

This for me too. Occassionally jeans if its just a social x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeans... t shirt...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on where & when I'm meeting them. Straight from work will be office attire so dresses, skirts / blouse. Other times I've met more casually in skinny jeans, top & heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really depends.

For a social - a cute dress and boots.

For a private meet - a sexy dress with nice lingerie. Either heels or sandals.

For a club - a sexy dress and lingerie that can be worn on its own without clothes but still cover me a bit so I'm comfortable.

My dresses tend to be tight on top and flowy on the bottom because I have a big butt compared to my waist. I like dresses with cut outs so you can see a bit if skin. I don't really wear heels that are high, 3" at the most.

-Courtney

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

What did I wear for a meet ?

A condom of course silly lol

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Usually something comfy, so jeans, a nice top (low cut

) & flats mostly as heels hurt my feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To start with, normally a suit.

Occasionally just jeans and a jumper, but still quite smart.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Depends on the meet. If it's at mine, not much, if it's a club, whatever I feel good in.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Always smart ( though usually smart casual).

But thats what I wear all the time....

I never wear trainers ( unless I am training)

Quite often a smart suit, tie etc; because most of my meets start with something social; and a lot of ladies like to make an event if it, as do I ; even though it will end up with insane sex, I am not really into shag and go....

And if the lady is making an effort to look good; then so do I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dresses tend to be tight on top and flowy on the bottom because I have a big butt compared to my waist.

-Courtney "

In a 'iddy biddy waist and a round thing in yo face' kinda way?

Step right up

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It all depends on the location. If public then a smart frock (usually a bit retro) of some description, mainly because I live in dresses everyday. The lingerie underneath might be a bit more special than my usual black bra, pants and opaque tights though. I have had a couple of more spontaneous meets and gone in whatever I happened to have on or with me or straight after work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like 50's style dresses at the moment, sound similar to the ones you are looking at.

Depends on the meet.

Social would be a dress, but nothing over the top.

Play -nice lingerie/corset, stockings and a dressier dress with heels. If that makes sense.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh gosh more replies than I expected some great advice and hot outfit choices from you all there Ive still not got an outfit sorted but a much better idea on what to look for, so thank you all, bug kisses

Miss B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Underwear...I never do otherwise.

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

Depends on where we're going

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Underwear...I never do otherwise. "

Are they clean though..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Underwear...I never do otherwise.

Are they clean though..?

Washed every Christmas never fail. Except that one time......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Underwear...I never do otherwise.

Are they clean though..?

Washed every Christmas never fail. Except that one time......"

How considerate of you, love when a man makes a real effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Underwear...I never do otherwise.

Are they clean though..?

Washed every Christmas never fail. Except that one time......

How considerate of you, love when a man makes a real effort

I've got deodorant too and my own private tooth brush...

You can't buy class like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go smart casual too.

Skinny jeans, top, flats/heels and nice lingerie.

It's never on long anyway

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Smart casual, usqually.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Usually shoes, smart jeans, shirt, jacket and ma best hat

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Clubwear as I only meet in a club

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

If it's in my bed, then naked generally works out fine.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have met someOne in trainers, jeans and footy jacket before but then I have met someone just after work when I have been in troucers shirt and jumper, but then at a club been in blazer, dark shirt and black jeans with brown shoes

I think for it depends where and what I am doing. If a new meet I would try to wear jeans, jumper and shirt with shoes. Though often in Manchester I only have trainers with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always turn up with clothes on I'd get arrested in a public place otherwise and I always smell great with a range of different after shaves and I always wear a smile ,sometimes a grin just depends what stage we are at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My birthday suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it depends on where the meet is taking place. I do love my vintage style tea dresses from Lady V as they really suit my shape but they make me look a bit sweet & innocent!!

I do have my trusted little black dress but would love to find a few new ones. I end up buying shoes instead though!!

Oh to be a man.........."

Sweet and innocent my arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubwear as I only meet in a club"
except when you meet in a hotel

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Clubwear as I only meet in a clubexcept when you meet in a hotel

Yes, when I meet a long-term friend in a hotel and we both go to a club together and come back together. Well spotted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually this ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people look attractive in whatever they wear and some don't

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Underwear...I never do otherwise. "

I like men in no underwear ...yummmy

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Some people look attractive in whatever they wear and some don't

You could cover yourself from head to toe in emoticons!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I always wear a smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Underwear...I never do otherwise.

Are they clean though..?

Washed every Christmas never fail. Except that one time......

How considerate of you, love when a man makes a real effort

I've got deodorant too and my own private tooth brush...

You can't buy class like that

Impressive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear dresses, I don't like jeans or trousers. I wear heels but not overly high. The clothes and shoes will be colourful without a doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A crisp shirt , Casual blazer , A pair of Chino's and a polished pair of Oxford Shoes...and a good aftershave !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual. Skinny jeans or a dress. Very rarely heels. Boots or pumps. I like to be comfortable.

I wore black Lycra leggings, over the knee socks and wellies on a meet recently and still got laid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not into dresses etc or dressing up as such i prefer my skinny jeans and a nice top and my heels, somthing i feel comfortable in.. hate when a guys tells me he would love to see me in sussies and stockings.. never gonna happen lol

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Hahaha thought that was only me

I hate wearing stockings and susssies even if they look nice

I like mini dresses and thigh boots or just killer heels

Xxx

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Today I wore a deep suspender belt, stockings, sexy bra and a dress over the top, so he whipped the dress off me and boom

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Although dress was a bit short (skater style) I realised whilst de-icing my car there was a definite draft..... Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear riggers a high viz and hard hat some of these women are a bit rough

My ideal meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm supposed to be on a forum break but I'm bored lol

Anyway, it got me thinking what does everyone else like to wear for meets? - I'm so nosey

I always wear dresses due to the fact that I'm a Weeble shaped short arse.

My most recent meet I wore a swing dress and heeled boots (shorty).

Hun you're a beautiful lady you could turn up in a bin liner and you'd look awesome. From your pics you have a lovely sexy, classy style you'll look amazing lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a Weeble shape?

As in Weeble and Bob??

I like your style anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm supposed to be on a forum break but I'm bored lol

Anyway, it got me thinking what does everyone else like to wear for meets? - I'm so nosey

I always wear dresses due to the fact that I'm a Weeble shaped short arse.

My most recent meet I wore a swing dress and heeled boots (shorty).

Hun you're a beautiful lady you could turn up in a bin liner and you'd look awesome. From your pics you have a lovely sexy, classy style you'll look amazing lucky guy

There's nothing weeble shaped about you lovely, you've got a gorgeous figure. Oh that sounds so hot.. Lucky him

bet you looked gorgeous. Ooh that's kind of you but because I'm bottom heavy it's not easy finding something that fits well

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By *rinkydonkyMan
over a year ago

Hinckley

Just turning up is a bonus on here lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual at last nights meet, Prada was the clone I was wearing.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

You're Never Fully Dressed without a Smile

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Oh gosh. Totally depends! If it's a first meet I might make some effort! But they'll have met me for a social (jeans) so I never know if it's worth it!

the clothes don't tend to stay on for long anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We generally look for meets at a club so i would be wearing a towel.

Otherwise i would wear jeans with a nice top and nice bra and pants. Converse.

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