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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So basically I contacted one of our managers at work via Facebook, it all started with good intentions, was about a long standing joke we have.

Then it turned to flirting, on both apats but I think I've tottaly mis-read his niceness as flirting and now he's avoiding me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to the best of us.

It could be he's thinking he's made a prat of himself and waiting to see if you approach him? Men aren't always domineering and can be insecure too.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Delete him on FB, never speak of it again, and thank whoever that you have learned early that mixing work and FB is a very bad idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and P met this way

I had to avoid her as being a manager

it was in my contract not to fuck the payroll,,,oops

We had a chat months later about it and have been together ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you could either try & have a word with him to 'clear the air' or you can avoid him like he is choosing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically I contacted one of our managers at work via Facebook, it all started with good intentions, was about a long standing joke we have.

Then it turned to flirting, on both apats but I think I've tottaly mis-read his niceness as flirting and now he's avoiding me ... "
hehe awww their goes your next promotion xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just play it cool and dont mail or chat until he makes the moves and if he do you know he likes you too .z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back off and play it cool. If he's interested he will come to you, so you can cool it. If not then you're safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back off and play it cool."

Just back off and leave him to start thinking the same thing too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awkward! If it was me I'd just ignore him unless it was work related, he'll probably realise you feel a little silly, it'll probably be forgotten about soon enough xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Just carry on as normal and never mention it again, it'll blow over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just carry on as normal and never mention it again, it'll blow over. "

This. If you act cool too - who know who mis-read signals.

Don't go near FB after a few Vinos - d*unken facebooking causes all sorts of mis understandings. I've seen a few.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he's too scared to make a move x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice everyone. Think I'm just gonna avoid him for now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's cool. But his loss not yours OK? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's cool. But his loss not yours OK? Xx"

Hows it hes loss

He had the chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong if he come in to me I'd not say no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't get me wrong if he come in to me I'd not say no lol"
Time will tell. Just let it cool and have fun chatting to others it will keep your mind off him . x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's cool. But his loss not yours OK? Xx

Hows it hes loss

He had the chance"
did he take his chance? No! Therefore his loss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just an update, very flirty over the weekend again! I hate wanting what I can't have, and it makes me want him more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just an update, very flirty over the weekend again! I hate wanting what I can't have, and it makes me want him more."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't have me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't have me lol "

That's a shame lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just an update, very flirty over the weekend again! I hate wanting what I can't have, and it makes me want him more."
You will drive yourself crazy is he with it . I hope so.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just an update, very flirty over the weekend again! I hate wanting what I can't have, and it makes me want him more."

Flirts with you then avoids you? Manipulative, game player...avoid! If the boot was on the other foot he would say you were leading him on.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Just an update, very flirty over the weekend again! I hate wanting what I can't have, and it makes me want him more."

Don't shit where you eat.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"That's cool. But his loss not yours OK? Xx"

It's no one's loss if they didn't really want it in the first place.

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

As someone who flirted at work with a male work colleague

My advise don't take it any further as i flirted with a male work college An not good

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By *rman82Man
over a year ago

Manchester

delete delete deter before you Poke him at 3 in the morning when your pissed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice don't think I will be

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