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Decisions ...to make an i dont want to be hasty

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I have a few decisions in life to make ..i don't want to rush decisions as i have several to make

I don't want to rush an be hasty..question is do I sleep on it..

How do u decide when you have decisions to make ..Some of them are important

As I've been in a low mood today I don't want to decide an regret the decisions when I'm in this mood

Some of the decisions are personal..One is work related

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few decisions in life to make ..i don't want to rush decisions as i have several to make

I don't want to rush an be hasty..question is do I sleep on it..

How do u decide when you have decisions to make ..Some of them are important

As I've been in a low mood today I don't want to decide an regret the decisions when I'm in this mood

Some of the decisions are personal..One is work related"

I always follow my heart for better or worst and that way i dont regret things you can sometimes overthink

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I have a few decisions in life to make ..i don't want to rush decisions as i have several to make

I don't want to rush an be hasty..question is do I sleep on it..

How do u decide when you have decisions to make ..Some of them are important

As I've been in a low mood today I don't want to decide an regret the decisions when I'm in this mood

Some of the decisions are personal..One is work related

I always follow my heart for better or worst and that way i dont regret things you can sometimes overthink"

Same here. It's head or heart for me. I don't want to regret a few decisions ..nor do I want to decide when I'm in a lowish mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut instinct always serves me well. Do you have to make the decisions in a specific time frame ? If there is no rush then don't rush.

Can you use a good friend as a sounding board as well ? I always find talking out loud helps me decide as well.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Gut instinct always serves me well. Do you have to make the decisions in a specific time frame ? If there is no rush then don't rush.

Can you use a good friend as a sounding board as well ? I always find talking out loud helps me decide as well.

Sarah "

Thanks Sarah

I don't want to rush the decisions ..In haste

I feel i don't want to load on to my friends plus they don't know I do nsa

Work decision is do I go back to my original job in my dept

Personal a cpl of decisions in life

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There really are very few decisions that are utterly bad and can't be fixed. Even leaving something too late to make a decision is a decision.

If you're really stuck then make a pros and cons list for each decision. Do it now in your low mood and then review tomorrow or the next day when you're feeling a little better. Then make your decision.

Good luck.

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X"

Good idea i will do that

An see what the pros an cons are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As one of my friends on here can attest to, I'm bloody useless at making decisions, be it important ones, or what I want to eat at a restaurant.

Personally I'd say go with your gut and make it up at the spur of the moment as you go along. Works for me, though I'll happily admit it's not a method that works for everyone.

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"There really are very few decisions that are utterly bad and can't be fixed. Even leaving something too late to make a decision is a decision.

If you're really stuck then make a pros and cons list for each decision. Do it now in your low mood and then review tomorrow or the next day when you're feeling a little better. Then make your decision.

Good luck.

"

Thanks for the good luck

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Take your time

Relax and breath deep

You have one stab at life make it count

Only you know the consequences of a bad decision

Never follow advice xx

Never think with your gut , realise said idea has come from your brain and why it sits there it may be good it may not be understand why

Never follow advice but understand it

Eat a very good meal

If you want to xx

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Take your time

Relax and breath deep

You have one stab at life make it count

Only you know the consequences of a bad decision

Never follow advice xx

Never think with your gut , realise said idea has come from your brain and why it sits there it may be good it may not be understand why

Never follow advice but understand it

Eat a very good meal

If you want to xx"

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tomorrow is always another day and things can seem so different.

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Tomorrow is always another day and things can seem so different."

Tomorrow is another day

I still may feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tomorrow is always another day and things can seem so different.

Tomorrow is another day

I still may feel the same"

That's true..don't rush anything,hope things work out for you.

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Tomorrow is always another day and things can seem so different.

Tomorrow is another day

I still may feel the same

That's true..don't rush anything,hope things work out for you."

Thank you

Personal life decisions are the hardest to make ..

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

You could always make one of them things out of paper and write the answers on the inside then pick a colour number etc and see what happens

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere


"Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X"

same here i then talk to friends and family

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"You could always make one of them things out of paper and write the answers on the inside then pick a colour number etc and see what happens "

I haven't done that in a long time

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X

same here i then talk to friends and family "

No family to talk to an don't want to burden my friends

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere


"Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X

same here i then talk to friends and family

No family to talk to an don't want to burden my friends "

If they are good friends you wont be a burden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work related ones I tend to make a list of fors & against as a starting point.

Personal ones I either suss it out myself or talk to friends.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op, you seem to have outlined your perfect strategy - not to rush.

Take the time it needs, possibly planning how you'll come to your decisions. Further analysis, weighing up pros and cons etc.

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Op, you seem to have outlined your perfect strategy - not to rush.

Take the time it needs, possibly planning how you'll come to your decisions. Further analysis, weighing up pros and cons etc."

I won't rush the decision but don't want to make a decision when I'm tired or in a low mood

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Work related ones I tend to make a list of fors & against as a starting point.

Personal ones I either suss it out myself or talk to friends."

Sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X"

This is the best way. Plus get as much info as you, internet etc. and dont be rushed! Good luck x

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X

This is the best way. Plus get as much info as you, internet etc. and dont be rushed! Good luck x"

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right down facts not if's and but's. If that fails flip a coin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your gut instinct, never fails

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Trust your gut instinct, never fails "

Thanks

My gut instinct is always right it never fails me an im usually right

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Right down facts not if's and but's. If that fails flip a coin. "

I think flip a coin is take a chance I don't want to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bank account makes my decisions for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleep on it then go with your gut its always worked for me

good luck with whatever you decide

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"My bank account makes my decisions for me "

Really

Mine isn't money related

Not this time

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