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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Saw a recent thread where a lad similar age to me was seeking intimate encounters with ladys in their 40's..

I've never been attracted to boys/lads my own age and always found the more mature man far sexier. Is it frowned upon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will probably find that those of us with kids dont like either but no not frowned upon, just not for some of us

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Saw a recent thread where a lad similar age to me was seeking intimate encounters with ladys in their 40's..

I've never been attracted to boys/lads my own age and always found the more mature man far sexier. Is it frowned upon?

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It doesn't matter whether it's frowned upon or not - you go with whatever turns you on...(as long as it is legal, of course).

Well, I would say that, wouldn't I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saw a recent thread where a lad similar age to me was seeking intimate encounters with ladys in their 40's..

I've never been attracted to boys/lads my own age and always found the more mature man far sexier. Is it frowned upon?

It doesn't matter whether it's frowned upon or not - you go with whatever turns you on...(as long as it is legal, of course).

Well, I would say that, wouldn't I?"

yes as its something i guess older men would find attractive, make them feel young again

and besides, with a cute ass like that, who could resist you

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I like them mature as well...

couple of sucks...... keel over and viva la inheritance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go for a younger man, maybe 26ish. last night however i played with two mature men, 46 and 50. It really was a totally different experience, however one I've already made plans to repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been happier than when I found my older man... yet I am not sure who is the biggest kid at times..

I was always attracted to older men when I was younger..and I would almost go as far as to say with young girls its the natural order... it certainly if you go back a few hundred years was the norm...

Who cares what is frowned on.. as lets face it.. Swinging is.. :D

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

up until my mid 30's it was mainly older men but after having a few experiences with younger guy my tastes changed, now I prefer 39 and under

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently come to terms with age being just a number, and if someone tickles my fancy, then I would go for it, irrespective of age!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I may be bucking the trend with this post but here goes...

I'm in my mid-thirties now and have seen some profiles for girls in their very early twenties, and I just thought that was too young for me.

I find the "divide by two and add seven" rule works for me... which equals 24½ as ideally my minimum age. Any younger than that and they just look at me with a confused look on their faces when I say I once met the Krankies and didn't realise the young boy was actually his wife!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I may be bucking the trend with this post but here goes...

I'm in my mid-thirties now and have seen some profiles for girls in their very early twenties, and I just thought that was too young for me.

I find the "divide by two and add seven" rule works for me... which equals 24½ as ideally my minimum age. Any younger than that and they just look at me with a confused look on their faces when I say I once met the Krankies and didn't realise the young boy was actually his wife!"

so does multiply by 2 and add 7 equal my maximum age? lol

im 22, but the eldest gentleman ive slept with is 42.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a Mature man, I would love the thought that a younger woman wanted to sleep with me, however I would draw the lime at someone in her teens, but her twenties, I have no problem with.

At the end of the day though, it is all down to personal preferance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a Mature man, I would love the thought that a younger woman wanted to sleep with me, however I would draw the lime at someone in her teens, but her twenties, I have no problem with.

At the end of the day though, it is all down to personal preferance."

i think a persons maturity level has something to do with it too

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


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Who cares what is frowned on.. as lets face it.. Swinging is.. :D

Katie.x"

OMG! Is it! I've already told my mum about my first club experience... that explains why she fell off her chair and disowned me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a Mature man, I would love the thought that a younger woman wanted to sleep with me, however I would draw the lime at someone in her teens, but her twenties, I have no problem with.

At the end of the day though, it is all down to personal preferance.

i think a persons maturity level has something to do with it too "
there is a time to act your age, but I don't think it is in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Who cares what is frowned on.. as lets face it.. Swinging is.. :D

Katie.x

OMG! Is it! I've already told my mum about my first club experience... that explains why she fell off her chair and disowned me!! "

lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well as most know, my beloved is much older than me. He was 68 last week. However, most of my playmates are younger than me, its not done on purpose just the way it goes

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm over 40 but never in a million years would I describe myself as mature.

Still if old dudes are your bag, hi ya!

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By *berman5Man
over a year ago

aberystwyth


"I recently come to terms with age being just a number, and if someone tickles my fancy, then I would go for it, irrespective of age! "

So true - its all about getting on together more than age every time x

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

its just personal preference . some like an older partner ,others younger .as long as it suits you and both consenting adults then no one elses business .

personally i wouldnt want a guy in there 20s as they havent got same life exsperiences as me and most (not all) are far too immature .this is displayed time after time in messages they send and with them spitting the dummy when i say im not interested .sorry but i want an equal not to babysit lol !! however ,their are some older guys who are every bit as guilty of such behaviour aswell. age dosent mean they have growen up and matured . so i think you have to take each person on their own merrits and just go with the choices youre happy with .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm over 40 but never in a million years would I describe myself as mature.

Still if old dudes are your bag, hi ya! "

well if id have said i prefer old men id have got shot for saying that lol

or men older than myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a 50 year old with daughter's 19, 23 and 28 who speak a completely different language to me at times, I wouldn't contemplate hooking up with anyone in their 20s.

If I went dogging, clubbing etc then I suppose it wouldn't matter none, but as I like to get to know my playmates and socialise with them I'd find it embarrassing if they were asked for ID everytime they bought me a lager top!

Also, the way I play, a young person just wouldn't fulfill my fantasy. Tying up a geeky teen wouldn't float my boat in the same way a 50 year old CEO does: power/control would be missing.

If my 23 year old rocked up with a man the same age as her dad I'd seek to get her the help she needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its just personal preference . some like an older partner ,others younger .as long as it suits you and both consenting adults then no one elses business .

personally i wouldnt want a guy in there 20s as they havent got same life exsperiences as me and most (not all) are far too immature .this is displayed time after time in messages they send and with them spitting the dummy when i say im not interested .sorry but i want an equal not to babysit lol !! however ,their are some older guys who are every bit as guilty of such behaviour aswell. age dosent mean they have growen up and matured . so i think you have to take each person on their own merrits and just go with the choices youre happy with . "

Quite true though i still prefer my own age group, just ignore those i am not interested in, or block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile states that we prefer over 40's, mainly because of me, more than Kate.

However our most regular playmates are him 43 and her 30. Now we've known each other for a couple of years since meeting at a party where we socialised together.

It was nearly a year down the line before we got round to playing. We had a tentative approach from them and you can imagine how surprised I was that a gorgeous young lady would want to get it on with me.

We meet about every 4-6 weeks now, but strangely I still feel a little awkward sometimes.

We also meet fellow forumites too who are both mid thirties, and they are also great fun meets too.

Kate doesn't have a problem with younger partners, but has a plus 10yrs ceiling on the older guys, whereas I don't have an upper preference. Lets face it, there aren't too many ladies that are much older than I am on here. There are some, but not many.

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