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"Thanks ...... Im never any other way but just wondered if im sometimes too upfront. Seems not. x " never Granny.... your honesty shines. | |||
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"Erect and straight up What a waste. " up what though ................... | |||
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"Thanks ...... Im never any other way but just wondered if im sometimes too upfront. Seems not. x " hold on there granny.dont jump to any conclusions. there's a difference,between being,up front,and honest,and being a cheeky git. | |||
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"Thanks ...... Im never any other way but just wondered if im sometimes too upfront. Seems not. x hold on there granny.dont jump to any conclusions. there's a difference,between being,up front,and honest,and being a cheeky git. " Yes dear x That's the difference between you and me .... crystal. You cheeky git. | |||
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"Thanks ...... Im never any other way but just wondered if im sometimes too upfront. Seems not. x " Except that you wouldnt be you if you werent upfront, i dont think you pussy foot around, leastways ive not seen that. Be as upfront as you like | |||
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"Thanks ...... Im never any other way but just wondered if im sometimes too upfront. Seems not. x Except that you wouldnt be you if you werent upfront, i dont think you pussy foot around, leastways ive not seen that. Be as upfront as you like " Thanks. I like your tits. | |||
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"Thanks ...... Im never any other way but just wondered if im sometimes too upfront. Seems not. x Except that you wouldnt be you if you werent upfront, i dont think you pussy foot around, leastways ive not seen that. Be as upfront as you like Thanks. I like your tits. " Thanks | |||
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"straight and upfront or stumbling upon a truth .... Which is least shocking or painful ?" Prefer people to be straight and upfront and hate being decieved in any way. In fact..Just found out a supposed friend has sh*t on me re a fella i know and am not best pleased | |||
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"Thanks ...... Im never any other way but just wondered if im sometimes too upfront. Seems not. x hold on there granny.dont jump to any conclusions. there's a difference,between being,up front,and honest,and being a cheeky git. Yes dear x That's the difference between you and me .... crystal. You cheeky git. " i know what you's saying,but if there's ever a cheeky git competition. my moneys on you. | |||
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"Thanks ...... Im never any other way but just wondered if im sometimes too upfront. Seems not. x " I like your two upfront, a wonderful place to be! xxx | |||
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"I think any forum member should post exactly what they wish (following the rules of course) and be clear. However there is a fine line between being upfront and being offensive. Everyone has a different _iewpoint about what is acceptable and what is not. If I have offended anyone, which I know I will have had at some point, I am very happy for them to challenge me or pm me. I think the key is that if you favour the direct approach, then accept the comeback that will bring without sarcasm or without willing groups of supporters to add fuel to fire. And this isnt directly aimed at you Granny, so please dont take it as such, its just a general _iew of the forums. I accept I make mistakes and fall foul of inappropriateness too, we all get passionate at times. " I never take your posts personally. The O.P was not about forums..... I asked for preferences on approaches. | |||
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"if you know the truth at least you know and can deal and move on from it .so always best to be straight and up frount ...not to be confused with tactless though " Best answer yet ......qualified by the fact that it comes close to my own thoughts...ha ! There's an enormous abyss between honesty and tact ... | |||
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"Oh and in relation to being told something upsetting, ie; a personal issue, then yes Id rather be told upfront and in private, albeit I'd be very upset. Information always comes to the forefront in time, its best to face it head on " I agree. | |||
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"I think any forum member should post exactly what they wish (following the rules of course) and be clear. However there is a fine line between being upfront and being offensive. Everyone has a different _iewpoint about what is acceptable and what is not. If I have offended anyone, which I know I will have had at some point, I am very happy for them to challenge me or pm me. I think the key is that if you favour the direct approach, then accept the comeback that will bring without sarcasm or without willing groups of supporters to add fuel to fire. And this isnt directly aimed at you Granny, so please dont take it as such, its just a general _iew of the forums. I accept I make mistakes and fall foul of inappropriateness too, we all get passionate at times. I never take your posts personally. The O.P was not about forums..... I asked for preferences on approaches. " I realise that now after reading through the post again, daft git that I am And I know you dont take posts personally, you're controversial at times, very much so, but always with sense and meaning, and give me that any day than a wishy washy sit on the fence kind of answer | |||
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"To return to the O.P. Is it better to let someone know something direct or to let them find out by accident ? Who does the procrastination serve ? " I would ask myself the question how would I want to find out? And try to answer it as honestly as possible. Yes, we are all different, but I think most of us would prefer the dignity of finding out the truth directly. And is the person in question trying to avoid hurting someone? And is there a third party involved? As these factors might complicate the issue. But I think the truth is that the hypothetical person in question would know the answer deep down, and that is the only answer they should listen to, as they will be the one to bear the consequences of that decision. | |||
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"Granny already knows what I would say, so it is no surprise when I say straight and upfront, as I do not know how to beat around the bush, ever! " That's why I won't tag team with you Pearl ..... some bushes are for beating ..... Snigger | |||
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"What about if you were the one with the info, ie, you find out your best friends husband is having an affair, would you tell her? " Me personally .......nope I wouldn't tell her. | |||
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"What about if you were the one with the info, ie, you find out your best friends husband is having an affair, would you tell her? " No I would'nt say anything at all and just be an ear if she ever needed it I do not want to be the messenger that gets shot! | |||
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"Never mind what her husband is up to ffs..... leave him to get a dose.... What if your best friend stole some tic tacs from the News Agents .. Would you tell the police ?" . I won't tell the police, however, I would tell her off myself, which is far worse than being told off by the police I can assure you! | |||
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"I love it! So many strait up front people its great! But don’t you think some people use the up front banner as an excuse to be openly rude to people? Then say “ I was just being honest” when they were really using it to be rude. " . I would like to believe I have the good grace not to be rude, but honest, direct and upfront instead. | |||
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"I love it! So many strait up front people its great! But don’t you think some people use the up front banner as an excuse to be openly rude to people? Then say “ I was just being honest” when they were really using it to be rude. . I would like to believe I have the good grace not to be rude, but honest, direct and upfront instead. " A lot dont though they play a game and say they say it how it is. It happened on S/H quite a bit but they soon lose the honesty when you meet them at events. | |||
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"Thank you - What makes them lose their honesty then ?" Come on most people are really brave on line because there is no eye contact. When your face to face all these i say it as it is people wilt. Well that is what i have found so far anyway. | |||
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"What I say online I'll say to a person face to face, while looking into his/her eyes! " That is what i mean. Everyone says that on line but they don't when in the same room. Its a good job really or all hell would let loose at some on the clubs | |||
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"That is what i mean. Everyone says that on line but they don't when in the same room. Its a good job really or all hell would let loose at some on the clubs " . You have not met me, so how would you know that I don't?! | |||
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"That is what i mean. Everyone says that on line but they don't when in the same room. Its a good job really or all hell would let loose at some on the clubs . You have not met me, so how would you know that I don't?! " No i was saying most people say they will not you on your own. When you meet someone if you have been taught manners you tend to be polite with people or most do. | |||
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"straight and upfront or stumbling upon a truth .... Which is least shocking or painful ?" Straight upfront everytime for me | |||
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"I do say hi first before I tell the person I believe he/she is a prat, that's true! " He he he i don't think so You sometimes do but not all the time | |||
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