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"If you read a couple profile and they clearly stated that they "Don't meet single men" however have 20 verifications of single men plus allow men to still message them... Would you be confused ? " That pretty much describes us, although we only have a few veris from single guys. We prefer it that way, as when we would like a single guy to join us, we like to do the searching ourselves. Otherwise we get flooded with unwanted messages. x | |||
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"No, it just means that they like to do their own searching for the "right" single man. The 'no single men' on profiles just mean that they have prevented single men from making the first move." But i had one couple wink at me and when i tried to reply i was blocked !!! Explain that | |||
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"Yes very confusing. Even worse when you send a polite message and it just gets deleted ." Why is that confusing, it's screamingly obvious to me | |||
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"If you read a couple profile and they clearly stated that they "Don't meet single men" however have 20 verifications of single men plus allow men to still message them... Would you be confused ? " No. Perhaps they met them at clubs. Or they changed their profile last week. Or they have some friends who are regular meets. | |||
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" Would you be confused ? " No | |||
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"If you read a couple profile and they clearly stated that they "Don't meet single men" however have 20 verifications of single men plus allow men to still message them... Would you be confused ? " Yes & am ... regularly | |||
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"No, it just means that they like to do their own searching for the "right" single man. The 'no single men' on profiles just mean that they have prevented single men from making the first move. But i had one couple wink at me and when i tried to reply i was blocked !!! Explain that" What did you say to them ? | |||
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"If you read a couple profile and they clearly stated that they "Don't meet single men" however have 20 verifications of single men plus allow men to still message them... Would you be confused ? " No. | |||
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"If you read a couple profile and they clearly stated that they "Don't meet single men" however have 20 verifications of single men plus allow men to still message them... Would you be confused ? " No, I'm confused when given two shovels and asked to take my pic. | |||
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"If you read a couple profile and they clearly stated that they "Don't meet single men" however have 20 verifications of single men plus allow men to still message them... Would you be confused ? " Nope. May be they have changed their profile, met them in a club or social etc... Up to them!!! My profile says I don't meet couples but I have verifications from couples that I have met face to face in clubs or social and we got on... Sooo I have lol I hope no one is spending too much time wondering why I have couples verifications when my profile says am not looking for couples lol Sorry Bearded couldn't resist being cheeky to you lol | |||
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"I would assume they meant what they had written and look elsewhere." Exactly this! I don't see how it gets confusing...i sometimes get messages saying that they see I'm not meeting but can we just meet for coffee. .. . I've kept my profile as short as i can to keep it simple but clearly it's still confusing for those with tiny brains . | |||
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"If you read a couple profile and they clearly stated that they "Don't meet single men" however have 20 verifications of single men plus allow men to still message them... Would you be confused ? " I'm confused all the time about everything so, yes. | |||
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"I see your point but what is more confusing is SINGLE girls wanting bi guys to play with her and her partner. Obviously a couple then don't you think. ?" No. I think the bi guy would turn up and the single girl would have been called away on an emergency | |||
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"I see your point but what is more confusing is SINGLE girls wanting bi guys to play with her and her partner. Obviously a couple then don't you think. ?" No... I play separately and together with my partner. But I'm unlikely to shag a guy who is straight, because it means there is absolutely no chance of a threesome later. | |||
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"If you read a couple profile and they clearly stated that they "Don't meet single men" however have 20 verifications of single men plus allow men to still message them... Would you be confused ? Nope. May be they have changed their profile, met them in a club or social etc... Up to them!!! My profile says I don't meet couples but I have verifications from couples that I have met face to face in clubs or social and we got on... Sooo I have lol I hope no one is spending too much time wondering why I have couples verifications when my profile says am not looking for couples lol Sorry Bearded couldn't resist being cheeky to you lol " Tu peux l'être quand tu veux belle gosse | |||
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"One thing that bugs me about the site is that on my profile I've selected single men as the people I want to meet. Only single men. But because I prefer to do my messaging myself, I have the filters up so no one can message me (not just single men), my profile now states "not looking for single guys", despite that being the preference I've stated. I AM looking for them, they just can't message me. It doesn't do this if you have filters up so women can't message, or couples, so I don't know why it does with men. " I know, I have my filters on but I am looking for single guys. It should say not accepting messages instead of not looking for single men. | |||
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"If you read a couple profile and they clearly stated that they "Don't meet single men" however have 20 verifications of single men plus allow men to still message them... Would you be confused ? " this is the same as straight men who only have verifications from TVs on their profile | |||
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"One thing that bugs me about the site is that on my profile I've selected single men as the people I want to meet. Only single men. But because I prefer to do my messaging myself, I have the filters up so no one can message me (not just single men), my profile now states "not looking for single guys", despite that being the preference I've stated. I AM looking for them, they just can't message me. It doesn't do this if you have filters up so women can't message, or couples, so I don't know why it does with men. I know, I have my filters on but I am looking for single guys. It should say not accepting messages instead of not looking for single men. " | |||
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"If I saw a profile I liked, but saw within the text they weren't looking for single guys, then I wouldn't message. " That's the thing, you couldn't message them anyway. All it means is that they have filters blocking messages not that they aren't looking for single guys. | |||
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"One thing that bugs me about the site is that on my profile I've selected single men as the people I want to meet. Only single men. But because I prefer to do my messaging myself, I have the filters up so no one can message me (not just single men), my profile now states "not looking for single guys", despite that being the preference I've stated. I AM looking for them, they just can't message me. It doesn't do this if you have filters up so women can't message, or couples, so I don't know why it does with men. " I just delete 'Men' off my looking for list. It takes me off the searches so no need to use the men filter. | |||
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"One thing that bugs me about the site is that on my profile I've selected single men as the people I want to meet. Only single men. But because I prefer to do my messaging myself, I have the filters up so no one can message me (not just single men), my profile now states "not looking for single guys", despite that being the preference I've stated. I AM looking for them, they just can't message me. It doesn't do this if you have filters up so women can't message, or couples, so I don't know why it does with men. I know, I have my filters on but I am looking for single guys. It should say not accepting messages instead of not looking for single men. " Are you implying that men read profiles?!?! | |||
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"One thing that bugs me about the site is that on my profile I've selected single men as the people I want to meet. Only single men. But because I prefer to do my messaging myself, I have the filters up so no one can message me (not just single men), my profile now states "not looking for single guys", despite that being the preference I've stated. I AM looking for them, they just can't message me. It doesn't do this if you have filters up so women can't message, or couples, so I don't know why it does with men. I know, I have my filters on but I am looking for single guys. It should say not accepting messages instead of not looking for single men. Are you implying that men read profiles?!?! " Not really, it just annoys me when I see it! | |||
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"If you read a couple profile and they clearly stated that they "Don't meet single men" however have 20 verifications of single men plus allow men to still message them... Would you be confused ? " No, I wouldn't bother messaging them though. | |||
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