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Easiest way to avoid fakes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys I'm relatively new to this site but I've spoken to quite a lot of people but so far the most common result is they aren't who/what they say they are...

I've been asking people the last couple of days to send a pic of themselves in a random pose to show they are genuine. Touching their noses for example. A couple of people have done that but quite a few people kicked off and refused.

On kik it's easier as it differentiates between gallery and camera photos so no pose necessary.

Have you guys got a more fool proof method for ing out Trojan horses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't engage in sex talk or send naked pics. That's what most fakes or men who don't meet are here for. Unverified for a long time with no pics could mean they aren't a woman. Use your gut instinct.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

OP, if women/couples are refusing to jump through hoops for you, it could be that they are fakes. Or it could just be that there are 1,000s of men who want to meet them, and it's easier for them to spend time on the ones who don't want them to pass a 'test'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search Google for this image works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, if women/couples are refusing to jump through hoops for you, it could be that they are fakes. Or it could just be that there are 1,000s of men who want to meet them, and it's easier for them to spend time on the ones who don't want them to pass a 'test'."

Perfectly agree. Simple room of thumb with myself especially with new users is if they sponsor the site. I couldn't generally imagine fakes spending their cash to gain pictures etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look out for a few things. Being on site for ages but no pics or veris, profile consisting of a few words such as "looking for fun" or "will fill in later" but they've been on the site for months or in the case of couples, loads of pics of the male but only a few (if any) of female. Reverse image search works well too.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

Loads of pics of the guy very few of the female none of them together

" male playing alone today " is another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of pics of the guy very few of the female none of them together

" male playing alone today " is another one "

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Been on this site for years ..had lots of pics up in the past ...i certainly wouldnt be dashing off to grab a camera if a random bloke asked me to take a picture touching my nose ...we have however met loads of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm relatively new to this site but I've spoken to quite a lot of people but so far the most common result is they aren't who/what they say they are...

I've been asking people the last couple of days to send a pic of themselves in a random pose to show they are genuine. Touching their noses for example. A couple of people have done that but quite a few people kicked off and refused.

On kik it's easier as it differentiates between gallery and camera photos so no pose necessary.

Have you guys got a more fool proof method for ing out Trojan horses?"

Refusing to jump through hoops is no indication someone is or isn't genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't engage in sex talk or send naked pics. That's what most fakes or men who don't meet are here for. Unverified for a long time with no pics could mean they aren't a woman. Use your gut instinct."

This.. ^^ always go with your gut.. never let me down

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Hey guys I'm relatively new to this site but I've spoken to quite a lot of people but so far the most common result is they aren't who/what they say they are...

I've been asking people the last couple of days to send a pic of themselves in a random pose to show they are genuine. Touching their noses for example. A couple of people have done that but quite a few people kicked off and refused.

On kik it's easier as it differentiates between gallery and camera photos so no pose necessary.

Have you guys got a more fool proof method for ing out Trojan horses?

Refusing to jump through hoops is no indication someone is or isn't genuine."

As someone receiving at least 100messages a day currently (not boasting it actually does my head in) I can honestly say if someone asked me to take a specific pic for them they'd be told to sod off.... Can I suggest asking them to cam in chat instead? Far less effort (although don't assume they're fake if they can't, iPhone users can't cam apparently)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fool proof way if avoiding fakes, don't interact wit anyone at all, either online it in real life, do and live in the woods, and run away each time you hear goot steps.

Alternatively, trust your instincts, and be prepared to be let down once in a while, its all part of the magic of being a fabber, asking people to jump through hoops, may lose more genuine people, than out fakes, so just go with it, and enjoy it when things do go as planed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy posting pics of myself where somebody has asked for a certain pose or wearing a certain item.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm relatively new to this site but I've spoken to quite a lot of people but so far the most common result is they aren't who/what they say they are...

I've been asking people the last couple of days to send a pic of themselves in a random pose to show they are genuine. Touching their noses for example. A couple of people have done that but quite a few people kicked off and refused.

On kik it's easier as it differentiates between gallery and camera photos so no pose necessary.

Have you guys got a more fool proof method for ing out Trojan horses?"

Asking too much IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also it is wrong to suggest those who don't do as you ask are fakes

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

You can spot them right away if your a lady they start talking dirty and want to play ping pong messages on here Jane

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also it is wrong to suggest those who don't do as you ask are fakes "

In the end the majority admit it and still as me to meet.

Personally I think they would benefit a lot more if they were honest n looked for like minded people

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