FabSwingers.com forum: 'Cos you're worth it.....

By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It's lovely being told you have a great set of pins or a fabulous décolletage....but outside this rather crass and superficial place what do you really like to be valued for??

Your character? Your virtues? Your cognitive talents, or your career achievements?? What makes you feel 'worth it' in the real world?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The quality and longevity of my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That people seem to like.me and say I am a jolly nice chap.

That makes me happy .

I am.a positive person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The quality and longevity of my friends

Perfectly worded.

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By *iss AdventureWoman
over a year ago

Wonderland

My creativity probably. I get quite embarrassed when I'm told talented I am but still have a little glow of pride inside.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

How I've turned my life around my work business achievements and how level headed I am. Oh and how big headed I am which I take to mean confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Latin temper.... It has a darn lot to answer for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My intelligence and creativity and my humour

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"The quality and longevity of my friends

Think this perfect

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"My intelligence and creativity and my humour

Yeah, I got some big lumps of plastic creative awards am inordinately proud of lol!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

My authenticity and individuality, they mean the most to me.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"My Latin temper.... It has a darn lot to answer for

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Latin temper.... It has a darn lot to answer for

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My intelligence, I guess. Though I work and live around people much smarter than me so I have to keep striving. It's good to be challenged, though

-Courtney

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't know but thought I'd post anyway.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My tenacity.

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"My authenticity and individuality, they mean the most to me."

Yes, I strive to be authentic, and I value that in others.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"My authenticity and individuality, they mean the most to me."

In the time I've been on fab, you've been consistent with your _iews, so authentic in that sense,

you also have an eye for good clothes for individuality.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's lovely being told you have a great set of pins or a fabulous décolletage....but outside this rather crass and superficial place what do you really like to be valued for??

Your character? Your virtues? Your cognitive talents, or your career achievements?? What makes you feel 'worth it' in the real world?

I'm honest, truthful and thoughtful and I care about other people a great deal. I'll help absolutely anyone, if possible, (although if they take the piss, I'll never help them again).

I'm strong-willed, intelligent, tenacious and absolutely true to myself.

I'm a decent person and I've achieved plenty to be proud of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my rice pudding

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As long as people understand the real me and get me, I'm happy.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I'm happy as I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im told i have the evilist looking eyes theyve ever seen

But im also told theres times im the kindest lad theyve ever met ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm... wide awake. That's it.

On the other hand I know what I want, can be a stubborn so and so but haven't made it where I am today without willpower and determination.

The details are irrelevant. The past left its deep scars, but has turned me into who I am now and I wouldn't change a thing.

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By *unCoupleTXCouple
over a year ago

Long_iew

Some of my favorite compliments come from my 10-11 year old students when they tell me how funny I am. As for adults, I like that the top three things they seem to say about me are sweet, funny, and classy. I try to remember that when I'm driving around yelling at all the idiots.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Tenacity

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Tenacity"

Yes, I was accused of lack of tenacity and I took great pleasure in proving them all wrong with some veterinary research I did!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"The quality and longevity of my friends

Couldn't have said it better xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's lovely being told you have a great set of pins or a fabulous décolletage....but outside this rather crass and superficial place what do you really like to be valued for??

Your character? Your virtues? Your cognitive talents, or your career achievements?? What makes you feel 'worth it' in the real world?

The love and respect of my family, friends and clients x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My creativity and the ability to piss people off for no apparent reason

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By *_SteelMan
over a year ago

Gillingham

My ability to empathize, listen, and give clear headed advise. I am a kind of understated guy, very relaxed, but people find it easy to talk to me. That makes me feel proud, shows they understand who i am,what I get told goes no further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The quality and longevity of my friends

This sums it up perfectly for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughters are my greatest compliment. Their character, compassion, manners and nature are my greatest pride and joy

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"My ability to empathize, listen, and give clear headed advise. I am a kind of understated guy, very relaxed, but people find it easy to talk to me. That makes me feel proud, shows they understand who i am,what I get told goes no further."

Good stuff

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By *are_freeMan
over a year ago

Crewe

"It's lovely being told you have a great set of pins or a fabulous décolletage....but outside this rather crass and superficial place what do you really like to be valued for??

Your character? Your virtues? Your cognitive talents, or your career achievements?? What makes you feel 'worth it' in the real world?

Character, and having a positive effect on people's life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Latin temper.... It has a darn lot to answer for

I find the fire in Latin women very attractive...

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"It's lovely being told you have a great set of pins or a fabulous décolletage....but outside this rather crass and superficial place what do you really like to be valued for??

Your character? Your virtues? Your cognitive talents, or your career achievements?? What makes you feel 'worth it' in the real world?

Character, and having a positive effect on people's life. "

Yes I like to be valued for my character, it was built from years of blood, sweat and tears!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children, I am repeatedly told by teachers that they are a credit to me. They are kind, courteous, caring, empathetic, humorous youngsters. Of course they can also be selfish, stubborn, moody and irresponsible as befits well-balanced teenagers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just generally being awesome I guess.

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By *are_freeMan
over a year ago

Crewe

"It's lovely being told you have a great set of pins or a fabulous décolletage....but outside this rather crass and superficial place what do you really like to be valued for??

Your character? Your virtues? Your cognitive talents, or your career achievements?? What makes you feel 'worth it' in the real world?

Character, and having a positive effect on people's life.

Yes I like to be valued for my character, it was built from years of blood, sweat and tears!!"

Exactly..

Recently a lot of people stereotyped me as a so called gym rat or sted head.. Which initially offended me a lot.. But as people say lions shouldn't concern themselves with the opinion of sheep..

And am happy with my character, if people want to judge me without getting to know me, they clearly have poor character themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the fact people I know tell me I'm good fun.

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By *ambanCouple
over a year ago

kingswinford

I'm most proud of having a good heart and the fact that my friends know they can come to me for anything and if I can help them,I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called endearing before (they likened me to Bambi lol) which I thought was sweet..

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"It's lovely being told you have a great set of pins or a fabulous décolletage....but outside this rather crass and superficial place what do you really like to be valued for??

Your character? Your virtues? Your cognitive talents, or your career achievements?? What makes you feel 'worth it' in the real world?

Character, and having a positive effect on people's life.

Yes I like to be valued for my character, it was built from years of blood, sweat and tears!!

Exactly..

Recently a lot of people stereotyped me as a so called gym rat or sted head.. Which initially offended me a lot.. But as people say lions shouldn't concern themselves with the opinion of sheep..

And am happy with my character, if people want to judge me without getting to know me, they clearly have poor character themselves

Oh yes I just peeped - you've definitely been building your character down the gym!

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By *are_freeMan
over a year ago

Crewe

"It's lovely being told you have a great set of pins or a fabulous décolletage....but outside this rather crass and superficial place what do you really like to be valued for??

Your character? Your virtues? Your cognitive talents, or your career achievements?? What makes you feel 'worth it' in the real world?

Character, and having a positive effect on people's life.

Yes I like to be valued for my character, it was built from years of blood, sweat and tears!!

Exactly..

Recently a lot of people stereotyped me as a so called gym rat or sted head.. Which initially offended me a lot.. But as people say lions shouldn't concern themselves with the opinion of sheep..

And am happy with my character, if people want to judge me without getting to know me, they clearly have poor character themselves

Oh yes I just peeped - you've definitely been building your character down the gym!

Hahaha

behave madam

But yes I do love a good hard session.....

In the gym

But I do find it builds character.. And I don't care what people think about gym rats, we are not all the same..

I don't care, what you can lift, how fast you can run... Or for how long...

If you don't hold the door for someone when leaving.. Or you try intimidate people in the gym...

That's where character comes from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How well I'm doing on my own n taking control of my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Latin temper.... It has a darn lot to answer for

I find the fire in Latin women very attractive...

Try the receiving end as many don't agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The method used to make rice pudding can reveal a great deal.

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"The method used to make rice pudding can reveal a great deal."

Haha, I like a nice rice pudding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The method used to make rice pudding can reveal a great deal.

Haha, I like a nice rice pudding!

I like to hide some marmalade in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's lovely being told you have a great set of pins or a fabulous décolletage....but outside this rather crass and superficial place what do you really like to be valued for??

Your character? Your virtues? Your cognitive talents, or your career achievements?? What makes you feel 'worth it' in the real world?

Being told my son is a credit to me makes me burst with pride!

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"The method used to make rice pudding can reveal a great deal.

Haha, I like a nice rice pudding!

I like to hide some marmalade in there

Haha, pervert!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read me like a book. I said it was revealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the best uncle in the world,

And that's a fact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even outside of fab, people comment on my legs because they are so long.

But I like to be known for being a honest and kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helping others, as it's something I'm passionate about.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"It's lovely being told you have a great set of pins or a fabulous décolletage....but outside this rather crass and superficial place what do you really like to be valued for??

Your character? Your virtues? Your cognitive talents, or your career achievements?? What makes you feel 'worth it' in the real world?

No idea tbh mainly as I don't. R

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Im told i have the evilist looking eyes theyve ever seen

But im also told theres times im the kindest lad theyve ever met ? "

You just keep on giving

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"It's lovely being told you have a great set of pins or a fabulous décolletage....but outside this rather crass and superficial place what do you really like to be valued for??

Your character? Your virtues? Your cognitive talents, or your career achievements?? What makes you feel 'worth it' in the real world?

No idea tbh mainly as I don't. R"

Aww, you need to get some help with that honey!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. I'm happy sat in the shadows helping other peoples' lives tick over. I don't need to be valued,I'm loved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My intelligence and straight talking attitude.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

My ability to do the Kessel run pretty swiftly

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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Nothing. I'm happy sat in the shadows helping other peoples' lives tick over. I don't need to be valued,I'm loved. "

I think the two are synonymous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a nice person. I'm well aware that I could quite easily not be and so being recognised as a good person by other people makes me feel happy about myself and helps keep me that way.

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