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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hav a bf that is ill he has kidney failure and heart disease. I hav known him for 2 yrs. We hav very little sexual contact due to his health issues even thou I crave for him to touch me. Any ideas on how to approach the subject with him. And ideas on thing I can do to him that wnt be too intense

thanku

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I understand totally, I was in a similar position with someone a few years ago, I couldn't even hug him as he hurt so much, it's a hard situation to be in and after 5 years and hardly any contact in the last few I had to end it, I pined for him so much and sort of realised we would never have the life we thought we would, for both our sakes I called it a day.

I hope things work out for you the way you want them to xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanku for that. I know we will never have anything more but I can't stop from seeing him.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Talk to him! Only he will know what he is physically capable of.

While you're at it, discuss you being on here if he doesn't already know about it. It would be a dreadful thing to happen to him if he were to find out you were planning to play around behind his back.

If neither of these ideas are possible then you need to consider whether the relationship has a future.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good luck to your partner

and if this had been posted by a guy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Time to talk to him, not us. How can we possibly know what is ok for him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he know you're looking to fuck others behind his back? If not, perhaps just end it. He's enough on his plate already, don't add to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"good luck to your partner

and if this had been posted by a guy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your two week old profile and 3 varis it looks like your coping! Along with social meets your doing the club scene to!

My humble opinion is you move on before you hurt him emotionally, if he finds out. we wish him well and hope his health returns soon.

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