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Dom/sub with anxiety issues?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive a good friend i see regularly that struggles with some anxiety. I think this may be a good avenue for fun for us and relief for him. I am wondering if anyone that has the dom/sub minsdet/experience has found if theres an aspect of it that affects anxiety in a positive way? Ie easing anxiety in day to day life? Thanx for the feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily directly related to D/s, but having a connection with someone who I find hot as fuck pointing out how hot I am and giving me a place to escape to helps me forget the things that trigger my anxiety. The more we talk, the more we meet, the more I reveal and the more I can mentally escape.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

All I can say as sub is that the prospect if a session with with a dominant woman monoplizes my thoughts to the point where my everyday worries are displaced by the constant anxiety of the pain to come.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

PS I am so jealous of your friend...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the best idea to try and "cure" someone's mental health issues with bdsm, being as you have posted this, I would say that

A) you have never heard of the phrase safe sane and consensual.

B) that you have no qualifications in psychology.

I'm not trying to be rude but unless you know what you are doing, leave the mind alone, you can do real damage, and you gave to ask, should you risk it in the name of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the best idea to try and "cure" someone's mental health issues with bdsm, being as you have posted this, I would say that

A) you have never heard of the phrase safe sane and consensual.

B) that you have no qualifications in psychology.

I'm not trying to be rude but unless you know what you are doing, leave the mind alone, you can do real damage, and you gave to ask, should you risk it in the name of fun."

I don't feel they are trying to cure the anxiety using psychological BDSM. I thought the OP was asking if it provided some relief. I'm pretty sure a lot of people have a way of distracting themselves from anxieties or worries be it working out, cleaning, listening to music.

BDSM is not always 100% safe or sane. Risk aware is my preferred mantra.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not necessarily directly related to D/s, but having a connection with someone who I find hot as fuck pointing out how hot I am and giving me a place to escape to helps me forget the things that trigger my anxiety. The more we talk, the more we meet, the more I reveal and the more I can mentally escape."
thankyou crystal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I can say as sub is that the prospect if a session with with a dominant woman monoplizes my thoughts to the point where my everyday worries are displaced by the constant anxiety of the pain to come."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not the best idea to try and "cure" someone's mental health issues with bdsm, being as you have posted this, I would say that

A) you have never heard of the phrase safe sane and consensual.

B) that you have no qualifications in psychology.

I'm not trying to be rude but unless you know what you are doing, leave the mind alone, you can do real damage, and you gave to ask, should you risk it in the name of fun.

I don't feel they are trying to cure the anxiety using psychological BDSM. I thought the OP was asking if it provided some relief. I'm pretty sure a lot of people have a way of distracting themselves from anxieties or worries be it working out, cleaning, listening to music.

BDSM is not always 100% safe or sane. Risk aware is my preferred mantra."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not the best idea to try and "cure" someone's mental health issues with bdsm, being as you have posted this, I would say that

A) you have never heard of the phrase safe sane and consensual.

B) that you have no qualifications in psychology.

I'm not trying to be rude but unless you know what you are doing, leave the mind alone, you can do real damage, and you gave to ask, should you risk it in the name of fun."
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Anxiety has no cure. I am looking for feedback from people with firsthand exp of anxiety personally or w/partners. Do you fit that? As for A. Yes of course i know that phrase.

And B. Ive no med qualification.

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