FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *abulouswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

nr lichfield staffs

Fabswingers need to sort the real swingers from the pretend swingers

Forget the cam ,,phone,,verifications.... Just the meets in PERSONS Who play get verified ...simple ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

even that doesn't work, people who are verified by others from actual meets can still be no shows.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Phone verifications are no longer allowed.

And yes I'd agree, even people with meet verifications can be timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is. Some people read them. Some don't give toss.

I wouldn't meet me based on my veri's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"even that doesn't work, people who are verified by others from actual meets can still be no shows."

Only had two no shows on here since I joined one couple one single man both where verified by meeting in person

All because they met one person does not mean they can't mess somebody else about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a time waster.

but I don't show my verifications

these days I only give a veri if asked, and never ask for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabswingers need to sort the real swingers from the pretend swingers

Forget the cam ,,phone,,verifications.... Just the meets in PERSONS Who play get verified ...simple ...."

What so your saying if you meet for a pre play social meet that don't warrant you genuine enough for a verification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actions speak louder then words

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By *abulouswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

nr lichfield staffs

Think I've opened a can of worms here ...lol .it's just when my good lady and I decide to have some fun ....it always seems hard work .its wink for wink ...how's your day been ...been on hoilday what football team you support ...etc etc etc ....maybe the clubs are the answer !!!

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By *abulouswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

nr lichfield staffs

Save all the talking for when and if there's a meet ....we are ...bless ....very friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a time waster.

but I don't show my verifications

these days I only give a veri if asked, and never ask for them."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to ignore anyone with cam only verifications, to me they are less likely to want to meet. That is the only reason I would look at a verification and you can see that in the summary. Luckily I have never had a no show, so far.

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By *abulouswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

nr lichfield staffs

OK .........meet in person but only for a social ..lol

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By *abulouswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

nr lichfield staffs

Think there a few people not understanding my original posting here ...it simple

Ask the question ..what Should every1 on this site be looking for ....yes sex !

A social? Errrrr social media sites Facebook ?plenty of fish ? ....get the drift?

It's a sex site is it not? If you wanna disco .soulsouce if you want fish n chips chipshop

To us it's not rocket science

Let's be honest you don't pay all that money to go to cams to have a chat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think there a few people not understanding my original posting here ...it simple

Ask the question ..what Should every1 on this site be looking for ....yes sex !

A social? Errrrr social media sites Facebook ?plenty of fish ? ....get the drift?

It's a sex site is it not? If you wanna disco .soulsouce if you want fish n chips chipshop

To us it's not rocket science

Let's be honest you don't pay all that money to go to cams to have a chat lol"

You speak for yourself

I've gone to chams many times and not played

If somebody don't take my fancy I'd sooner chat all night than fuck for the sake of it

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Fabswingers need to sort the real swingers from the pretend swingers

Forget the cam ,,phone,,verifications.... Just the meets in PERSONS Who play get verified ...simple ...."

So choose to meet those verified in person and ignore the rest. Radical I know!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I meet for coffee to establish if there's enough lust to want to meet to play. No matter how nice people are or how accurate their profile it doesn't always mean that the spark will be there.

I write veris based on if people are as they described themselves, if they were on time and pleasant to be around. That's what I want to know from a veri, just because he rocked another woman's world and made her gush till she was dehydrated doesn't mean it will be the same with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think there a few people not understanding my original posting here ...it simple

Ask the question ..what Should every1 on this site be looking for ....yes sex !

A social? Errrrr social media sites Facebook ?plenty of fish ? ....get the drift?

It's a sex site is it not? If you wanna disco .soulsouce if you want fish n chips chipshop

To us it's not rocket science

Let's be honest you don't pay all that money to go to cams to have a chat lol"

Couldn't agree with you more - well said .

Way too much emphasis on the social / cam / friends etc .....

We are constantly chastised for seeing fab and swinging as a means to meet for NSA sexual encounters , yet that's exactly what we joined for .

So it's good to see we aren't the only ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think there a few people not understanding my original posting here ...it simple

Ask the question ..what Should every1 on this site be looking for ....yes sex !

A social? Errrrr social media sites Facebook ?plenty of fish ? ....get the drift?

It's a sex site is it not? If you wanna disco .soulsouce if you want fish n chips chipshop

To us it's not rocket science

Let's be honest you don't pay all that money to go to cams to have a chat lol

You speak for yourself

I've gone to chams many times and not played

If somebody don't take my fancy I'd sooner chat all night than fuck for the sake of it "

Agree with this to a degree , but what about other clubs where sex is more of a given ?

Would this be the case at the private club or retro ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris mean nothing to me I don't read other people's and only have a few to satisfy the needs of those that do ,we are all different in our views of a person and even those that we've met can really make you think wow didn't see that

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By *abulouswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

nr lichfield staffs

Just making my point ..we join the site for 1 reason only ....and we can admit it ....

Don't think to join social with sex ....is really the thing to do lol

Arhhhhh it's my birthday next weekend ...mum will be there ..think I'll ask all the people on fab if thay wanna come party to ......yeahhhh right as if any 1 on here would put them selves in that position ......lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the site how you want to and let others use it how they want to.

It's not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just making my point ..we join the site for 1 reason only ....and we can admit it ....

Don't think to join social with sex ....is really the thing to do lol

It depends... does your mum spit or swallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just making my point ..we join the site for 1 reason only ....and we can admit it ....

Don't think to join social with sex ....is really the thing to do lol

It depends... does your mum spit or swallow?

Priceless

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

"Fabswingers need to sort the real swingers from the pretend swingers

Forget the cam ,,phone,,verifications.... Just the meets in PERSONS Who play get verified ...simple ...."
. Well not sure how that would work for us new to the scene, we are still finding our feet, we have just been to our first club and found it amazing, we loved watching and even used a private room but I ( Mrs cmy) wasn't ready as far as nerves went

to play, if you are only verified when actually playing then it could be a while for us and in the mean time we may like to go on socials, how will we find these if not verified in any other way than playing, i also believed that verifications were to say that you are who you say you are, not you do what you say you do, yes it's helpful to know perhaps what couples do or like to do from verifications but that's surely not there main point, as I have picked up from many threads even the most verified of people can let you down,

Mrs cmy, ( feeling riled) not like me, what's that all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just making my point ..we join the site for 1 reason only ....and we can admit it ....

Don't think to join social with sex ....is really the thing to do lol

But one of your veris says you went for some drinks and some boogieing, proper socialising

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By *abulouswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

nr lichfield staffs

And yes ....we have been in the position upon meeting where there's no attraction no play but I feel there's a difference at least we did meet a nice time a good ngt ......

And YES WE COULD HAVE VERIFIED THEM .....BUT DIDNT SIMPLE...... BECAUSE WE NEVER PLAYED

DIDNT THINK ANY LESS OF THEM BUT .......

OK .......EXPLAINING .....LOL

YOUR CAR ..IS DUE FOR MOT ? YOU BOOK IT IN...YOU TURN UP (VERIFIED YOU ARE GENUINE)

your car failed ......do you get a pass ticket ?......NO

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

"Fabswingers need to sort the real swingers from the pretend swingers

Forget the cam ,,phone,,verifications.... Just the meets in PERSONS Who play get verified ...simple ....

So choose to meet those verified in person and ignore the rest. Radical I know!

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By *abulouswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

nr lichfield staffs

I've been put bang to rights ....lol yes we did have a social and a fun sexed ngt ....so I eat my words ...not to proud to amit i am a little wrong

However that night was the second time meeting so we knew they where .....very genuine ..

Also we met another couple who came that night ...for the 1st time ....did we verify them ?

Nooooooooooooo lol

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

"Think there a few people not understanding my original posting here ...it simple

Ask the question ..what Should every1 on this site be looking for ....yes sex !

A social? Errrrr social media sites Facebook ?plenty of fish ? ....get the drift?

It's a sex site is it not? If you wanna disco .soulsouce if you want fish n chips chipshop

To us it's not rocket science

Let's be honest you don't pay all that money to go to cams to have a chat lol

Couldn't agree with you more - well said .

Way too much emphasis on the social / cam / friends etc .....

We are constantly chastised for seeing fab and swinging as a means to meet for NSA sexual encounters , yet that's exactly what we joined for .

So it's good to see we aren't the only ones

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. Gloswingers, I love your posts and I love your pics and I wish in my wildest dreams to have your confidence

but the truth is I don't , so we see the site as a start to something hopefully very, very horny, and as in life generally we all have to start somewhere, without fab I doubt we would even be off the starting blocks

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By *abulouswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

nr lichfield staffs

We didn't verify them because they didn't play !!! Nice couple but didn't play!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a happy mix of both types of verification

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By *abulouswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

nr lichfield staffs

Glouswingers ....welcome ..we always have newbies at heart ...as our profile states

We all after start somewhere ......with us ....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is what it is. Some people read them. Some don't give toss.

I wouldn't meet me based on my veri's. "

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

Can see where it says fabsex site?

This site works for everyone in a completely different way, when we were meeting we would only play after a social meet first, just to make sure we all got along and that there was an attraction.

Perhaps changing your search criteria may help you?

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

Oh and just to add all our verifications are from socials now!

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By *lutmeup500Woman
over a year ago

London

tbh I have too many.

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By *abulouswingers OP Couple
over a year ago

nr lichfield staffs

Have I started any arguments yet ??? If I have... Lol I'm off now lol

Thanks to all ......happy genuine verified swinging .....camming social meets whatever enjoy life ....have fun .....if you might like the sound of us send us a message with face pic

And only if your verified lol ...narh jokin xxxxtee n bee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can only get a cam verification to get them started. Some only get a social verification where no sex happened to get them started. Sex isn't compulsory just because you join the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just making my point ..we join the site for 1 reason only ....and we can admit it ....

Don't think to join social with sex ....is really the thing to do lol

I joined the site for sex but I have no problem verifying someone I have met if we didn't have sex.

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

"Glouswingers ....welcome ..we always have newbies at heart ...as our profile states

We all after start somewhere ......with us ....lol"
. Sorry you misunderstood that was us cmypussy, acknowledging gloswingers post, and I am sorry but as newbies with no playing veries to show, I am not really feeling the love

if the site was how you believe it should be then there would be no place for us

Mrs cmy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people can only get a cam verification to get them started. Some only get a social verification where no sex happened to get them started. Sex isn't compulsory just because you join the site. "

Oh ffs. See you later bitches

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

"Some people can only get a cam verification to get them started. Some only get a social verification where no sex happened to get them started. Sex isn't compulsory just because you join the site.

Oh ffs. See you later bitches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We socialise but also have lots of play too... There is a place for those that just want to watch, those that enjoy socials, those that just do sex and everything in between x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not get rid of the veri system, then it would be better for all of us lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Glouswingers ....welcome ..we always have newbies at heart ...as our profile states

We all after start somewhere ......with us ....lol. Sorry you misunderstood that was us cmypussy, acknowledging gloswingers post, and I am sorry but as newbies with no playing veries to show, I am not really feeling the love

if the site was how you believe it should be then there would be no place for us

Mrs cmy"

We love helping newbies find their feet , no pressure ever .

We are glad you are here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the site as you will.

some like to socialize some don't, some cam and some don't. Some chat and some don't. Some just fuck, some don't.

Personally I like a little bit of everything...

The site shouldn't be limited to one persons style imo.

there's plenty scope for all to enjoy fab op...just means you have to do a little bit of looking is all

sure there's plenty of what your looking for here

enjoy

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

"Glouswingers ....welcome ..we always have newbies at heart ...as our profile states

if the site was how you believe it should be then there would be no place for us

Mrs cmy

We love helping newbies find their feet , no pressure ever .

We are glad you are here

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. Why Thankyou, kind words, we love your posts and pics of course

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I like my veris

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