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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so browsing profiles loving the pictures and good written profile tick all boxes should I message...? And then I see they have been verified by over twenty men and straight away I lose my interest. The question is why though?? I've slept with over twenty people so why is seeing it on someone's profile such a turn off?? My opinion of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you are a hypocrite?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Because you are a hypocrite?"

With double standards?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Because you are a hypocrite?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you are a hypocrite?

With double standards? "

Aye!

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Because you are a hypocrite?

With double standards? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask a psychologist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all my verifications are displayed.

Not all my meets resulted in a verification.

And some of my verifications were social.

You can't tell these things just from looking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because you are a hypocrite?"
maybe hypocritical thinking but I suppose if I had over twenty displayed verifications showing it may put others off too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was new to the site I used to find people with loads of verifications a bit "scary" - felt like I'd be too much of a novice and they were really experienced.

Or alternatively you could be being a wee bit of a hypocrite.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Some of those men could have been social meets too.

Maybe because society tells us a man who shags loads of women is a stud but women who shag loads of men are slags.

If you're put off by women who meet a lot, you might have problems on here. Meeting people is kind of the point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and i think that you're to young, and you're not a real swinger. Just my opinion.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm sure they will all be heartbroken they don't get a message from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you show your veries so us women can think that about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its terrible some of these ladys taking so much cock...its just a shame im not one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all verifications mean that the person has had sex with the other person. Unless they spell out the gory details.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Its terrible some of these ladys taking so much cock...its just a shame im not one of them "
pmsl x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm sure they will all be heartbroken they don't get a message from you

"

Well, given they've already got 20+ veris, they're clearly not short of meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you are a hypocrite?

With double standards? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a tad hypocritical, OP.

And you should try to give it more thought in any case. Things are not always as they seem. We have lots of verifications, for example. Many are social. Many are from people who played in a group situation with us, but who we never so much as touched.

Try to be a bit more open minded. And if not, then just accept the hypocrisy for what it is.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so browsing profiles loving the pictures and good written profile tick all boxes should I message...? And then I see they have been verified by over twenty men and straight away I lose my interest. The question is why though?? I've slept with over twenty people so why is seeing it on someone's profile such a turn off?? My opinion of course "

Maybe your worries you won't measure up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, and i think that you're to young, and you're not a real swinger. Just my opinion."

Haha here we go again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! That went south fast! Here lad I caught some of your toys, you might want to pick the rest up in silence whilst you rethink your approach and how you come across

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

Is over 1000 men in 4 years too many?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is over 1000 men in 4 years too many? "

No......you need more cock

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"Is over 1000 men in 4 years too many?

No......you need more cock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is over 1000 men in 4 years too many?

No......you need more cock

"

You naughty girl....you even have 2 cocks at the same time in your pictures...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so browsing profiles loving the pictures and good written profile tick all boxes should I message...? And then I see they have been verified by over twenty men and straight away I lose my interest. The question is why though?? I've slept with over twenty people so why is seeing it on someone's profile such a turn off?? My opinion of course "

maybe its because you won't feel special

Maybe you feel that a woman with lots of verifications will just shag anybody and that does not make you feel they have chosen you as a person but just another fuck?

truth me known i have no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this was never going to go down well, but was fun to read

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"maybe its because you won't feel special

Maybe you feel that a woman with lots of verifications will just shag anybody and that does not make you feel they have chosen you as a person but just another fuck?

truth me known i have no idea "

I don't do it to make others feel special, it is about sex and me feeling special lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

[Removed by poster at 16/02/16 12:01:54]

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Get your selfs together I was just making a point. "

And the general point being made back is that you are being hypocritical. Then you demonstrated you are immature as well.

I dont give a flying fuck who thinks I have too many veris. I have over 300 by the way, most of them shag veris. Just means you wont want to meet me, and I certainly wont want to meet you.

So we're both exactly where we were before you posted, but now you're cross with everyone. Was it worth it?

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Get your selfs together I was just making a point.

And the general point being made back is that you are being hypocritical. Then you demonstrated you are immature as well.

I dont give a flying fuck who thinks I have too many veris. I have over 300 by the way, most of them shag veris. Just means you wont want to meet me, and I certainly wont want to meet you.

So we're both exactly where we were before you posted, but now you're cross with everyone. Was it worth it?"

Well said.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

If a sexy minx has more veris than me I hope she is going to rock my world

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Is over 1000 men in 4 years too many? "

It is if I'm not one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The simple fact is OP that many people that have been here for a while will have many veris, if you have an issue with that and by association promiscuous people then you will have a problem with the whole site.

Speaking from an operational viewpoint too hiding your veris will hinder your chances with many people on here as they will assume you're either a timewaster or have something to hide.

Mind you though judging from your hypocritical attitude, immature manner and tantrum I dont think you'll be meeting many people anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so browsing profiles loving the pictures and good written profile tick all boxes should I message...? And then I see they have been verified by over twenty men and straight away I lose my interest. The question is why though?? I've slept with over twenty people so why is seeing it on someone's profile

such a turn off?? My opinion of course "

You're insecure imho.

If you're insecure swinging is definitely not recommended.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

As some have already pointed out, not all verifications ate sexually, quite a few of mine are social.

It also shows people actually turn up and don't arrange meets only to disappear or cancel xx

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've removed posts.

It's perfectly acceptable to state your opinion or your preferences. It's not acceptable to be rude to other members by calling them names when their views and opinions differ.

Please can we behave like grown ups?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"You're insecure imho.

If you're insecure swinging is definitely not recommended. "

Probably this since you are admitting it on here.

You are young and therefore relatively inexperienced in life. I suspect at the back of your mind, or subconsciously, you are worried you won't be as good as her previous meets.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

walks in whistling , sees the posts and steps out quietly

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Get your selfs together I was just making a point.

And the general point being made back is that you are being hypocritical. Then you demonstrated you are immature as well.

I dont give a flying fuck who thinks I have too many veris. I have over 300 by the way, most of them shag veris. Just means you wont want to meet me, and I certainly wont want to meet you.

So we're both exactly where we were before you posted, but now you're cross with everyone. Was it worth it?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so browsing profiles loving the pictures and good written profile tick all boxes should I message...? And then I see they have been verified by over twenty men and straight away I lose my interest. The question is why though?? I've slept with over twenty people so why is seeing it on someone's profile such a turn off?? My opinion of course "

Will say it puts me off too...

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Swingers swinging

Who'd of thunk it...

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Also ive got 94 meet veris.

Can count on one hand how many of those are people I've fucked.

Been to a few big parties tho

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Think that probably wraps this up now.

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