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By *ub_liminalTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast

How do you generally deal with incessant whiners?

Y'know ,the type that go on and on and on about a particular (usually very trivial) matter , ad nauseam?

Is it impolite to tell them to fuck up and grow a set or should one bite their tongue and indulge them, endlessly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you generally deal with incessant whiners?

Y'know ,the type that go on and on and on about a particular (usually very trivial) matter , ad nauseam?

Is it impolite to tell them to fuck up and grow a set or should one bite their tongue and indulge them, endlessly? "

Are you having a whine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this another beard and tattoo thread?

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By *ub_liminalTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"How do you generally deal with incessant whiners?

Y'know ,the type that go on and on and on about a particular (usually very trivial) matter , ad nauseam?

Is it impolite to tell them to fuck up and grow a set or should one bite their tongue and indulge them, endlessly?

Are you having a whine? "

Nooo! Just curious what folk in fab land do when faced with the aforementioned..

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Depends who it is lol. Not the boss I would imagine; )

I'd just smile and make non committal noises whilst not getting dragged in to it

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By *ub_liminalTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"Is this another beard and tattoo thread?"

Please noooo!!! lol. Xx

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By *eeDee25Woman
over a year ago

crook

A guy twisted to me for not reading all hes messages. Had hassle for meeting tvs (men afta all) straight men do that oh and if i meet bi men that gets comments also . Get a grip u guys.

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By *ub_liminalTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"A guy twisted to me for not reading all hes messages. Had hassle for meeting tvs (men afta all) straight men do that oh and if i meet bi men that gets comments also . Get a grip u guys."

What a delightfully random and unexpected contribution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll give them a few chances to stop whining,by offering solutions to whatever problem they're whining about.....or saying things like "it could be worse/it's better than a poke in the eye with a sharp stick!"

Failing that and depending on who it is and my relationship to them I'll either walk away so I don't have to listen to their pish or tell them to shut the fuck up!

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By *ub_liminalTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


" tell them to shut the fuck up! "

Yasss! Xx.

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By *3gam4nMan
over a year ago

wrexham


"I'll give them a few chances to stop whining,by offering solutions to whatever problem they're whining about.....or saying things like "it could be worse/it's better than a poke in the eye with a sharp stick!"

Failing that and depending on who it is and my relationship to them I'll either walk away so I don't have to listen to their pish or tell them to shut the fuck up! "

me right there

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I just say, "Well whining to me isn't going to help the situation, go and do something about it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this another beard and tattoo thread?"

or bareback and single guys being overcharged ?

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whining is a great British pastime. Or a ball ache produced by a culture that has too much time on it's hands. Has is too fucking easy and nothing better to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you generally deal with incessant whiners?

Y'know ,the type that go on and on and on about a particular (usually very trivial) matter , ad nauseam?

Is it impolite to tell them to fuck up and grow a set or should one bite their tongue and indulge them, endlessly? "

I would give an opinion but I don't want to indulge you. but I'm going to "Grow" a set and tell you in your own words to "fuck up" and stop moaning about people moaning. xxx

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By *ub_liminalTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"How do you generally deal with incessant whiners?

Y'know ,the type that go on and on and on about a particular (usually very trivial) matter , ad nauseam?

Is it impolite to tell them to fuck up and grow a set or should one bite their tongue and indulge them, endlessly?

I would give an opinion but I don't want to indulge you. but I'm going to "Grow" a set and tell you in your own words to "fuck up" and stop moaning about people moaning. xxx "

I'm not moaning, just genuinely curious how fabbers generally deal with the aforementioned circumstances when presented with them. Sheesh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at them and nod sympathetically. I'm the whinger at the moment though,with my aches and pains and grandchildren driving me mad. I walk around muttering to myself and my family ignores me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you generally deal with incessant whiners?

Y'know ,the type that go on and on and on about a particular (usually very trivial) matter , ad nauseam?

Is it impolite to tell them to fuck up and grow a set or should one bite their tongue and indulge them, endlessly?

I would give an opinion but I don't want to indulge you. but I'm going to "Grow" a set and tell you in your own words to "fuck up" and stop moaning about people moaning. xxx

I'm not moaning, just genuinely curious how fabbers generally deal with the aforementioned circumstances when presented with them. Sheesh! "

I was only pulling your leg hun, I just stop reading something if I find it doesn't interest me or it's just someone having a moan, whine,rant or chant but I don't get annoyed by it either. We are on a public forum and we still have the freedom of speech so If certain Fab members want to let off some verbal steam/diarrhoea (not my opinion here I'm just generalising)in a post let them crack on avoid clicking on the thread which are sometimes quite clearly titled Rant,Moan,Whine or Chant you just scroll past said post and find something more to your liking to read instead.

Just my humble opinion. Happy Fabbing.

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By *ub_liminalTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"How do you generally deal with incessant whiners?

Y'know ,the type that go on and on and on about a particular (usually very trivial) matter , ad nauseam?

Is it impolite to tell them to fuck up and grow a set or should one bite their tongue and indulge them, endlessly?

I would give an opinion but I don't want to indulge you. but I'm going to "Grow" a set and tell you in your own words to "fuck up" and stop moaning about people moaning. xxx

I'm not moaning, just genuinely curious how fabbers generally deal with the aforementioned circumstances when presented with them. Sheesh!

I was only pulling your leg hun, I just stop reading something if I find it doesn't interest me or it's just someone having a moan, whine,rant or chant but I don't get annoyed by it either. We are on a public forum and we still have the freedom of speech so If certain Fab members want to let off some verbal steam/diarrhoea (not my opinion here I'm just generalising)in a post let them crack on avoid clicking on the thread which are sometimes quite clearly titled Rant,Moan,Whine or Chant you just scroll past said post and find something more to your liking to read instead.

Just my humble opinion. Happy Fabbing. "

Duely noted . you've grossly misinterpreted the thread though. It's not a stealthy pop at fabbers that start particular types of repetitive threads.

Genuine curiosity how people (who happen to be fab members) deal with habitual whiners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you generally deal with incessant whiners?

Y'know ,the type that go on and on and on about a particular (usually very trivial) matter , ad nauseam?

Is it impolite to tell them to fuck up and grow a set or should one bite their tongue and indulge them, endlessly? "

I plump for indulge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you generally deal with incessant whiners?

Y'know ,the type that go on and on and on about a particular (usually very trivial) matter , ad nauseam?

Is it impolite to tell them to fuck up and grow a set or should one bite their tongue and indulge them, endlessly? "

Op, fuck up and grow a set, hope that answers your question

*I am if course joking with you op*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who or what it is, if its serious then tea and sympathy, try and find a solution. If not then a very direct 'put your grown up pants on and do something about it instead of bothering me' approach is employed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow a set or the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well when it's on Facebook I grab one of the "nobody cares" memes and post it as a comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore. No-one needs a mood hoover.

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Grow a set or the block button "

For fuck sake moaning is the great british pass time. What the fuck do you whingers want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll try to help, but then I change the subject, and if they go back - I change it again. Distraction works quite well, not always but fairly often.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll try to help, but then I change the subject, and if they go back - I change it again. Distraction works quite well, not always but fairly often.

Sarah "

My most used tool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grow a set or the block button

For fuck sake moaning is the great british pass time. What the fuck do you whingers want?"

Now moaning is a whole different matter...i do like to moan

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Grow a set or the block button

For fuck sake moaning is the great british pass time. What the fuck do you whingers want?

Now moaning is a whole different matter...i do like to moan "

Do you can you prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grow a set or the block button

For fuck sake moaning is the great british pass time. What the fuck do you whingers want?

Now moaning is a whole different matter...i do like to moan

Do you can you prove it "

Mmhhhmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to sit and listen ...offer advice if they ask but if they go on and on..I get bored very easily and switch off...it can get tedious if that's all you hear.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"How do you generally deal with incessant whiners?

Y'know ,the type that go on and on and on about a particular (usually very trivial) matter , ad nauseam?

Is it impolite to tell them to fuck up and grow a set or should one bite their tongue and indulge them, endlessly? "

sticking your cock in their mouth can bring results. Not always wise if the motorway is busy though

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Oh goody! A thread whining about whining!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Oh goody! A thread whining about whining!"

Well at least it gets the daily quota met early so we can all get on.

Are we due another bareback thread yet? Or a does size matter thread? Or a what counts as VWE thread? I've lost count totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who the whinger is.

On here it just makes me chuckle & occasionally

With friends, if it's just someone who enjoys a moan, I switch off but nod & ah ha in the right place...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I separated from my wife

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