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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do woman or couples mean when they say "must be exceptional man " ! ?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Not normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*cough*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made of gold with a lifetime supply of chocolate tell her she's beautiful at least 50 times a day and fuck like a machine unless were too tired or have a headache them it's cuddles and more compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*cough*"

Not like this one

-Courtney

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

One who stands out for a good reason only known to the person looking for exceptional? And even then it may be a subconscious one? Not a useful answer I know, but an accurate one.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Never hogs the remote?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Made of gold with a lifetime supply of chocolate tell her she's beautiful at least 50 times a day and fuck like a machine unless were too tired or have a headache them it's cuddles and more compliments "

He's mine, he's mine ... oh sorry, wrong thread, thought this was the lamppost passing one ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they have been watching to much of mr grey lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a test. If you think you're exceptional you might possibly pass if you really are exceptional. Or will be accused of delusions of grandeur or being over egotistical if you're not and will be laughed at.

If you don't think you're exceptional, you'll never pass. As you won't reply to them. Even if you are, actually, exceptional but just don't know it.

So what people are really asking for is confident self assured people. Irrespective of whether they truly are exceptional or not. Then they can take their pick of those that tickle their fancy and seem to be exceptional.

I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minimum 7" girth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm often more curious as to whether the women and couples whom so often make these requests are 'exceptional' themselves?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Not normal?"

you mean like "riding the short bus" not normal.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Made of gold with a lifetime supply of chocolate tell her she's beautiful at least 50 times a day and fuck like a machine unless were too tired or have a headache them it's cuddles and more compliments

He's mine, he's mine ... oh sorry, wrong thread, thought this was the lamppost passing one ..."

Already mine, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm often more curious as to whether the women and couples whom so often make these requests are 'exceptional' themselves?

"

Supply and demand fella. Unexceptional ladies can demand exceptional men as they will, in all probability on here, get them.

And anyway 'exceptional' is subjective isn't it?

My version will probably be different to yours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was up nearly 24 hrs due to late flight . And manged to arise to the acation twice does that make me exceptional ? Lol . Mind you my spelling is far from exceptional lol .

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

exceptional..... nah!!!

unique.... now we are talking!!!!!!

besides how boring would exceptional be..... how up your arse do you have to be to believe you are exceptional!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm often more curious as to whether the women and couples whom so often make these requests are 'exceptional' themselves?

Supply and demand fella. Unexceptional ladies can demand exceptional men as they will, in all probability on here, get them.

And anyway 'exceptional' is subjective isn't it?

My version will probably be different to yours."

If the guys will lower their own standards to meet unexceptional women and couples because that's all they can get, then they aren't exceptional guys.

Rediscover your pride fellas - don't be a single male, be a single MAN.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I'm often more curious as to whether the women and couples whom so often make these requests are 'exceptional' themselves?

Supply and demand fella. Unexceptional ladies can demand exceptional men as they will, in all probability on here, get them.

And anyway 'exceptional' is subjective isn't it?

My version will probably be different to yours."

I think anyone on here can be exceptional, women and men ... surely claiming women are unexceptional is a tad rude (unlike you to be like this). To me, exceptional means unusual ... in the bedroom, in the kitchen, conversation, wit and humour ...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm often more curious as to whether the women and couples whom so often make these requests are 'exceptional' themselves?"

exceptional

adjective: exceptional

1. unusual; not typical.

Yup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rediscover your pride fellas - don't be a single male, be a single MAN."

SB, motivational speaker.

-Courtney

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I'm often more curious as to whether the women and couples whom so often make these requests are 'exceptional' themselves?

exceptional

adjective: exceptional

1. unusual; not typical.

Yup! "

By that definition all swingers are??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all exceptional in our own unique ways

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm often more curious as to whether the women and couples whom so often make these requests are 'exceptional' themselves?

exceptional

adjective: exceptional

1. unusual; not typical.

Yup!

By that definition all swingers are??"

By that definition, everybody is. But its the standard definition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just move on the the profile. Mostly its not exceptional ppl seeking exceptional

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Just searched for exceptional guy, but nothing came up!!

Does he have a face pic and has he been verified? Xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

Rediscover your pride fellas - don't be a single male, be a single MAN."

i think what you meant to say is "don't be a single man.... just be the best man you can be!!!"

as long as you are true to yourself.... fuck everyone else!!!!!!

*this message is brought to you by the loose cannons*

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Just searched for exceptional guy, but nothing came up!!

Does he have a face pic and has he been verified? Xx

"

Look for just exceptional. There are 3 of them (yes, I tried it).

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole

What if you consider yourself exceptional, but the couple/female are not?

What a dilemma?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Not normal?

you mean like "riding the short bus" not normal..... "

Something like that yes. And when I did something that ma ex didn't agree with, she'd say "Well most normal men......"

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

A man that can put a smile on my face no matter what mood I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exceptional means something different for everyone ,OP some woman here will see you as exceptional

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't want to dis anyone who puts they "want a exceptional guy " . I just want to know there definition . To be honist I'd rather someone else judge me to be exceptional rather than judge myself to be it . If that makes sence ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm often more curious as to whether the women and couples whom so often make these requests are 'exceptional' themselves?

Supply and demand fella. Unexceptional ladies can demand exceptional men as they will, in all probability on here, get them.

And anyway 'exceptional' is subjective isn't it?

My version will probably be different to yours.

I think anyone on here can be exceptional, women and men ... surely claiming women are unexceptional is a tad rude (unlike you to be like this). To me, exceptional means unusual ... in the bedroom, in the kitchen, conversation, wit and humour ... "

I see your point, I was merely trying to say that in any situation / market where there's a limited supply of buyers and lots of sellers then it's always the buyers (women and couples in this case) that can choose the 'Premium' products (the men). I tried to caveat the point by saying exceptional is subjective anyway - so everyone can be exceptional to different people. I didn't articulate myself very well (got a habit of that recently) but didn't mean to imply that women weren't exceptional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He shops at Waitrose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Rediscover your pride fellas - don't be a single male, be a single MAN.

i think what you meant to say is "don't be a single man.... just be the best man you can be!!!"

as long as you are true to yourself.... fuck everyone else!!!!!!

*this message is brought to you by the loose cannons*"

No I meant don't be a single male, be a single MAN - I wrote it quite clearly.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"He shops at Waitrose "

Not into poundland sex then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exceptional to me means everything I desire and just want to rip their pants off

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"

Rediscover your pride fellas - don't be a single male, be a single MAN.

i think what you meant to say is "don't be a single man.... just be the best man you can be!!!"

as long as you are true to yourself.... fuck everyone else!!!!!!

*this message is brought to you by the loose cannons*

No I meant don't be a single male, be a single MAN - I wrote it quite clearly."

That's even more ambiguous than 'exceptional' though. Some MEN may prefer to contact any woman, whereas other MEN might be more discerning. Is a MAN just a human with a willy instead of a foof, or is a MAN someone with a specific mind set. and if he doesn't have that mindset, is he not a MAN?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Rediscover your pride fellas - don't be a single male, be a single MAN.

i think what you meant to say is "don't be a single man.... just be the best man you can be!!!"

as long as you are true to yourself.... fuck everyone else!!!!!!

*this message is brought to you by the loose cannons*

No I meant don't be a single male, be a single MAN - I wrote it quite clearly.

That's even more ambiguous than 'exceptional' though. Some MEN may prefer to contact any woman, whereas other MEN might be more discerning. Is a MAN just a human with a willy instead of a foof, or is a MAN someone with a specific mind set. and if he doesn't have that mindset, is he not a MAN?"
im totally confused now .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had messages from guys introducing themselves as "exceptional males" Very offputting, I like confidence but it just sounds so arrogant! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had messages from guys introducing themselves as "exceptional males" Very offputting, I like confidence but it just sounds so arrogant! x"

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had messages from guys introducing themselves as "exceptional males" Very offputting, I like confidence but it just sounds so arrogant! x

Sorry "
Surely yours was a justified claim though?? haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had messages from guys introducing themselves as "exceptional males" Very offputting, I like confidence but it just sounds so arrogant! xki

Sorry Surely yours was a justified claim though?? haha x"

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Rediscover your pride fellas - don't be a single male, be a single MAN.

SB, motivational speaker.

-Courtney "

A man's MAN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rediscover your pride fellas - don't be a single male, be a single MAN.

SB, motivational speaker.

-Courtney "

My words can motivate or unmotivated in equal measure!

Yet sadly I can never seem to get the former to work on myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exceptional means not typical.

Typical on here is; no effort, thinks you'll fuck them just for approaching you, thinks if you're on here you're looking for sex at that time, doesn't care what your profile says.

It's actually sad that exceptional = decent human being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One who takes exception to blatant ego flattery.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm often more curious as to whether the women and couples whom so often make these requests are 'exceptional' themselves?

"

Yes, I am. Of course, whether the ways in which I am exceptional are the traits others are looking for is the question.

I have met men I think are exceptional. I've met men who think I'm exceptional.

Occasionally I've met men I think are exceptional AND who think I'm exceptional. Those can be really spectacular meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exceptional means not typical.

Typical on here is; no effort, thinks you'll fuck them just for approaching you, thinks if you're on here you're looking for sex at that time, doesn't care what your profile says.

It's actually sad that exceptional = decent human being."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person requesting it surely?

For me i wouldnt request it. Id rather meet normal/geeky/funny. Someone i would be relaxed and comfortable with as a friend x

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky"

And hung

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung "

Its only a point of view, hanging is a bit extreme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung

Its only a point of view, hanging is a bit extreme"

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung "

Like a hamster

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung

Like a hamster "

Carefull where you put that hamster rspca are watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung

Like a hamster

Carefull where you put that hamster rspca are watching"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung "

He is?

*wanders off to perve*

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung

Like a hamster

Carefull where you put that hamster rspca are watching

"

I heard vara has a nice hamster cage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung

He is?

*wanders off to perve*"

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung

Like a hamster

Carefull where you put that hamster rspca are watching

I heard vara has a nice hamster cage "

Haha i have a snake basket?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung

Like a hamster

Carefull where you put that hamster rspca are watching

I heard vara has a nice hamster cage

Haha i have a snake basket?"

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung

He is?

*wanders off to perve*

Oh yes "

Vara is trying to make me feel better as I use tweezers to have a wank

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By *abphilMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Ooooo i am just a normal lad that likes football cinema , music , superheroes, to but I am just sexually kinky

And hung

He is?

*wanders off to perve*

Oh yes

Vara is trying to make me feel better as I use tweezers to have a wank "

There are some bigheaded braggarts on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do woman or couples mean when they say "must be exceptional man " ! ? "

It's all in the girth, apparently.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

As with any subjective statement / word it's the person who's saying it who decides what it means for them...

I move on to the next profile as.... I'm out of their league..what with me being being totally awesome

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"What do woman or couples mean when they say "must be exceptional man " ! ?

It's all in the girth, apparently. "

For me it's intelligence, humour, sense of adventure and zest for life. In someone I find physically attractive, obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do woman or couples mean when they say "must be exceptional man " ! ?

It's all in the girth, apparently.

For me it's intelligence, humour, sense of adventure and zest for life. In someone I find physically attractive, obviously."

No, I'm sure I've read threads recently that explained that it was the girth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it means way above average. It's a request usually asked by average to below average people on here .

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"What do woman or couples mean when they say "must be exceptional man " ! ?

It's all in the girth, apparently.

For me it's intelligence, humour, sense of adventure and zest for life. In someone I find physically attractive, obviously.

No, I'm sure I've read threads recently that explained that it was the girth "

I don't think the source was reputable.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I think it means way above average. It's a request usually asked by average to below average people on here ."

It depends on the criteria being assessed.

In terms of physical appearance, I'm probably way below average to a lot of people.

But if they're looking for education and intellect, I'm well above average.

It's all subjective.

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