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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is a picture so important to all those looking for chat. Why don't you just say I'm looking for sex if i like the look of you. Or is everyone with that one their profile so shallow that they won't even talk to ugly people

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Would you rather chat to someone for ages then when they see your picture turn you down.

Swinging "is" shallow.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm here for the sole purpose of having sex with people I'm attracted to.

Why on earth would I talk to someone I'm not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not about being shallow at all. I like to see a face of who I'm chatting to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you rather chat to someone for ages then when they see your picture turn you down.

Swinging "is" shallow."

but why do people say there only looking to chat. Why not say i want sex if i like the look of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a picture so important to all those looking for chat. Why don't you just say I'm looking for sex if i like the look of you. Or is everyone with that one their profile so shallow that they won't even talk to ugly people "

Yes I'm shallow... If by that you mean I will only talk to those I find attractive... I'm here to have sex.. I'm not going to have sex with someone I'm not attracted to

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Would you rather chat to someone for ages then when they see your picture turn you down.

Swinging "is" shallow.but why do people say there only looking to chat. Why not say i want sex if i like the look of you "

Why do you want to police what people say? Lol.

Some people *do* only want to chat. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think your all missing the point. I'm only hear to play. But what does my head in is people that act like their to good for that and make out their here for conversation

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Would you rather chat to someone for ages then when they see your picture turn you down.

Swinging "is" shallow.but why do people say there only looking to chat. Why not say i want sex if i like the look of you "

Because lots of people like to chat before they decide to have sex with a person.

The road to madness starts with wondering why people on a swinging website say things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't matter to me how they looked like, after all its just a fuck n' go, its not like they will be your gf lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a profile says no pic no chat, either send a pic with your message or move on to another profile. I see no point chatting to someone I'm not interested in meeting if they're not for me as it wastes both our time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you rather chat to someone for ages then when they see your picture turn you down.

Swinging "is" shallow.but why do people say there only looking to chat. Why not say i want sex if i like the look of you

Why do you want to police what people say? Lol.

I'm not trying to police any thing I'm just asking

Some people *do* only want to chat. Lol"

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I think your all missing the point. I'm only hear to play. But what does my head in is people that act like their to good for that and make out their here for conversation "

Some people like to chat first and then decide if they want to meet that person for sex.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I think your all missing the point. I'm only hear to play. But what does my head in is people that act like their to good for that and make out their here for conversation "

Uh... I don't think I've ever met someone on here who thinks they're "too good" to just have sex. Lol.

Because this is a swinging site, unless they explicitly say they're not meeting, I assume they ultimately want to meet.

Some people need lots of chat before that happens, and some people don't.

Why are you judging them on how much chat they want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your all missing the point. I'm only hear to play. But what does my head in is people that act like their to good for that and make out their here for conversation "

How do you know you want sex with someone if you don't chat first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you rather chat to someone for ages then when they see your picture turn you down.

Swinging "is" shallow.but why do people say there only looking to chat. Why not say i want sex if i like the look of you

Because lots of people like to chat before they decide to have sex with a person.I never asked you to comment. And i must say is this really the best thing a couple can do on valentines day

And they say romance is dead

The road to madness starts with wondering why people on a swinging website say things "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your all missing the point. I'm only hear to play. But what does my head in is people that act like their to good for that and make out their here for conversation

Some people like to chat first and then decide if they want to meet that person for sexual . But whysay there just here to chat then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you rather chat to someone for ages then when they see your picture turn you down.

Swinging "is" shallow.but why do people say there only looking to chat. Why not say i want sex if i like the look of you

Why do you want to police what people say? Lol. So why is a picture so important just to chat

I'm not trying to police any thing I'm just asking

Some people *do* only want to chat. Lol"

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm here for the sole purpose of having sex with people I'm attracted to.

Why on earth would I talk to someone I'm not? "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Would you rather chat to someone for ages then when they see your picture turn you down.

Swinging "is" shallow.but why do people say there only looking to chat. Why not say i want sex if i like the look of you

Because lots of people like to chat before they decide to have sex with a person.I never asked you to comment. And i must say is this really the best thing a couple can do on valentines day

And they say romance is dead

The road to madness starts with wondering why people on a swinging website say things "

is this aimed at me .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your all missing the point. I'm only hear to play. But what does my head in is people that act like their to good for that and make out their here for conversation

How do you know you want sex with someone if you don't chat first? "

You muppet I'm in about people who say they only want to chat and not meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you rather chat to someone for ages then when they see your picture turn you down.

Swinging "is" shallow.but why do people say there only looking to chat. Why not say i want sex if i like the look of you

Because lots of people like to chat before they decide to have sex with a person.I never asked you to comment. And i must say is this really the best thing a couple can do on valentines day

And they say romance is dead

The road to madness starts with wondering why people on a swinging website say things

is this aimed at me .

"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going you're all idiots I'm on about people who say they only want to chat and not meet i understand that you need a picture to meet my point is why say that you only want to chat

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I think your all missing the point. I'm only hear to play. But what does my head in is people that act like their to good for that and make out their here for conversation

How do you know you want sex with someone if you don't chat first? You muppet I'm in about people who say they only want to chat and not meet "

Again, why do you care so much about how others use this site?

Just because some people are just here to chat, does not mean they think people who meet are somehow "beneath" them, or that they're "too good" for meeting.

People have their own reasons for why they use fab.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Would you rather chat to someone for ages then when they see your picture turn you down.

Swinging "is" shallow.but why do people say there only looking to chat. Why not say i want sex if i like the look of you

Because lots of people like to chat before they decide to have sex with a person.I never asked you to comment. And i must say is this really the best thing a couple can do on valentines day

And they say romance is dead

The road to madness starts with wondering why people on a swinging website say things

is this aimed at me .

Yes"

I see. Romance is alive and well in this house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your all missing the point. I'm only hear to play. But what does my head in is people that act like their to good for that and make out their here for conversation

How do you know you want sex with someone if you don't chat first? You muppet I'm in about people who say they only want to chat and not meet "

I have met a few like this ... Apparently only here to get like pics to fill up the wank bank and maybe some phone sex lol I guess that's what some want but don't want to fill it up with ugly people haha

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I'm going you're all idiots I'm on about people who say they only want to chat and not meet i understand that you need a picture to meet my point is why say that you only want to chat "

Don't know about you, but I like putting a face to who I'm chatting to. Why is that so hard for you to get your head around? Lol.

Think it's getting clearer and clearer who the idiot is, here.... Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm going you're all idiots I'm on about people who say they only want to chat and not meet i understand that you need a picture to meet my point is why say that you only want to chat "

It's annoying but as I said there's no point worrying about it.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

We tend to organise fuck and go gangbangs so we are definately not here for chat. Fab is a tool for inviting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your all missing the point. I'm only hear to play. But what does my head in is people that act like their to good for that and make out their here for conversation

How do you know you want sex with someone if you don't chat first? You muppet I'm in about people who say they only want to chat and not meet "

Erm, just perhaps, someone who only wants to chat just wants to chat? Why is that an issue? They have stated that they only want to chat. I guess that they only want to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your all missing the point. I'm only hear to play. But what does my head in is people that act like their to good for that and make out their here for conversation

How do you know you want sex with someone if you don't chat first? You muppet I'm in about people who say they only want to chat and not meet "

I beg your pardon..what a gent you are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going you're all idiots I'm on about people who say they only want to chat and not meet i understand that you need a picture to meet my point is why say that you only want to chat

Don't know about you, but I like putting a face to who I'm chatting to. Why is that so hard for you to get your head around? Lol.

Think it's getting clearer and clearer who the idiot is, here.... Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm here for the sole purpose of having sex with people I'm attracted to.

Why on earth would I talk to someone I'm not?

"

Fair play at least your honest. It the ones who say they only want to chat and ask for pictures that do my head in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here for the sole purpose of having sex with people I'm attracted to.

Why on earth would I talk to someone I'm not?

Fair play at least your honest. It the ones who say they only want to chat and ask for pictures that do my head in "

Perhaps they only want to chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy's don't message to chat asking for a face pic is a must why lead anyone on if you have no intention of fucking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ceases to amaze me why some people are so worried about how others go about their business on here, its not like it affects them in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what you need to bare in mind is that, as in the real world.... There are a lot more guys that wanna swing than women... So the ladies on here are inundated by horny little fookers constantly... So if I send my face pic, and some Channing Tatum looking bastard (jealous sarcasm) messages the same girl.... Who you think is getting benched? Ha

Take "the best a man can get" for example..... I tried my arm by sending a message with a Facebook after reading her profile... Got deleted.... But she's a worldly.... I was punchin way above... Haha.. But God loves a tryer!! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think what you need to bare in mind is that, as in the real world.... There are a lot more guys that wanna swing than women... So the ladies on here are inundated by horny little fookers constantly... So if I send my face pic, and some Channing Tatum looking bastard (jealous sarcasm) messages the same girl.... Who you think is getting benched? Ha

Take "the best a man can get" for example..... I tried my arm by sending a message with a Facebook after reading her profile... Got deleted.... But she's a worldly.... I was punchin way above... Haha.. But God loves a tryer!! Ha

"

This in reference to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#busted....

Was trying to be subtle there!!! Ha.. Yeh but not in a negative way, I had a crack an moved on with my tail between my legs... It happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"#busted....

Was trying to be subtle there!!! Ha.. Yeh but not in a negative way, I had a crack an moved on with my tail between my legs... It happens"

Yes.. An example of people not reading profiles... If you had you would know why it was deleted... this is the 3rd time in as many days that someone on the forums has had a pop at me for deleting a message... I don't appreciate at all

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"We tend to organise fuck and go gangbangs so we are definately not here for chat. Fab is a tool for inviting people."

mmmm fuck and go gangbangs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, that wasn't a pop... I was simply trying to give our man at the top of this thread a reason explanation as to why he may be having trouble.. If any offence was caused.. I whole heartedly apologise.... In my option I was extremely complementary to you..

I take it back.. God doesn't love a tryer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, that wasn't a pop... I was simply trying to give our man at the top of this thread a reason explanation as to why he may be having trouble.. If any offence was caused.. I whole heartedly apologise.... In my option I was extremely complementary to you..

I take it back.. God doesn't love a tryer"

But how does singling me out as deleting your message help him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was not singling you out in that manner, simply a reference of my short experience on here and you being one of the most attractive people I have seen on here (before I offend anyone else, you are all beautiful). If anything I was putting myself down, as I can understand how much attention the female section of this site receive..

Again I apologise unreservedly if my comments were deemed negatively.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

If anybody on this thread finds themself digging a big hole may I suggest they put the shovel down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish someone would hit me over the head with it right now... Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was not singling you out in that manner, simply a reference of my short experience on here and you being one of the most attractive people I have seen on here (before I offend anyone else, you are all beautiful). If anything I was putting myself down, as I can understand how much attention the female section of this site receive..

Again I apologise unreservedly if my comments were deemed negatively. "

The only reason I would have deleted your message is because I am not chatting to anyone or meeting.. As it states on my profile...so it is not in any way a good example to use is it... I've just looked at your profile... And in fact would not have wanted to chat anyway based on that. Apology accepted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit harsh but I put myself in the firing line. Thank you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No pic = no chat = no meet. My body, my rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shallow when it comes to NSA sex, don't see why i'd invest my time in someone i don't fancy for just for a fuck.

But yeah i will chat to anyone i click with, don't mind some banter and having friends, although it's hard when you fancy someone and they're far away and you know you're not gonna meet but you want to. Or they're into things you hate doing so there's no point in hooking up (but they pester you to anyway_.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going you're all idiots I'm on about people who say they only want to chat and not meet i understand that you need a picture to meet my point is why say that you only want to chat "

So they have an idea of who they're talking to? Crazy idea I know!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

And yet......here is the OP chatting to us on this thread. Will he agree to meet me so I can fuck him? I doubt it.....*sigh*

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

I think people are missing the point, this site is about one thing SEX. Facebook is for chat, fab is for sex, if you had to trawl through every profile until you found someone you fancied just to have sex you would be here for years. it is sex thats all!! It is not real life. If you are looking for someone to fancy go on fucking match.com. Rant over.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I think people are missing the point, this site is about one thing SEX. Facebook is for chat, fab is for sex, if you had to trawl through every profile until you found someone you fancied just to have sex you would be here for years. it is sex thats all!! It is not real life. If you are looking for someone to fancy go on fucking match.com. Rant over."

Unfortunately, I use Fab slightly differently in that I meet people for sex but also for socials. I like chatting to people and most live a long way away from me so meeting for sex is unlikely even if it's wanted by all concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im one of the who likes to chat aswel as meet brigade

And what of it its everyones choice what they use fab for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people are missing the point, this site is about one thing SEX. Facebook is for chat, fab is for sex, if you had to trawl through every profile until you found someone you fancied just to have sex you would be here for years. it is sex thats all!! It is not real life. If you are looking for someone to fancy go on fucking match.com. Rant over."

Erm I'd prefer to physically fancy the people I choose to have sex with. Match.com is for dates and I only want sex - with people I find attractive only.

Personally, I don't want others telling me how I should or should not be using the site and I wouldn't dream of doing the same to other people.

Rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people are missing the point, this site is about one thing SEX. Facebook is for chat, fab is for sex, if you had to trawl through every profile until you found someone you fancied just to have sex you would be here for years. it is sex thats all!! It is not real life. If you are looking for someone to fancy go on fucking match.com. Rant over."

I only have sex with people I fancy... Weird huh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think people are missing the point, this site is about one thing SEX. Facebook is for chat, fab is for sex, if you had to trawl through every profile until you found someone you fancied just to have sex you would be here for years. it is sex thats all!! It is not real life. If you are looking for someone to fancy go on fucking match.com. Rant over."

That is the way you use the site, other people use it differently. Is that a problem for you?

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