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"yep big time, couple of months later i found out he was married " Bad form if you are not aware prior to meeting | |||
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" yes and some times you can not help how you feel as much as you try to fight it." Very true - you can be in over your head in no time! The 'L' word - probably arouses more reaction on here from some than any swear word, but if you have a heart you're never immune! | |||
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"got together with someone couple weeks ago now got a clps profile going quite well having a FAB time " i dont want to rain on your parade.... but surely if you "fall " for someone you wouldnt then have a couples profile straight away ....wouldnt you just want to be together ??? i dont quite get that ?? | |||
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"got together with someone couple weeks ago now got a clps profile going quite well having a FAB time i dont want to rain on your parade.... but surely if you "fall " for someone you wouldnt then have a couples profile straight away ....wouldnt you just want to be together ??? i dont quite get that ??" Got to say, I was thinking the same. I'd not feel comfortable playing with a couple who had only known each other for 2 weeks and weren't comfortable with each other. In my opinion you need to know someone inside out before you can invite someone else into your lives. | |||
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"probs my age, but yeah i have. never been in love before (i hear everyone going 'awwwww') however i was very smitten " You'll know when you are - its' like a steamroller hitting you! | |||
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"probs my age, but yeah i have. never been in love before (i hear everyone going 'awwwww') however i was very smitten You'll know when you are - its' like a steamroller hitting you!" ouch, dont think id like it haha i have a commitment phobia,, i tend to run away and push a guy away when things get too much. Ive seen friends go through heartache and i'll be dammed if i suffer it :D | |||
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"probs my age, but yeah i have. never been in love before (i hear everyone going 'awwwww') however i was very smitten " . I did not know how great love could be until I met my late partner when I was in my late 30s. I have not ruled out bumping into another person who could light my fireworks the way he did. Hopeless romantic deep down here! | |||
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"probs my age, but yeah i have. never been in love before (i hear everyone going 'awwwww') however i was very smitten . I did not know how great love could be until I met my late partner when I was in my late 30s. I have not ruled out bumping into another person who could light my fireworks the way he did. Hopeless romantic deep down here! " i hope you find it again, i might get there one day if i stop pushing decent guys away haha | |||
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"got together with someone couple weeks ago now got a clps profile going quite well having a FAB time i dont want to rain on your parade.... but surely if you "fall " for someone you wouldnt then have a couples profile straight away ....wouldnt you just want to be together ??? i dont quite get that ??" theres a difference between falling for someone and finding yourself a fuck buddie lol | |||
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"i hope you find it again, i might get there one day if i stop pushing decent guys away haha" . It is in my nature to be optimistic and hopeful, however, thanks for the good wishes! It is true that it is better have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all. So be brave, and don't be afraid of failures. I am not! | |||
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"i really dont think i could be arsed with having another relationship, i think with my track record its time to accept some people are ment to be single and im one of them lol " . I feel the same as you, however, I would not say never never, and if an arrow hit me in my heart again, I shan't resist! | |||
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"The chances of me meeting an eligiable gent via the vanilla route is remote. " yeah very because i dont really mix with 'vanilla' men lol i just dont think i could swing as a couple so meeting and being with a guy i met via swinging just wouldnt work for me | |||
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"Strangely enough I met someone from the internet chatted for a while. Eventually met. Fell deeply in love and embarked on an affair that lasted 5 years. Only Circumstances ened the affair. sadly " Life has a habbit of being cruel! | |||
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"Oh yerrrr Still seeing one i met three years ago. lmao he only came for a cuppa " Difference bieng is i love the fella i see but im NOT in love with him. Big difference. We are mates and we have fun together when time allows. I will ALWAYS be single. No chance of that changing | |||
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"Strangely enough I met someone from the internet chatted for a while. Eventually met. Fell deeply in love and embarked on an affair that lasted 5 years. Only Circumstances ened the affair. sadly " you mean your wife found out? lol sorry couldnt resist Taxi for NN | |||
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"Strangely enough I met someone from the internet chatted for a while. Eventually met. Fell deeply in love and embarked on an affair that lasted 5 years. Only Circumstances ened the affair. sadly you mean your wife found out? lol sorry couldnt resist Taxi for NN " You're Naughty! | |||
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"Strangely enough I met someone from the internet chatted for a while. Eventually met. Fell deeply in love and embarked on an affair that lasted 5 years. Only Circumstances ened the affair. sadly you mean your wife found out? lol sorry couldnt resist Taxi for NN You're Naughty! " haha | |||
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"i duuno if its falling for a swinger,, but ive been missing talking to someone latetly. odd thing is ive not even met him. think i need a slap round the head, any offers? lol" *holds hand up* | |||
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"i duuno if its falling for a swinger,, but ive been missing talking to someone latetly. odd thing is ive not even met him. think i need a slap round the head, any offers? lol" Go to Youtube and search for "monty python fish slapping dance". I'll be round on Tuesday to administer it! | |||
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"i duuno if its falling for a swinger,, but ive been missing talking to someone latetly. odd thing is ive not even met him. think i need a slap round the head, any offers? lol *holds hand up* " go easy,, bruising isnt sexy lol - secretly im a wimp lol | |||
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" go easy,, bruising isnt sexy lol - secretly im a wimp lol" I'll use a very small fish then. I don't think you can bruise someone with an anchovy | |||
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" go easy,, bruising isnt sexy lol - secretly im a wimp lol I'll use a very small fish then. I don't think you can bruise someone with an anchovy " would you kiss me better if the anchovy hurt me??? | |||
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" go easy,, bruising isnt sexy lol - secretly im a wimp lol I'll use a very small fish then. I don't think you can bruise someone with an anchovy would you kiss me better if the anchovy hurt me??? " oh yes i would....BUT it wouldnt make you better . its hard to improve on perfection | |||
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" would you kiss me better if the anchovy hurt me??? oh yes i would....BUT it wouldnt make you better . its hard to improve on perfection" haha charmer! far from perfect trust me | |||
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" would you kiss me better if the anchovy hurt me??? oh yes i would....BUT it wouldnt make you better . its hard to improve on perfection haha charmer! far from perfect trust me " Oh but I do | |||
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" would you kiss me better if the anchovy hurt me??? oh yes i would....BUT it wouldnt make you better . its hard to improve on perfection haha charmer! far from perfect trust me Oh but I do" you are 10years older than my dad | |||
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" you are 10years older than my dad " Quote of the week goes to Sassy! | |||
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" you are 10years older than my dad Quote of the week goes to Sassy! " yay wooop wooop! | |||
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"thanks for all your views, keep them coming, if i was looking for romance, dont think i would find it on a swingers site, i just wonder how couples feel when they meet a guy for mmf, then f falls for the guy? have couples split? can be a dangerous game to play for couples, any opinions? " Not a dangerous game at all as far as we go,I have massive rushs of lust for my playmates and thats as far as it goes,thats all I want,I have been with my husband since I was a teenager and can't imagine ever having a relationship with another man apart from him as he is part of my heart and soul I can't even think about what I would do if I "fell" for a playmate because in the 4 yrs we have been doing this the thought has never even occured to me......nor have the feelings Im too busy fucking them to think about wanting to have a relationship with them On the opposite side of your question,I would stop seeing a guy if I felt that he was wanting more than the occasional playtime with us,I don't play with anyone that mentions looking for fun and maybe more on their profiles.......I run a mile! | |||
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"got together with someone couple weeks ago now got a clps profile going quite well having a FAB time i dont want to rain on your parade.... but surely if you "fall " for someone you wouldnt then have a couples profile straight away ....wouldnt you just want to be together ??? i dont quite get that ??" agree with what your saying but we have known each other for a while and have had our own singles profile but both feel now is the right time to play as a couple .. | |||
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" you are 10years older than my dad Quote of the week goes to Sassy! yay wooop wooop!" oh dear the yokes on me lol | |||
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" you are 10years older than my dad Quote of the week goes to Sassy! yay wooop wooop! oh dear the yokes on me lol" I once doused a rather persistant young guy's passions in the chatroom by saying he was too young for me, in fact he was too young to even be a toy-boy for my daughter. | |||
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