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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never met anyone on here and not sure how to go about it without being super nervous ! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence without arrogance ,well thought out messages with target profiles info in mind ,humour and lots of patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't ask.it will always be a no

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Never met anyone on here and not sure how to go about it without being super nervous ! Haha"

Ask yourself (and answer) this question: why would a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve or trademark or kinky butler?

Answer that and you'll be well away....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never met anyone on here and not sure how to go about it without being super nervous ! Haha

Ask yourself (and answer) this question: why would a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve or trademark or kinky butler?

Answer that and you'll be well away...."

Because 2 out if the three are un fuckable by even the lowest of standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never met anyone on here and not sure how to go about it without being super nervous ! Haha

Ask yourself (and answer) this question: why would a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve or trademark or kinky butler?

Answer that and you'll be well away....

Because 2 out if the three are un fuckable by even the lowest of standards "
hehe hey nice hat

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I would have a Me Me with these gents as I can read all about them on their profiles and get to know them on the forums.

Sadly OP you would not be included as your profile tells me very little about what you are all about.

Chat in the forums, add more to your profiles, look out for organised socials in your area. Send friendly respectful personalised messages......sorted!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Never met anyone on here and not sure how to go about it without being super nervous ! Haha

Ask yourself (and answer) this question: why would a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve or trademark or kinky butler?

Answer that and you'll be well away....

Because 2 out if the three are un fuckable by even the lowest of standards "
don't put ya self down, mate!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

A me Me? That should read MMMF autocarrot!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I would have a Me Me with these gents as I can read all about them on their profiles and get to know them on the forums.

Sadly OP you would not be included as your profile tells me very little about what you are all about.

Chat in the forums, add more to your profiles, look out for organised socials in your area. Send friendly respectful personalised messages......sorted! "

See? We've got loads of info on our profiles which gives potential sex (and sitting on my face grinding away) meets enough info to make a decision.....not enough info -they move on.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never met anyone on here and not sure how to go about it without being super nervous ! Haha

Ask yourself (and answer) this question: why would a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve or trademark or kinky butler?

Answer that and you'll be well away...."

Because shed be off with happiness will whilst you lot bicker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never met anyone on here and not sure how to go about it without being super nervous ! Haha"

I've given up as all seem to be time wasters and don't show. I'm just hanging around for the forum now

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You're good looking so you'll be fine,just be friendly and upbeat. Maybe put a little more into your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never met anyone on here and not sure how to go about it without being super nervous ! Haha

Ask yourself (and answer) this question: why would a lady have sex with me and not _rightonsteve or trademark or kinky butler?

Answer that and you'll be well away....

Because 2 out if the three are un fuckable by even the lowest of standards hehe hey nice hat "

I swear to fucking god, I'm going to get "the hat" its own profile, it gets more attention than I do.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Take out the bit about you not biting it's a bit naff

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What would attract me to a profile.

A clearly written out profiles explaining what they are looking for and what they can offer.

A face picture either on profile or sent with first message.

A message that relates to me, snowing they've read my profile

And someone who realises it takes time to organise things and if they think everything is going to happen overnight then its the wrong place for them.

People that if they are serious about using the site will take advice on board, trial and error with what works and what doesn't.

Betting themselves out there, whether large pub socials, small socials club socials. Bet themselves know for being a decent person. Make friends, you might not be attracted to that person but they might know someone you would get on with.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Your a good looking lad..

You've not been on here long give it time.

Your profile doesn't really tell me much. What do you want?

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Nice pics... it would be good to know more about you, though. At the moment it's just a little lacking, and some additional info would help to make it stand out from the competition.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire


"What would attract me to a profile.

A clearly written out profiles explaining what they are looking for and what they can offer.

A face picture either on profile or sent with first message.

A message that relates to me, snowing they've read my profile

And someone who realises it takes time to organise things and if they think everything is going to happen overnight then its the wrong place for them.

People that if they are serious about using the site will take advice on board, trial and error with what works and what doesn't.

Betting themselves out there, whether large pub socials, small socials club socials. Bet themselves know for being a decent person. Make friends, you might not be attracted to that person but they might know someone you would get on with.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Everyone (except hairy hat man) are saying the same......more info on a full profile....

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By *ittleblondesubWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Never met anyone on here and not sure how to go about it without being super nervous ! Haha"

Damn....why am I in Scotland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh if I was 20 years younger I would!

Your yummy I'm sure if you try you will succeed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone (except hairy hat man) are saying the same......more info on a full profile...."

Hairy hat man has a screen name, you can use that if you.like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to retford :D there's a start

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Maybe don't ask for people to fab your pics it comes over a little insecure to me. Be confident women like confidence!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Everyone (except hairy hat man) are saying the same......more info on a full profile....

Hairy hat man has a screen name, you can use that if you.like"

Soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember, all the hot women are in Ireland!

(Jokes! )

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