FabSwingers.com forum: its all going stale again

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Every so often, the forums feel like everything that can be said has been said, and every question has been answered, I know there are new people comming in, and its all new and wonderful, but sometimes I swear you can predict what threads are going to be on page one before you even log on, just saying like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you are right mostly the same stuff being churned out year after year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, if you're not enjoying them then don't use them. Think of all the things you could do with that free time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

It can get a bit samey from time to time but then the odd gem comes along which brightens up your day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are old enough to remember the kids tv programme Why Don't You!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every so often, the forums feel like everything that can be said has been said, and every question has been answered, I know there are new people comming in, and its all new and wonderful, but sometimes I swear you can predict what threads are going to be on page one before you even log on, just saying like."
my god man you're a visionary you've sussed the forums hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, if you're not enjoying them then don't use them. Think of all the things you could do with that free time!"

He didn't say he doesn't enjoy them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting "

Aww bless ya, did you come up with that all by yourself or did you get help like you do with your shoe laces?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are old enough to remember the kids tv programme Why Don't You!!!

Yeah, but like I said, just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting

Aww bless ya, did you come up with that all by yourself or did you get help like you do with your shoe laces? "

all on my own kid clever as fook me

I've another 'are all people that wear hats hiding something'

am here all morning if you need anymore

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Start your own threads! Join in the ones your interested in and don't the ones your not, if they are boring don't log on for a bit and go and do something else.

Forums are forums same subjects repeat all though a theme often appears for a bit loads of threads on one thing then something else appears

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well, if you're not enjoying them then don't use them. Think of all the things you could do with that free time!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Well, if you're not enjoying them then don't use them. Think of all the things you could do with that free time!

I just think with the amount of intellect that I know for a fact a lot of the frequent forum users have there could be more interesting posts, some peoples threads I look forward to, yours, soxy just to mention a couple, but some of it is just tripe (and I don't mean the actual tripe thread from last week, that was interesting) "
maybe some people can't be arsed to act intelligent all the time, some use the forums for light entertainment after a busy day, some use it as escapism.

Did you actually post on my serious debate last night?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting

Aww bless ya, did you come up with that all by yourself or did you get help like you do with your shoe laces?

all on my own kid clever as fook me

I've another 'are all people that wear hats hiding something'

am here all morning if you need anymore

Well.done you have noticed I'm wearing a hat, so you're that guy, the guy who is "hilarious" and ain't afraid to show it, is your avatar the only time anyone has got you to belt up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, if you're not enjoying them then don't use them. Think of all the things you could do with that free time!

I got bored of starting serious topics and having personal attacks launched against me because of my views. So now I save my brainpower for intellectual debates with friends, mostly on Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start your own threads! Join in the ones your interested in and don't the ones your not, if they are boring don't log on for a bit and go and do something else.

Forums are forums same subjects repeat all though a theme often appears for a bit loads of threads on one thing then something else appears"

Missing your meerkat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting

Aww bless ya, did you come up with that all by yourself or did you get help like you do with your shoe laces?

all on my own kid clever as fook me

I've another 'are all people that wear hats hiding something'

am here all morning if you need anymore

Well.done you have noticed I'm wearing a hat, so you're that guy, the guy who is "hilarious" and ain't afraid to show it, is your avatar the only time anyone has got you to belt up?"

people hang off every word kid

i swear it's a curse

pm me for thread ideas if you prefer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, if you're not enjoying them then don't use them. Think of all the things you could do with that free time!

I just think with the amount of intellect that I know for a fact a lot of the frequent forum users have there could be more interesting posts, some peoples threads I look forward to, yours, soxy just to mention a couple, but some of it is just tripe (and I don't mean the actual tripe thread from last week, that was interesting) maybe some people can't be arsed to act intelligent all the time, some use the forums for light entertainment after a busy day, some use it as escapism.

Did you actually post on my serious debate last night?"

More like a mass debate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting

Aww bless ya, did you come up with that all by yourself or did you get help like you do with your shoe laces?

all on my own kid clever as fook me

I've another 'are all people that wear hats hiding something'

am here all morning if you need anymore

Well.done you have noticed I'm wearing a hat, so you're that guy, the guy who is "hilarious" and ain't afraid to show it, is your avatar the only time anyone has got you to belt up?

people hang off every word kid

i swear it's a curse

pm me for thread ideas if you prefer "

Um, no!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I've another 'are all people that wear hats hiding something'"

Why don't you come and find out

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I post a fair bit but I don't often start a thread and when I do they are very rarely intellectual and thought provoking. Usually mine are a mix of puns and humour, comments and observations, the occasional naive question and blatant flirting. Most are similar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've another 'are all people that wear hats hiding something'

Why don't you come and find out

Leave it ace, c'mon let's go sort our hats out mate he didn't mean anything by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the forums offer a light hearted respite from the reality of life .

Sometimes they entertain me and other times they get me a bit hot under the collar .

Most certainly the same subjects keep coming up , with the same responses from the same people .

I'll dip in and out and ruffle a few feathers , and maybe seek a bit of attention (

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But overall they serve a worth purpose for all who use them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've another 'are all people that wear hats hiding something'

Why don't you come and find out

am flattered like but my old mum used to say never play with another mans rhubarb

each to their own mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes the forums offer a light hearted respite from the reality of life .

Sometimes they entertain me and other times they get me a bit hot under the collar .

Most certainly the same subjects keep coming up , with the same responses from the same people .

I'll dip in and out and ruffle a few feathers , and maybe seek a bit of attention (

)

But overall they serve a worth purpose for all who use them

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you get hot under the steering wheel quite a lot I've noticed

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I know what you mean,but then I never start any threads so can't really complain can I! Just do something else that's far more entertaining to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I'm just on a come down from the single mothers thread, it git heated at times, and tempers flared a bit but I don't remember many people sitting in the fence, and those who had a different view to me said what they wanted to say and put their argument forward well, I'm all for fun threads, but like I said, sometimes it all gets stale, mist if the time though you suddenly get a rush if threads that you have to take part in and everything goes right again, its just waiting for those threads can be boring

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Maybe I'm just on a come down from the single mothers thread, it git heated at times, and tempers flared a bit but I don't remember many people sitting in the fence, and those who had a different view to me said what they wanted to say and put their argument forward well, I'm all for fun threads, but like I said, sometimes it all gets stale, mist if the time though you suddenly get a rush if threads that you have to take part in and everything goes right again, its just waiting for those threads can be boring"
but people arnt here to entertain you, there here to entertain themselves. Well I am. I didn't even see a single mothers thread, when was that

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You sound like my daughter she has a tendency to wait for other people to entertain her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe I'm just on a come down from the single mothers thread, it git heated at times, and tempers flared a bit but I don't remember many people sitting in the fence, and those who had a different view to me said what they wanted to say and put their argument forward well, I'm all for fun threads, but like I said, sometimes it all gets stale, mist if the time though you suddenly get a rush if threads that you have to take part in and everything goes right again, its just waiting for those threads can be boringbut people arnt here to entertain you, there here to entertain themselves. Well I am. I didn't even see a single mothers thread, when was that"

I don't expect other people to entertain me, its an observation that the forums go stale every so often, and that thread was last week.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Maybe I'm just on a come down from the single mothers thread, it git heated at times, and tempers flared a bit but I don't remember many people sitting in the fence, and those who had a different view to me said what they wanted to say and put their argument forward well, I'm all for fun threads, but like I said, sometimes it all gets stale, mist if the time though you suddenly get a rush if threads that you have to take part in and everything goes right again, its just waiting for those threads can be boringbut people arnt here to entertain you, there here to entertain themselves. Well I am. I didn't even see a single mothers thread, when was that

I don't expect other people to entertain me, its an observation that the forums go stale every so often, and that thread was last week."
do you mean the single parents thread?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I've another 'are all people that wear hats hiding something'

Why don't you come and find out

am flattered like but my old mum used to say never play with another mans rhubarb

each to their own mind "

Ah well, it was worth a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How to get gloss paint out ya Pubes.. Try that, can't remember seeing that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How to get gloss paint out ya Pubes.. Try that, can't remember seeing that one

try white spirit kid

just mind the end of your ol fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How to get gloss paint out ya Pubes.. Try that, can't remember seeing that one

The more interesting thing about that thread would be how it git there in the first place, but yeah, is look at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting "

Oh and Luton is the centre of the universe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting

Oh and Luton is the centre of the universe

birminghams mine but its a new thing

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I seriously don't know why I comment on some people's thread as I just get ignored by them,think I'll start a thread on that...second thoughts that would be incredibly dull as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting

Oh and Luton is the centre of the universe

Just found this, the luton raider might like

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1472650/Ugly-grey-depressing-why-Luton-really-is-the-worst-place-in-Britain.html

Birmingham is at number 11

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I seriously don't know why I comment on some people's thread as I just get ignored by them,think I'll start a thread on that...second thoughts that would be incredibly dull as well."

I was tempted to ignore your post for comic effect but then I realised a) its not funny, and b) THAT would be incredibly dull of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is just your opinion tho lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That is just your opinion tho lol."

Absolutely, I wouldn't dream if pissing someone else's opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting

Oh and Luton is the centre of the universe

Just found this, the luton raider might like

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1472650/Ugly-grey-depressing-why-Luton-really-is-the-worst-place-in-Britain.html

Birmingham is at number 11

I don t care what anyone says, Birmingham constantly knocked, unfairly, salt of the earth people.

Once a friend, friend for life as long as you dont get into an argument over pork stuffing sandwiches.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting

Oh and Luton is the centre of the universe

Just found this, the luton raider might like

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1472650/Ugly-grey-depressing-why-Luton-really-is-the-worst-place-in-Britain.html

Birmingham is at number 11

I don t care what anyone says, Birmingham constantly knocked, unfairly, salt of the earth people.

Once a friend, friend for life as long as you dont get into an argument over pork stuffing sandwiches.

I'm nit even a native brummy, I grew up and lived in the beautiful black country till I was in my 30s, but I've adopted the city as my home now, being as I'm from the black country I have strong views on pork sandwiches, so maybe we won't go there eh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting

Oh and Luton is the centre of the universe

am not from luton babe so wouldn't know

have heard some decent things about the place mind

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

The forums are a bit like the BBC. A mixture of education, information and entertainment.

Generally the balance between these is about right.

It's also a bit like Dave in that it's full of repeats. But you don't have to read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted a thread this week along much the same idea but I find it interesting that the same people have a tendency to post similarly themed threads. I was thinking that maybe its indicative of how they operate intellectually (or not) or emotionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the forums can be predictable & a little boring at times but as I can't think of any witty / intelligent threads to start to counter balance that I tend to not login as much.

Always seem to enjoy them more after a few days off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seriously don't know why I comment on some people's thread as I just get ignored by them,think I'll start a thread on that...second thoughts that would be incredibly dull as well."
hehe hey you get out of things what you put into them, you are here on fab because I assume you are exciting sexually so excite our imagination here to

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Well, if you're not enjoying them then don't use them. Think of all the things you could do with that free time!

You've made a valid point, but just as men with positions of responsibility come to me in a "submissive mode" could it not be those with "intellect" want to kick back and say "good morning, kiss, fuck, avoid?" simply to empty their minds?

Granny Crumpet for example: VERY smart cookie, in seven years she's never started a "sensible" thread yet!

You know what I mean Granny!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think the fora reflect any large social group with one loosely common interest. There will only ever be a few topics of conversation and they will be repeated over and over. Very occasionally someone will dare to be different and the group will quickly ensure that they're ejected and settle back into the comfortable and familiar routine.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I seriously don't know why I comment on some people's thread as I just get ignored by them,think I'll start a thread on that...second thoughts that would be incredibly dull as well.hehe hey you get out of things what you put into them, you are here on fab because I assume you are exciting sexually so excite our imagination here to

What me? Nar can't be arsed...

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By *ony5Man
over a year ago

somewhere

"It can get a bit samey from time to time but then the odd gem comes along which brightens up your day.

Forums are the same weather it's about flower arranging or swinging they go through cycles and be entertaining all the time.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some days I want to see things from a tortoises point of view, some days I'm a cat (well mostly lately) some days I'm down right stupid, some days I must don't seem to "get" anything that's posted. Oh but once in awhile I might post something with a hint of intelligence

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"That is just your opinion tho lol.

Absolutely, I wouldn't dream if pissing someone else's opinions"

If I recall on your single parent thread you called my opinion ridiculous, but hey ho it was your pity party so I left you to crack on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seriously don't know why I comment on some people's thread as I just get ignored by them,think I'll start a thread on that...second thoughts that would be incredibly dull as well.hehe hey you get out of things what you put into them, you are here on fab because I assume you are exciting sexually so excite our imagination here to

What me? Nar can't be arsed..."
why you have a nice arse

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

when you run out of things to post you can always go for the forum resurrection option. .where you dig up a thread from the past. .one I posted on a few weeks ago I noticed was over a year old. .most of the people on it had left the site. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pop on and off and don't spend a lot of time reading every thread. It doesn't get boring for me. I'm mostly back stage talking to men,arranging to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"start a few of you're own threads brum like

just a thought

I've a suggestion 'anyone been to brum and liked it and If so where abouts?

sub heading - no bullshitting

Oh and Luton is the centre of the universe

Just found this, the luton raider might like

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1472650/Ugly-grey-depressing-why-Luton-really-is-the-worst-place-in-Britain.html

Birmingham is at number 11

I don t care what anyone says, Birmingham constantly knocked, unfairly, salt of the earth people.

Once a friend, friend for life as long as you dont get into an argument over pork stuffing sandwiches.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There's been some bloody right funny threads today, well the responses to them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the Groundhog Day feel of the forum. It's a chance for me to find better ways of responding to threads that I have seen before. I find silence is working brilliantly on many of them

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

That's why I take breaks from it... Sometimes they've last for months as my last hiatus

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

They are what you make them. I've laughed a lot this week.

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