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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So (fem posting fantasy81), my wonderful better half is being posted away for work for a couple of months

So I'm seeing what people think, there will be no playing when he's away but social meets, be it coffee, a drink, or a social evening in a club, for me is ok.

What do other people think about this, would you be put off or meet up anyways (not just us, but I'm taloing in general)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet people for coffee or drinks all the time. Usually they are people I know from the forums, but its fun and enjoyable and there is no expectation of playing (in fact, an expectation that there will not be play).

With people off the forums, I would say it really depends on the person and your end goal. If you are having a social with the expectation that, if all goes well, you will play when your partner comes back, then I think people may be up for them. If these are people you already know, then I would definitely have a coffee/drink/etc. if it were me. Just talk it out. The worst they could say is no.

-Courtney

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Sounds cool to me, it's always good to increase your circle of friends. As Courtney says, who's to say that you may not arrange a play meet at a later date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I meet people for coffee or drinks all the time. Usually they are people I know from the forums, but its fun and enjoyable and there is no expectation of playing (in fact, an expectation that there will not be play).

With people off the forums, I would say it really depends on the person and your end goal. If you are having a social with the expectation that, if all goes well, you will play when your partner comes back, then I think people may be up for them. If these are people you already know, then I would definitely have a coffee/drink/etc. if it were me. Just talk it out. The worst they could say is no.

-Courtney"

Thanks Courtney, I have no idea what the end goal would be. Right now, its just meeting like minded people who I can have open and honest conversations with,with no need to hide ourselves and what we like in life.

Coffee is coffee after all, and I love coffee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds cool to me, it's always good to increase your circle of friends. As Courtney says, who's to say that you may not arrange a play meet at a later date "

Oh good, thanks Ace, and your right, you never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet socially too. There are some very nice genuine people here and,I enjoy their company.

My roast di

nners are always appreciated lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to do what makes you feel comfortable and the people you meet socially will fully understand that.

There's nothing wrong with meeting just for coffee or drinks and its a great way to make new friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I meet socially too. There are some very nice genuine people here and,I enjoy their company.

My roast di

nners are always appreciated lol "

Can't beat a good roast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw shucks- if you wanted an invite round for coffee and cake- you jus had to ask, lady!

In answer to the question- go, socialise, enjoy!

I think its cool- do what makes you feel comfortable xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have to do what makes you feel comfortable and the people you meet socially will fully understand that.

There's nothing wrong with meeting just for coffee or drinks and its a great way to make new friends. "

This is making me feel a lot better, don't want to just leave and come back, I love making friends especially with similar views on this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aw shucks- if you wanted an invite round for coffee and cake- you jus had to ask, lady!

In answer to the question- go, socialise, enjoy!

I think its cool- do what makes you feel comfortable xx"

Aww I will be asking for coffee and cake, I've seen your cakes and they look amazing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw shucks- if you wanted an invite round for coffee and cake- you jus had to ask, lady!

In answer to the question- go, socialise, enjoy!

I think its cool- do what makes you feel comfortable xx

Aww I will be asking for coffee and cake, I've seen your cakes and they look amazing xx"

Any time Lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aw shucks- if you wanted an invite round for coffee and cake- you jus had to ask, lady!

In answer to the question- go, socialise, enjoy!

I think its cool- do what makes you feel comfortable xx

Aww I will be asking for coffee and cake, I've seen your cakes and they look amazing xx

Any time Lovely xx"

Thanks you xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Go for it OP, I have lots of socials and most don't end up as play.

But I've made some great friends from it.

You could come to our organised social on Friday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go for it OP, I have lots of socials and most don't end up as play.

But I've made some great friends from it.

You could come to our organised social on Friday "

Aww I wish I could, if you hold onr in March let me know lol. It's out last weekend together this weekend so hoping for a good one

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Have you not had the latest memo cant do coffee meets now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked a bloke about meeting for a social meet ( see if there was a connection or not ) he then replied with " you need a dating site for that sort of thing " needless to say he then blocked me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you not had the latest memo cant do coffee meets now "

Haha, coffee should be banned the amount I drink , even they have to be planned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I asked a bloke about meeting for a social meet ( see if there was a connection or not ) he then replied with " you need a dating site for that sort of thing " needless to say he then blocked me "

Ah, not worth your time then obviously

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both meet people together and on our own socially for, food and drinks, had many nights sat in maccies with a cuppa chatting for hours a few fab friends come over to watch tv, chill out, chat, eat etc, we love the social side of things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I asked a bloke about meeting for a social meet ( see if there was a connection or not ) he then replied with " you need a dating site for that sort of thing " needless to say he then blocked me

Ah, not worth your time then obviously "

I'd not meet, even with my other half, without a social (unless in a club)

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I asked a bloke about meeting for a social meet ( see if there was a connection or not ) he then replied with " you need a dating site for that sort of thing " needless to say he then blocked me "

I've had the same thing, might even be the same guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both meet people together and on our own socially for, food and drinks, had many nights sat in maccies with a cuppa chatting for hours a few fab friends come over to watch tv, chill out, chat, eat etc, we love the social side of things "

Ahh that's actually really nice to hear, I'd love to.find people like that to meet whilst he's away

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Go for it OP, I have lots of socials and most don't end up as play.

But I've made some great friends from it.

You could come to our organised social on Friday

Aww I wish I could, if you hold onr in March let me know lol. It's out last weekend together this weekend so hoping for a good one "

Friend my other profile and you'll find out when the March one is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go for it OP, I have lots of socials and most don't end up as play.

But I've made some great friends from it.

You could come to our organised social on Friday

Aww I wish I could, if you hold onr in March let me know lol. It's out last weekend together this weekend so hoping for a good one

Friend my other profile and you'll find out when the March one is "

Thanks I shall

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