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"I used to think it described a shape, then we joined fab." ha! I was going to say something similar lol | |||
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"I think of ladies under size 14/16 with a small waist and large bust/hips when I hear it. It seems it's been claimed by larger ladies now." For me personallt curvy is slim with shape, I would never class myself as curvy as I feel I'm to big but I have seen loads of women bigger than me who have curvy on their profile, its very subjective | |||
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"I think of ladies under size 14/16 with a small waist and large bust/hips when I hear it. It seems it's been claimed by larger ladies now. For me personallt curvy is slim with shape, I would never class myself as curvy as I feel I'm to big but I have seen loads of women bigger than me who have curvy on their profile, its very subjective" That's what I think too, sort of like Kate Upton. | |||
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"Before fab if someone asked me to describe curvy i would have said someone like Kelly brook." The first woman that comes to mind when I think curvy is shakira But yes that kind of body shape is what I think of as curvy ![]() | |||
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"I think of ladies under size 14/16 with a small waist and large bust/hips when I hear it. It seems it's been claimed by larger ladies now. For me personallt curvy is slim with shape, I would never class myself as curvy as I feel I'm to big but I have seen loads of women bigger than me who have curvy on their profile, its very subjective" I think you're right, it is subjective cause I'd totally describe you as curvy. ![]() | |||
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"Curvy is the shape of your body.. If you go in and out at the waist,that is curvy.. Big boobs, small waist, big bum.... Just another way of saying hour glass figure... Or so I thought " Totally with you on this - love an hour glass figure ![]() | |||
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"To me curvy is a shape. I was curvy when I was fat. I'm still curvy now I'm podgy. I'll still be curvy if I'm ever slim. My ratio of hips to waist to boobs hasn't changed; just the proportions as a whole. If anyone isn't sure what I mean when I say I'm curvy then they only have to look at my pics and decide for themselves if my definition matches with theirs since the term is so open to interpretation." You look curvy to us & very lovely ![]() | |||
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"In my experience some confident larger women would possibly describe themselves as curvy. Some larger women who perhaps lack confidence or low self esteem would possibly describe themselves as fat. There's so many descriptions now bbw, curvy, fuller figured, voluptuous I'm lost at times. I will say I've never liked the word fat and it's associated with negativity, imo." but why is fat a negative word I've been fat all my life, the only time it's negative is someone says fat bitch or something | |||
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"Well I describe myself as "curvy size 16" but I'm certainly not Kelly Brook, Kate Upton. So I ran off to change my profile and it would appear the alternatives are Ample (not sure that's a body type/shape), large (compared to) and Fabulous (in whose opinion) confused ![]() ![]() ![]() Curvy ![]() | |||
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"Well I describe myself as "curvy size 16" but I'm certainly not Kelly Brook, Kate Upton. So I ran off to change my profile and it would appear the alternatives are Ample (not sure that's a body type/shape), large (compared to) and Fabulous (in whose opinion) confused ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Confirmed ![]() ![]() | |||
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"In the real world curvy means page three. On here its a threat ![]() Oh so in the real world it's the ones that are 80% plastic then ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Well I describe myself as "curvy size 16" but I'm certainly not Kelly Brook, Kate Upton. So I ran off to change my profile and it would appear the alternatives are Ample (not sure that's a body type/shape), large (compared to) and Fabulous (in whose opinion) confused ![]() ![]() ![]() You can choose whatever you like, my description is my interpretation of the ambiguous word. | |||
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"We are having an argument. I thought it might be interesting to get the view of the wider audience on this. Cass thinks that Curvy is just a euphemism for Fat, and feels that its a shame some on here describe themselves as 'curvy' when it has such negative connotations. I feel the opposite. I think that Curvy is a positive term, I like curvy girls and feel that it describes a particular body SHAPE rather than a body SIZE. Discuss - " Would it help to point out that an hour-glass has curves, but so does a beachball ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Well I describe myself as "curvy size 16" but I'm certainly not Kelly Brook, Kate Upton. So I ran off to change my profile and it would appear the alternatives are Ample (not sure that's a body type/shape), large (compared to) and Fabulous (in whose opinion) confused ![]() ![]() ![]() I describe myself as curvy on here but I wouldn't in the real world. If I said to someone in the real world over the phone oh I'm curvy I don't think they would expect to see me walk in. | |||
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"Well I describe myself as "curvy size 16" but I'm certainly not Kelly Brook, Kate Upton. So I ran off to change my profile and it would appear the alternatives are Ample (not sure that's a body type/shape), large (compared to) and Fabulous (in whose opinion) confused ![]() ![]() ![]() Of course and I simply pulled the names from the thread my comment wasn't directed at anyone. Honestly I think they are all ambiguous which is why I include a description and photos ![]() | |||
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"Well I describe myself as "curvy size 16" but I'm certainly not Kelly Brook, Kate Upton. So I ran off to change my profile and it would appear the alternatives are Ample (not sure that's a body type/shape), large (compared to) and Fabulous (in whose opinion) confused ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() exactly and it would be wonderful if the bloody silly body description on here was for rid of and everyone just had a body picture on. | |||
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"Before fab if someone asked me to describe curvy i would have said someone like Kelly brook." I thinks that's a good example as curvy conjures up someone who is sexy too, in my mind anyway. | |||
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"I see it as a shape - mainly hourglass, so a significantly smaller waist than your bust and hips. So a size 8 can be curvy, as can a size 18. However people on here get incredibly cunty about the term, so I changed to fabulous instead. " This so i changed to large x | |||
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" However people on here get incredibly cunty about the term, . " Oi! Lent has started you know! ![]() ![]() | |||
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" However people on here get incredibly cunty about the term, . Oi! Lent has started you know! ![]() ![]() Ah shite, I forgot! ![]() | |||
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" However people on here get incredibly cunty about the term, . Oi! Lent has started you know! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I always think curvy is a shape rather than a size....apparently I'm not ...so I'm fabulous...no one can tell me I'm not ![]() I agree on curvy not being a size, but you are definitely curvy! & fabulous of course... ![]() | |||
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"It gets a bit Mis-used on Fab. It should describe a Marylin Monroe type figure, but is often used by obese people as it is a bit more flattering." In that case, fuck it, I'm fabulous instead of curvy. Because that's not flattering either? The terms on here are so arbitrary it doesn't really matter what people describe themselves as. I'd rather they could choose their own words. Or, heaven formed, describe themselves in their profile or have some pictures on display. | |||
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"I think I'm curvy but on here not sure x " I would say you're slim / athletic with curves.... ![]() | |||
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"I see curvy as a shape rather than a size. I go in and out so have chosen curvy. But could also probably be described as large as I'm 5ft2 and a size 14/16. " Large??? You have an amazing figure! | |||
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"It gets a bit Mis-used on Fab. It should describe a Marylin Monroe type figure, but is often used by obese people as it is a bit more flattering." Marylin Monroe was 36,26,36.. An hourglass figure. You are curvy with an hourglass figure because you have curves..... You can have curves and be obese... At my height and weight I'm obese but I still have an hourglass figure... Goes in and out in the right places! | |||
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"When I first joined fabs I ticked the curvy box, but I changed it to ample a while ago... I have no idea how I would describe myself if someone actually asked me" Same here | |||
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"It gets a bit Mis-used on Fab. It should describe a Marylin Monroe type figure, but is often used by obese people as it is a bit more flattering." Maralyn was obese | |||
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"When I first joined fabs I ticked the curvy box, but I changed it to ample a while ago... I have no idea how I would describe myself if someone actually asked me" I did the same and someone who met me recently said I was doing myself an injustice and said I was more curvy than ample. I've left it as ample. | |||
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"It gets a bit Mis-used on Fab. It should describe a Marylin Monroe type figure, but is often used by obese people as it is a bit more flattering. Maralyn was obese " Actually i take that back just went to check and she wasnt a size 16 technically x | |||
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"Before fab if someone asked me to describe curvy i would have said someone like Kelly brook." I agree ![]() | |||
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"When I first joined fabs I ticked the curvy box, but I changed it to ample a while ago... I have no idea how I would describe myself if someone actually asked me Same here" I would. I am a shortish hourglass with the addition of a pouchy tummy, wide but not that round an arse and big floppy boobs. Easy. In a word? Podgy. | |||
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"There's fab curvy and there's real life curvy. They're in no way related." A prime example right there of the kind of comment that made me change the description I used. ![]() | |||
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"There's fab curvy and there's real life curvy. They're in no way related. A prime example right there of the kind of comment that made me change the description I used. ![]() Surely that's your own insecurity. There IS a huge difference between curvy on here and what is perceived as curvy offline. | |||
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"There's fab curvy and there's real life curvy. They're in no way related. A prime example right there of the kind of comment that made me change the description I used. ![]() No idea what that refers to as I haven't read through. I'd suggest the issue of the misuse of the term on here isn't the fault of comments like mine - it's the misuse of the term! BBW is similarly misused. So is athletic etc. etc. | |||
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"There's fab curvy and there's real life curvy. They're in no way related. A prime example right there of the kind of comment that made me change the description I used. ![]() It's the implied "you're all fat bastards" that lies behind it. I actually disagree anyway - if you look at the use of curvy as a hashtag on Instagram for example you'll see plenty of plus size women using the description. | |||
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"There's fab curvy and there's real life curvy. They're in no way related. A prime example right there of the kind of comment that made me change the description I used. ![]() As well as HAES ![]() | |||
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"There's fab curvy and there's real life curvy. They're in no way related. A prime example right there of the kind of comment that made me change the description I used. ![]() ![]() HAES? I assume by the rolly eyes I'm meant to know what that means. | |||
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"HAES sounds obscure to me. Haze? NAFC not a fkin clue." I dunno, but am probably not alone in googling it ~ Healthy At Every Size. | |||
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"HAES sounds obscure to me. Haze? NAFC not a fkin clue. I dunno, but am probably not alone in googling it ~ Healthy At Every Size." well WELL ![]() | |||
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"HAES sounds obscure to me. Haze? NAFC not a fkin clue. I dunno, but am probably not alone in googling it ~ Healthy At Every Size." Ta, I thought it was a Fab thing I'd missed ![]() | |||
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"Curvy does not mean being fat, it means the natural shape a woman is." ![]() | |||
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"Curvy to me is what it says someone with curves.Like an hour glass shape...I just love curvy ladies.." So curvy can't incorporate other shapes? Hour glass is already a shape description. I think this is where i got the hump with a similar discussion before and why i don't use curvy. | |||
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"Curvy to me is what it says someone with curves.Like an hour glass shape...I just love curvy ladies.. So curvy can't incorporate other shapes? Hour glass is already a shape description. I think this is where i got the hump with a similar discussion before and why i don't use curvy." Well I guess it can.. it was only my take on it.. | |||
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"Curvy to me is what it says someone with curves.Like an hour glass shape...I just love curvy ladies.. So curvy can't incorporate other shapes? Hour glass is already a shape description. I think this is where i got the hump with a similar discussion before and why i don't use curvy." It's all subjective, one person's idea of curvy is not another's so describe yourself as you want to. On here it sits inbetween Average & Large so based on that its heading towards the fuller figure description. Not my take on it but maybe it offers another explainaton why it's perceived differently. | |||
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"You CAN be both fat and curvy. I have a waist which goes in and mahoosive tits. That equals curves. I also carry too much weight. I call myself both fat and curvy. " I'd call that buxom (I mean your description - not you personally as I haven't looked) | |||
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"We are having an argument. I thought it might be interesting to get the view of the wider audience on this. Cass thinks that Curvy is just a euphemism for Fat, and feels that its a shame some on here describe themselves as 'curvy' when it has such negative connotations. I feel the opposite. I think that Curvy is a positive term, I like curvy girls and feel that it describes a particular body SHAPE rather than a body SIZE. Discuss - " Couldn't agree more. It IS a SHAPE, rather than a SIZE. You can get girls who have a petite frame (say, a size 8), and they're slim AND very curvy with it. | |||
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