FabSwingers.com forum: hard to orgasm

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering if theres anymore females like this ? Any tips ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same. I need to be very relaxed and comfortable with the person in order to orgasm, and it's even harder now I'm on sertraline. Sorry, I don't really have any tips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering if theres anymore females like this ? Any tips ? "

I believe it's all to do with how relaxed and excited you are at he time during intercourse for those ladies who can't reach orgasms usually means your not relaxed enough to let the body go . hope this helps

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Very rare a guy on a meet makes me orgasm as most just assume they doing it right

I'm always relaxed and enjoying it but it never happens

Maybe it's me......lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You're not the only one. For me it's not that it's hard but sometimes it can take ages when I'm no doing it myself

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Very rare a guy on a meet makes me orgasm as most just assume they doing it right

I'm always relaxed and enjoying it but it never happens

Maybe it's me......lol"

I have to say i agree with you. I've not done a lot of meets, been to 3 or 4 parties & only played with a few in clubs and only remember 1 man bringing me to orgasm. To be fair i didn't think i would as i'd played with my partner & orgasm'd and i rarely orgasm twice in 24hours never mind 2.

As others have said, it's all about feeling relaxed but with me also it's the build up. The flirting, anticipation etc....

Mrs WD40

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

meet a guy, make sure he's good, have a glass, realise it probably won't be long term and get lot in the moment.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

Very reassuring that there are some non fakers about, I've been to parties and meets and some of the woman are howling like a banshee.

I've often thought, the pressure that are put on woman to make a vocal announcement of enjoyment.

For the OP I say just enjoy the experience and have fun, personally, my friends on the scene who know me, know that i very rarely cum, and that's out of choice, because I'm more into the pleasure of partaking in the sexual fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plenty of guys make me cum, but i just enjoy the sex anyway and don't really mind not cumming when it doesn't happen. i got into the feeling of being filled up with a cock and enjoying everything to do with sex and the meet.

only time i feel frustrated after sex is if the guy made no effort to pleasure me or fucks off literally as soon as he's finished, leaving me feeling used. this hardly ever happens and i pretend everything is fine then just don't meet the guy again (neither do i verify them).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry, that was shit advice lol.

ok, take more control during sex could help; you on top, you telling him what to do, you feeling entitled to enjoy the sex and cum if you want that. even you showing him what you like.

possibly bring toys into play?

it's also possible you need more time to get to know the person before meeting up for sex?

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