FabSwingers.com forum: Meet and then block?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I had a meet off here a few nights ago, all fine. I gave the guy nice veri and politely asked for the same then I got blocked by him,

What gives??

Also within 2 hours of emptying his sacks with me, he was looking for more again via here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you weren't his cup of tea

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"So I had a meet off here a few nights ago, all fine. I gave the guy nice veri and politely asked for the same then I got blocked by him,

What gives??

Also within 2 hours of emptying his sacks with me, he was looking for more again via here.

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did you have a good time with him

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Maybe leiceter is the ground zero of fuck n go men.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We've all got different expectations about our nsa fun. I'll meet for years with the same people, others are happy if they barely grunt a shared word to a partner.

Just chalk it up to experience - their response is largely about their needs, rather than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also within 2 hours of emptying his sacks with me, he was looking for more again via here.

Is there something wrong with enjoying variety? Or were you hoping for a long term relationship of some sort?

This is a swinging site after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a scum bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He still keeps the tick but not the verification from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I had a meet off here a few nights ago, all fine. I gave the guy nice veri and politely asked for the same then I got blocked by him,

What gives??

Also within 2 hours of emptying his sacks with me, he was looking for more again via here.

how do you know that if he blocked you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I had a meet off here a few nights ago, all fine. I gave the guy nice veri and politely asked for the same then I got blocked by him,

What gives??

Also within 2 hours of emptying his sacks with me, he was looking for more again via here.

did you have a good time with him?

Yes I dont have anything bad to say. Just bit strange, we both adults, I would have seen him again and it would have been even better than first time.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

He's not worth worrying about. Look to the future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe leiceter is the ground zero of fuck n go men. "

I wanted the fuck and go, but I enjoyed it and would have seen him again.

I gave a nice veri for him, asked for him to return that curtiosy and i get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sucks, but maybe he didn't have as good a time as you and couldn't tell you that when you asked for the veri?

People are weird. I wouldn't give him a second thought.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also within 2 hours of emptying his sacks with me, he was looking for more again via here.

Is there something wrong with enjoying variety? Or were you hoping for a long term relationship of some sort?

This is a swinging site after all."

No of course not but within an hour or so of emptying his balls with me, just makes you feel like, why not at least wait for a new day.

This was in the evening.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

People aren't obliged to return verifications, but I hope you had a good time anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be anything really, only he can tell you why... but he's blocked you; so not worth worrying about!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Maybe leiceter is the ground zero of fuck n go men.

I wanted the fuck and go, but I enjoyed it and would have seen him again.

I gave a nice veri for him, asked for him to return that curtiosy and i get blocked.

Maybe HE didn't want to see you again.

You just might not have been his cup of tea...

Unfortunately when it comes to fab and NSA you need to be able to shake it off and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So I had a meet off here a few nights ago, all fine. I gave the guy nice veri and politely asked for the same then I got blocked by him,

What gives??

Also within 2 hours of emptying his sacks with me, he was looking for more again via here.

how do you know that if he blocked you?"

From a sent message, went to view profile, blocked.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Also within 2 hours of emptying his sacks with me, he was looking for more again via here.

Is there something wrong with enjoying variety? Or were you hoping for a long term relationship of some sort?

This is a swinging site after all.

No of course not but within an hour or so of emptying his balls with me, just makes you feel like, why not at least wait for a new day.

This was in the evening. "

Bradley can usually carry on straight after cumming or go again within the next 5-10mins.

Why shouldn't he go again the same day?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You had a good time thats all that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand people saying that the OP might not have been his 'cup of tea' but surely you make that decision before, not after, sleeping with the person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty, I'd be miffed by that. But it's not worth worrying about at all, I'm sure he's got his reasons...onto the next, OP.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"I understand people saying that the OP might not have been his 'cup of tea' but surely you make that decision before, not after, sleeping with the person?

I meant sexually.

You won't know if you're sexually compatible until you have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I had a meet off here a few nights ago, all fine. I gave the guy nice veri and politely asked for the same then I got blocked by him,

What gives??

Also within 2 hours of emptying his sacks with me, he was looking for more again via here.

I would say he didn't enjoy the meet as much as you and maybe rather then tell you that he found it easier to block you

Personally I'd have sooner him told me but I wouldn't get upset over a block I've blocked a few guys I have met for a variety of reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would be a bit fed up if this happened to us too. It can't be a nice feeling.

It's water off a ducks back to me being blocked after a message, after a social, after a comment on the forum but after sex? that would make me feel a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

Why would they be embarrassed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

Why would they be embarrassed?"

Ok to fuck but a last resort I guess

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Harsh reality is he probably thought you were a crap shag so blocked you and went looking for better one.

Sometimes sexual chemistry doesn't work both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

Why would they be embarrassed?

Ok to fuck but a last resort I guess "

Who was they then Mr and Mrs perfection?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

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they told you they wouldn't verify you because they didn't want the embarrassment of people knowing they had met you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also within 2 hours of emptying his sacks with me, he was looking for more again via here.

Is there something wrong with enjoying variety? Or were you hoping for a long term relationship of some sort?

This is a swinging site after all.

No of course not but within an hour or so of emptying his balls with me, just makes you feel like, why not at least wait for a new day.

This was in the evening. "

are you feeling that his sex with you should have satisfied him ? - we have been to a club and played with a few couples in a few hours - its all just fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Harsh reality is he probably thought you were a crap shag so blocked you and went looking for better one.

Sometimes sexual chemistry doesn't work both ways "

Certainly harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I had a meet off here a few nights ago, all fine. I gave the guy nice veri and politely asked for the same then I got blocked by him,

What gives??

Also within 2 hours of emptying his sacks with me, he was looking for more again via here.

how do you know that if he blocked you?

From a sent message, went to view profile, blocked."

Move on he is not worth getting wound up about.

Just chill and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

they told you they wouldn't verify you because they didn't want the embarrassment of people knowing they had met you?"

Yes. After the 2nd meet. They said they dont usually meet single guys.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

they told you they wouldn't verify you because they didn't want the embarrassment of people knowing they had met you?

Yes. After the 2nd meet. They said they dont usually meet single guys."
ha! I just looked at your profile and was surprised to see you didn't have atmleast three heads lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

they told you they wouldn't verify you because they didn't want the embarrassment of people knowing they had met you?

Yes. After the 2nd meet. They said they dont usually meet single guys."

Ah that's different

To me that means we don't want a veri from a single guy because then they would get loads of guys mailing them

I assum they didn't display your verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

they told you they wouldn't verify you because they didn't want the embarrassment of people knowing they had met you?

Yes. After the 2nd meet. They said they dont usually meet single guys.ha! I just looked at your profile and was surprised to see you didn't have atmleast three heads lol

But only 1 ball

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Jeez! What a pleasant guy!

If you have no idea why, just move on... Sounds like a right knob.

Were there any signs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

they told you they wouldn't verify you because they didn't want the embarrassment of people knowing they had met you?

Yes. After the 2nd meet. They said they dont usually meet single guys.

Ah that's different

To me that means we don't want a veri from a single guy because then they would get loads of guys mailing them

I assum they didn't display your verified?"

No they didnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

Why would they be embarrassed?

Ok to fuck but a last resort I guess "

Please tell me you wouldn't go there again ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a couple 2 times. I verified them they didnt me. The reason...they wouldnt want the embarrassment from other people knowing they met me. I didnt get blocked thou.

Why would they be embarrassed?

Ok to fuck but a last resort I guess

Please tell me you wouldn't go there again ?"

Certainly wouldnt. And the same for them

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op, in reality noone knows why he blocked you its second guessing. It could simply be new a guy whose using this site in his own way and for all you know he could be doing exactly the same to other people.

You say you had a good time on the night which means he would of treated you decently so just put it down to you had a bit of fun and move on. Don't try and work out why he did it cause your head will explode. Who knows why other people do things.

You had a good night which is the important thing

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yes I'm sure that doesn't feel great,try not to think about it to much

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Sadly that is another black mark against single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be a tad pissed off being treated like that to be honest. Could have been handled better if he wasn't keen to veri or meet you again.

Chin up

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