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Attraction,and sex..

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Finding a lot contradictions when in disscussions with persons.

i) have had male colleague confide in me that he finds no enjoyment in the act itself and often had to act emotions.

ii) It is often said its not entirely important for ladies.

Yet innitial getting together of couple is based on physical attraction???

Begs the question can a couple genuinley be content without the sex..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction to personality is much more important to me. The hottest guy/girl in the world is great, but if they are completely vacuous, I'm not interested.

I don't think I would be content in a sexless relationship, more so now I'm older. I definitely think I'm becoming more aware of my sexuality and it's more important to me. However, if I was in love with someone and the sex petered out after a while, who knows

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

The idea of that fills me with horror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The idea of that fills me with horror"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like sex with couples and I don't think they've been acting. If they have, it's been very good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" can a couple genuinley be content without the sex..??"

Can a person be emotionally content, happy, loving, affectionate and close to their partner without sex?

Yes.

Is everyone? No.

Can a couple? If both are, yes. If one is, no.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"

Begs the question can a couple genuinley be content without the sex..??"

Some can, yes.

Sex isn't the be all and end all for everyone.

While I enjoy sex, our relationship is based on far more than just that.

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"

Begs the question can a couple genuinley be content without the sex..??

Some can, yes.

Sex isn't the be all and end all for everyone.

While I enjoy sex, our relationship is based on far more than just that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding a lot contradictions when in disscussions with persons.

i) have had male colleague confide in me that he finds no enjoyment in the act itself and often had to act emotions.

ii) It is often said its not entirely important for ladies.

Yet innitial getting together of couple is based on physical attraction???

Begs the question can a couple genuinley be content without the sex..??"

It depends on the couple and their situation.

I'm in several relationships. I have one without sex. It's fine - great even. We really enjoy ourselves.

I didn't get with any of my partners based on physical attraction, I got together with them based on their personality and what we both enjoyed.

Sex is crucial for me - I go out and pay for it if I'm not getting the kind of sex I want on a regular basis. However I can still have relationships without sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea couples can survive without sex, sex is great but so is a good tug.

The worst turn off for a guy has got to be a stonner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding a lot contradictions when in disscussions with persons.

i) have had male colleague confide in me that he finds no enjoyment in the act itself and often had to act emotions.

ii) It is often said its not entirely important for ladies.

Yet innitial getting together of couple is based on physical attraction???

If the relationship is based on money and financial security then sex with each other may never have been on the agenda,even so yes you can have a relationship with no sex and be closer to each other than a couple who have sex 5 times a day

Begs the question can a couple genuinley be content without the sex..??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres no sex in my marriage but i adore my husband. Theres conpromises to be had of both parties are willing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples can and often do how many do due to illness or work commitments ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last 2 years of my marriage were sexless, that wasn't the reason for the split though, I loved her dearly and would and did do anything for her.

To me attraction is essential, I couldn't fake it nor would I want to! What i find attractive though is quite multi layered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" can a couple genuinley be content without the sex..??

Can a person be emotionally content, happy, loving, affectionate and close to their partner without sex?

Yes.

Is everyone? No.

Can a couple? If both are, yes. If one is, no. "

This.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I can live without sex but I'd rather not.

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