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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One wonders if it's worth carrying on, with life I mean. So many worries, so many problems to try and resolve, so few who truly understand. I hate feeling depressed. I hate that I feel so helpless and worthless at times and that nobody can help me but myself. I just hate it. Sometimes I just want someone to scoop me up and say everything will be Ok and mean it. Sometimes I want to never wake up and not feel guilty for the heartbreak I'd leave behind for the people I love. Sometimes, not all the time.

My soul laid bare, just needed to share x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One wonders if it's worth carrying on, with life I mean. So many worries, so many problems to try and resolve, so few who truly understand. I hate feeling depressed. I hate that I feel so helpless and worthless at times and that nobody can help me but myself. I just hate it. Sometimes I just want someone to scoop me up and say everything will be Ok and mean it. Sometimes I want to never wake up and not feel guilty for the heartbreak I'd leave behind for the people I love. Sometimes, not all the time.

My soul laid bare, just needed to share x"

I know the feeling. Only too well. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One wonders if it's worth carrying on, with life I mean. So many worries, so many problems to try and resolve, so few who truly understand. I hate feeling depressed. I hate that I feel so helpless and worthless at times and that nobody can help me but myself. I just hate it. Sometimes I just want someone to scoop me up and say everything will be Ok and mean it. Sometimes I want to never wake up and not feel guilty for the heartbreak I'd leave behind for the people I love. Sometimes, not all the time.

My soul laid bare, just needed to share x"

I've been feeling the same earlier today and yesterday. It comes and goes. If I didn't have my older brother to think about I may not be here anymore.

It's helped me to have plans for the future so I can focus on them and feel better when I think about those things.

Here's a cyber hug for you ((((( ))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tomorrow is another day. I've been where you are, as so many of us have. So I'm sure you know that there's nothing anyone can say; apart from when you look back at the things you've overcome you realise you're stronger than you thought. xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Your not alone, many people feel like this.

In a simple way, I will say, change the things you can, but learn to accept the things you can't. Finally accepting, and u derstanding things was a big part of my life changing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is worth living sweetheart just cos atm life is crappy doesn't mean that the sun won't come out and brighten everything up. Xxxxxxxx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Be sure to get medical advice if you become totally overwhelmed

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By *hadow_15Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"One wonders if it's worth carrying on, with life I mean. So many worries, so many problems to try and resolve, so few who truly understand. I hate feeling depressed. I hate that I feel so helpless and worthless at times and that nobody can help me but myself. I just hate it. Sometimes I just want someone to scoop me up and say everything will be Ok and mean it. Sometimes I want to never wake up and not feel guilty for the heartbreak I'd leave behind for the people I love. Sometimes, not all the time.

My soul laid bare, just needed to share x"

Deep breath. A night's sleep. Forgive yourself. You don't have to try, just get to tomorrow.

Samaritans 116 123

Promise me you'll call them before you do anything serious.

You are loved.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

This really isn't the place for this.

If you're being genuine, then there are far better places to seek advice than a sex website.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This really isn't the place for this.

If you're being genuine, then there are far better places to seek advice than a sex website.

"

It can be a good place, often you can tell strangers more than you can people you know. We're also pretty open minded here and not being judged is a big help

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"If you're going through hell - keep going!!!"

Take heart - this too will pass.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's good to share worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This really isn't the place for this.

If you're being genuine, then there are far better places to seek advice than a sex website.

It can be a good place, often you can tell strangers more than you can people you know. We're also pretty open minded here and not being judged is a big help "

this. I personally find it easier talking to strangers than to people who know me.

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By *dluv2Man
over a year ago

glasgow

God that is so sad, I wish I owned the magic words that could make a difference, but you already know no one can make a difference but you. And the fact that someone out there loves you, just gives you all the more reason to fight it kicking and screaming cause to someone's life you are always important xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Please get in touch with some professionals rather than some randoms on a swinger's site if that's how you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This really isn't the place for this.

If you're being genuine, then there are far better places to seek advice than a sex website.

"

It's as good a place as any when your depressed and lonely.

Don't judge others, we are all human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This really isn't the place for this.

If you're being genuine, then there are far better places to seek advice than a sex website.

"

I disagree. If opened up on here in the past and am on a far happier place as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh the amount of times I opened my heart to you lot last year beggers belife and I no that your all glad i came thr the other side! Best place for Advice is fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This really isn't the place for this.

If you're being genuine, then there are far better places to seek advice than a sex website.

I disagree. If opened up on here in the past and am on a far happier place as a result. "

*I've

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By *hadow_15Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Please get in touch with some professionals rather than some randoms on a swinger's site if that's how you feel."

We're real people too you know and hey, some of us might have empirical experience in this area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything will be ok,and I mean that. It's called depression because your mood,or whatever they call it now,is low. You were up,you have gone down,and you'll go back up again. Imagine you're walking along and there's a dip in the pavement; you go down the dip easily,but it's a bit of a struggle to get up the other side. You do it though,with help. When I get to the bottom of my dips I give myself a time out;I rest and remember I have help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This really isn't the place for this.

If you're being genuine, then there are far better places to seek advice than a sex website.

It can be a good place, often you can tell strangers more than you can people you know. We're also pretty open minded here and not being judged is a big help "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You can share some of the burden and cares. Possibly your Gp could help to support you too.

This is but a small note but thinking of you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the kind words.

Yes it's far easier to talk to complete stranger's who have no emotional investment in you.

I know this will pass.

No I'm not fooling around, my profile text had been so for quite some time and not a reflection of my current feeling.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Fooling Round on the forums or similar is on loads of profiles of regular forumites doesn't mean that everything they post is bullshit it's just a figure of speech

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd like to apologise to the OP and anyone else I upset with my comments earlier in this thread.

It was hasty and unnecessary.

My best wishes to the OP and I hope things get better for you as soon as they possibly can. I hope this thread offers you plenty of comfort too.

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, much appreciated x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Please get in touch with some professionals rather than some randoms on a swinger's site if that's how you feel.

We're real people too you know and hey, some of us might have empirical experience in this area.

"

Kudos, I only hope the OP has been in touch and feels much better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A problem shared can be a problem halved, it's good to offload onto random strangers at times.

Personally speaking there hasn't been a day in the last year where I wouldn't have welcomed being swept up into someone's arms if they took the pain away, so I totally get that sentiment.

Hope you find tomorrow is better day. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been where you area, more than once.

I dip and suffer with depression but I do feel you need to get in touch with your doctor and at least contemplate counselling perhaps?

Lots of hugs and you're never alone on here, loads of kind people to talk to.

Including me. Hit me up any time.

xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are not area*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I've been where you area, more than once.

I dip and suffer with depression but I do feel you need to get in touch with your doctor and at least contemplate counselling perhaps?

Lots of hugs and you're never alone on here, loads of kind people to talk to.

Including me. Hit me up any time.

xxxxxx"

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

If ever you wonder whether life is worth living or not, watch the film It's A Wonderful Life. It's 50+ years old, but it illustrates beautifully that we all vital to making a positive contribution to others' lives - even when we don't realise it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One wonders if it's worth carrying on, with life I mean. So many worries, so many problems to try and resolve, so few who truly understand. I hate feeling depressed. I hate that I feel so helpless and worthless at times and that nobody can help me but myself. I just hate it. Sometimes I just want someone to scoop me up and say everything will be Ok and mean it. Sometimes I want to never wake up and not feel guilty for the heartbreak I'd leave behind for the people I love. Sometimes, not all the time.

My soul laid bare, just needed to share x"

I feel exactly the same but I hate people sympathising or trying to get inside my head. The weird thing is I'm not even manically depressed, but I don't care if I wake up tomorrow.

Some people see life as a gift but I see it as a pain in the arse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been there and worn the badge OP...life can be shite at times. I turned myself around by turning my back on the way I lived my life.I turned to living a very simple lifestyle,I've never looked back and never been as happy.

Hope things work out for you OP,all the best x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Some people see life as a gift but I see it as a pain in the arse..."

It certainly can be some days I'll admit, but mostly it's a wonderful journey with highs and lows along the way. Getting to the peak after having been in a trough is exhilarating.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Complete non sequitur but every time I see this thread it makes me think of:

1/ James - Sometimes https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejU5YAHN3vQ

2/ The accompanying sub to go with that period of my life

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