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The 'notes' feature

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Do you use it? I don't very often but it's a good feature for reminding me about conversations etc.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Yes, I used it about 3 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes sometimes not a lot but can be useful

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

yes use it frequently, more than useful

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I do. Contact details on those I meet or want to and notes on people I found incredibly offensive but didn't see the point in blocking to remind me why I was avoiding contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

If there's a conversation or anything I want to remember I just save it

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I do. Contact details on those I meet or want to and notes on people I found incredibly offensive but didn't see the point in blocking to remind me why I was avoiding contact."

Crikey! hadn't thought of that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its a helpful for remembering friends birthdays and also making notes on people I am looking to meet with.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I use it all the time.

I make notes on who has contacted me before, if I declined or not. What I thought about them, etc. Because the nature of this site sometimes means you lose contact and reconnect with people.

I don't like blocking people, and I like to have a good reason if I do. Most of the time it'll be because someone has contacted me more than twice, and the way I know that is through the notes I make in their profile.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I use it all the time! Mostly for things that someone has said in forum/profile/chat that they might later regret (e.g. barebacking, married-and-cheating, acting like an idiot in chat). If I look at a profile and see that I've previously made a private note, that's a warning signal that I am 95% unlikely to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sometimes use it if we've been chatting and liked the person.

Ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. Find it very useful!!

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Basically the same as Ligeia.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I use it all the time! Mostly for things that someone has said in forum/profile/chat that they might later regret (e.g. barebacking, married-and-cheating, acting like an idiot in chat). If I look at a profile and see that I've previously made a private note, that's a warning signal that I am 95% unlikely to meet them "

Oh ya, this too!! Lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

All the time, I usually c&p unsavory messages and status updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently started using and very helpful tbh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do. Contact details on those I meet or want to and notes on people I found incredibly offensive but didn't see the point in blocking to remind me why I was avoiding contact.

Crikey! hadn't thought of that! "

I use it often but this is a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the time, I usually c&p unsavory messages and status updates "

Good thinking

I tend to put ...pic yuck or avoid ..or OMG no !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everytime I'm on forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use it all the time! Mostly for things that someone has said in forum/profile/chat that they might later regret (e.g. barebacking, married-and-cheating, acting like an idiot in chat). If I look at a profile and see that I've previously made a private note, that's a warning signal that I am 95% unlikely to meet them

Oh ya, this too!! Lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it often, and think it's a great feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't used it before, It would be useful as I don't have the best memory I really should make a note to use it

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You can add this to mine

"This guy frequents the forums on an almost daily basis, he doesn't meet very often, he's bisexual, he's married, he's very tactile, he's got a proper profile hidden away, he likes Star Wars and beer, he's trying to get fit, he's got a weird sense of humour, he's intelligent and witty with words but barely speaks as he hates the sound of his own voice and he's met more people that he's letting on. Basically, he's a cheeky twat so block him".

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Great tool for reminding reminding yourself down the line why you (predominantly) don't want to meet someone.

(Abusive on the forum/moany statuses/etc)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can add this to mine

"This guy frequents the forums on an almost daily basis, he doesn't meet very often, he's bisexual, he's married, he's very tactile, he's got a proper profile hidden away, he likes Star Wars and beer, he's trying to get fit, he's got a weird sense of humour, he's intelligent and witty with words but barely speaks as he hates the sound of his own voice and he's met more people that he's letting on. Basically, he's a cheeky twat so block him". "

Cut and pasted

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Every random message I get goes in there. Along with my response and the date. Takes ten seconds but it's been invaluable when people don't appear to take in a polite no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Not really for forum stuff though. Mostly for people who contact us to meet. I just copy and paste messages so I can remember what's been said because the inbox is a joke

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it all the time... I have bad memory.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"You can add this to mine

"This guy frequents the forums on an almost daily basis, he doesn't meet very often, he's bisexual, he's married, he's very tactile, he's got a proper profile hidden away, he likes Star Wars and beer, he's trying to get fit, he's got a weird sense of humour, he's intelligent and witty with words but barely speaks as he hates the sound of his own voice and he's met more people that he's letting on. Basically, he's a cheeky twat so block him". "

"he's got a proper profile hidden away" ??!?

Now, that's intriguing!!

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"the inbox is a joke"

Yup. This is why I use it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I notice a note I've made on a profile it usually says something like "this one's a right cunt" or something similarly helpful, so I can't remember what or why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I have no need.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I do. Contact details on those I meet or want to and notes on people I found incredibly offensive but didn't see the point in blocking to remind me why I was avoiding contact."

Exactly this

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've not used them

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"All the time, I usually c&p unsavory messages and status updates "

I do this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, generally when someone says something abhorrent in the forum

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

All the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, useful info, names, birthdays, numbers.

I don't use it for anyone I wouldn't want to meet. They just get ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything you say may be used against you in future messages. You have the right to consult your brain before speaking to me and to use it during conversation now or in the future. If you don't have a brain, You should locate one before any conversation commences,

I can already see it now replacing the Sydney university warnings

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Whenever I notice a note I've made on a profile it usually says something like "this one's a right cunt" or something similarly helpful, so I can't remember what or why. "

Mine serve the same purpose however, it is always in their own words, so it can't be disputed at a later date

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Do you use it? I don't very often but it's a good feature for reminding me about conversations etc. "

I use it all the time. I record when my messages are deleted without reply. Two deleted messages and I don't message again. Why two? Well, some people who have become good friends deleted the first message. Not sure if that was deliberate or by accident (clicking on delete all messages when not meant to).

And other things I need to remember

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Do you use it? I don't very often but it's a good feature for reminding me about conversations etc.

I use it all the time. I record when my messages are deleted without reply. Two deleted messages and I don't message again. Why two? Well, some people who have become good friends deleted the first message. Not sure if that was deliberate or by accident (clicking on delete all messages when not meant to).

And other things I need to remember

"

This exactly mirrors my 2x messages then block rule! Lol

Twice could be a mistake - I might have changed my profile/ pictures/ username/ title. But three times is just not paying attention to who you're messaging. Lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Yeah. Not really for forum stuff though. Mostly for people who contact us to meet. I just copy and paste messages so I can remember what's been said because the inbox is a joke

-Courtney "

Ooohh, now I'm interested, tell me an American "joke"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything you say may be used against you in future messages. You have the right to consult your brain before speaking to me and to use it during conversation now or in the future. If you don't have a brain, You should locate one before any conversation commences,

I can already see it now replacing the Sydney university warnings

"

More useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds harsh but I block people that aren't a potential meet

I use the notes for social meets dates etc as I've a terrible memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My memory is awful.

Most people who know me understand this and know I'm not being stupid/ignorant or whatever. But occasionally I use the notes feature to "remember" basic things about nice people who I chat to infrequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me and W have a lot of fun with the notes - little chats to each other - mostly to the extreme as in oh yeah or never in our lifetime

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