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"In all honesty your too skinny abs on somebody your size isnt that hard to achieve" | |||
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""Look at me, love me, admire me, wish you were me" " This kind of comment says more about you than the OP | |||
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"There good abs, but you need bulk up abit Steaks on me pal " Drools quietly from the sidelines | |||
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""Look at me, love me, admire me, wish you were me" This kind of comment says more about you than the OP " The OP made a thread the other night saying he thought he had the best pictures. Hence my comment. | |||
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"There good abs, but you need bulk up abit Steaks on me pal " Literally on you? Im hungry x | |||
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"There good abs, but you need bulk up abit Steaks on me pal Literally on you? Im hungry x " I'll share him. You can have the steak, I'll have the sausage | |||
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""Look at me, love me, admire me, wish you were me" This kind of comment says more about you than the OP The OP made a thread the other night saying he thought he had the best pictures. Hence my comment." If it's the thread I've just looked at he asked who thought they had the best pics. He didn't say he thought he had the best pics. | |||
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"There good abs, but you need bulk up abit Steaks on me pal Literally on you? Im hungry x I'll share him. You can have the steak, I'll have the sausage " Ha!! | |||
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"Well as long as the light isn't on the dash, your ABS should be just fine, but it's hard to say without test driving your motor! " laughed more than I should have at that | |||
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"Well as long as the light isn't on the dash, your ABS should be just fine, but it's hard to say without test driving your motor! " | |||
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"Well as long as the light isn't on the dash, your ABS should be just fine, but it's hard to say without test driving your motor! laughed more than I should have at that " Did you have a little accident? | |||
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"What do you girls think of my abs, be honest " I've just finished a 6 hour workout to keep my ass nice and firm and to chisel my Abs. I sure miss the days when a big dick was enough for women. | |||
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"What do you girls think of my abs, be honest " You're young and will bulk a bit over time... I wouldn't worry too much about putting weight on. The thing I've learned is just to obtain the optimum, yet naturally best size for yourself... If you tip over this point, it's all for show and you become useless... Also, it's not about how your abs look, it's about core strength and balance. | |||
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""Look at me, love me, admire me, wish you were me" This kind of comment says more about you than the OP The OP made a thread the other night saying he thought he had the best pictures. Hence my comment." "I love a good ass picture who out there thinks they have the best?". That is what he wrote. How did you interpret this? | |||
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""Look at me, love me, admire me, wish you were me" This kind of comment says more about you than the OP The OP made a thread the other night saying he thought he had the best pictures. Hence my comment. "I love a good ass picture who out there thinks they have the best?". That is what he wrote. How did you interpret this?" Plus what's wrong with liking the way you look? I don't mind saying I love the way I look and am a total attention whore! | |||
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""Look at me, love me, admire me, wish you were me" This kind of comment says more about you than the OP The OP made a thread the other night saying he thought he had the best pictures. Hence my comment. "I love a good ass picture who out there thinks they have the best?". That is what he wrote. How did you interpret this?" That's not the thread I was referring to (hence the "other night" bit) | |||
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""Look at me, love me, admire me, wish you were me" This kind of comment says more about you than the OP The OP made a thread the other night saying he thought he had the best pictures. Hence my comment. "I love a good ass picture who out there thinks they have the best?". That is what he wrote. How did you interpret this?" I read it that he likes to see pics of sexy asses and was encouraging those who feel they have pictures worth a look to post so he could perve. Hardly a 'look at me' thread. | |||
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""Look at me, love me, admire me, wish you were me" This kind of comment says more about you than the OP The OP made a thread the other night saying he thought he had the best pictures. Hence my comment. "I love a good ass picture who out there thinks they have the best?". That is what he wrote. How did you interpret this? That's not the thread I was referring to (hence the "other night" bit)" Ah, I see; you must be referring to this one: "Who thinks they have the best pics?" | |||
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""Look at me, love me, admire me, wish you were me" This kind of comment says more about you than the OP The OP made a thread the other night saying he thought he had the best pictures. Hence my comment. "I love a good ass picture who out there thinks they have the best?". That is what he wrote. How did you interpret this? That's not the thread I was referring to (hence the "other night" bit) Ah, I see; you must be referring to this one: "Who thinks they have the best pics?"" That's the one... | |||
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""Look at me, love me, admire me, wish you were me" This kind of comment says more about you than the OP The OP made a thread the other night saying he thought he had the best pictures. Hence my comment. "I love a good ass picture who out there thinks they have the best?". That is what he wrote. How did you interpret this? That's not the thread I was referring to (hence the "other night" bit) Ah, I see; you must be referring to this one: "Who thinks they have the best pics?" That's the one..." I can't see how "Who thinks they have the best pics?" can be interpreted as, "I think I have the best pictures" So, back to his abs; not bad | |||
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"I prefer traps " Yeah, this ^ And lats. Traps and lats over abs any day. | |||
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"There good abs, but you need bulk up abit Steaks on me pal " Don't you start, Liam. I'd fatten that little body of yours right up too. | |||
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"There good abs, but you need bulk up abit Steaks on me pal Don't you start, Liam. I'd fatten that little body of yours right up too. " I'm putting on weight give me time | |||
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" I can't see how "Who thinks they have the best pics?" can be interpreted as, "I think I have the best pictures" " Seriously? Oh I give up | |||
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"There good abs, but you need bulk up abit Steaks on me pal Don't you start, Liam. I'd fatten that little body of yours right up too. I'm putting on weight give me time " You have 4 weeks. | |||
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" I can't see how "Who thinks they have the best pics?" can be interpreted as, "I think I have the best pictures" Seriously? Oh I give up " Instead of just rolling your eyes and "giving up" perhaps it will be better if you apologised to the OP for misquoting him. Otherwise, most here will be too | |||
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"Uh. They're not abs, they're ribs. Also: I prefer traps Yeah, this ^ And lats. Traps and lats over abs any day. " Sneaks off to the gym for a session of lat pull downs and wide arm pulls ups | |||
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"Uh. They're not abs, they're ribs. Also: I prefer traps Yeah, this ^ And lats. Traps and lats over abs any day. Sneaks off to the gym for a session of lat pull downs and wide arm pulls ups " Don't be cracking that marble. | |||
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" Instead of just rolling your eyes and "giving up" perhaps it will be better if you apologised to the OP for misquoting him. Otherwise, most here will be too" Are you just trying to bait me now or are you really that dim? Like I said, I'm done. Ciao! | |||
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" Instead of just rolling your eyes and "giving up" perhaps it will be better if you apologised to the OP for misquoting him. Otherwise, most here will be too Are you just trying to bait me now or are you really that dim? Like I said, I'm done. Ciao!" I think we've all figured out who is dim here | |||
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" Instead of just rolling your eyes and "giving up" perhaps it will be better if you apologised to the OP for misquoting him. Otherwise, most here will be too Are you just trying to bait me now or are you really that dim? Like I said, I'm done. Ciao!" Bye then. Thanks for popping in | |||
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"Is "abs don't count on a thin man" the male equivalent of "boobs don't count on a fat lass"? I" Yes. Yes it is | |||
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"What do you girls think of my abs, be honest " I think they need a great deal of work before they can be compared to my feet. | |||
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"The difference in reply if a woman would do a look at me thread about her figure, just saying lol." you need to tone up, Shag, you're looking more flabby than abby. | |||
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"The difference in reply if a woman would do a look at me thread about her figure, just saying lol.you need to tone up, Shag, you're looking more flabby than abby. " Maibe u should try specsavers lol. | |||
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"There good abs, but you need bulk up abit Steaks on me pal " These are my fave abs on here | |||
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"The difference in reply if a woman would do a look at me thread about her figure, just saying lol.you need to tone up, Shag, you're looking more flabby than abby. Maibe u should try specsavers lol." I put my glasses on and saw your cock | |||
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"Is "abs don't count on a thin man" the male equivalent of "boobs don't count on a fat lass"? I Yes. Yes it is " Yeah thought so. Men are only allowed to be big with abs, and women are only allowed to be thin with surgically enhanced boobs. | |||
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"The difference in reply if a woman would do a look at me thread about her figure, just saying lol.you need to tone up, Shag, you're looking more flabby than abby. Maibe u should try specsavers lol. I put my glasses on and saw your cock " lol yes, the cock got eyes | |||
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"I'm teasing Shag - you have good abdominal muscles. " Ah good lol and thanks you got some good ones too. | |||
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" Also, it's not about how your abs look, it's about core strength and balance." Yeah, this. The strongest man I know is one of the leanest and slimmest. | |||
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" Instead of just rolling your eyes and "giving up" perhaps it will be better if you apologised to the OP for misquoting him. Otherwise, most here will be too Are you just trying to bait me now or are you really that dim? Like I said, I'm done. Ciao! I think we've all figured out who is dim here " Is his name Tim? | |||
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"I'm teasing Shag - you have good abdominal muscles. Ah good lol and thanks you got some good ones too." No mate I'm a fat bastard | |||
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" Also, it's not about how your abs look, it's about core strength and balance. Yeah, this. The strongest man I know is one of the leanest and slimmest. " This is so true. There's a boy in my gym who maybe weighs 50kg. But he has the best form when flagging ive ever seen | |||
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" Also, it's not about how your abs look, it's about core strength and balance. Yeah, this. The strongest man I know is one of the leanest and slimmest. " Chuck Norris said that about Bruce Lee. | |||
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"Unfortunately abs in a skinny bloke doesn't count. A nice v taper does. If you're not careful Bob Geldof may start an appeal for you. " Why don't abdominal muscles count if you're slim? | |||
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"Unfortunately abs in a skinny bloke doesn't count. A nice v taper does. If you're not careful Bob Geldof may start an appeal for you. Why don't abdominal muscles count if you're slim? " Do I need to artificially sculpt larger chest and pecs for my core to be somehow accepted? What about my thighs? Do I need to wear bigger shoes for them? | |||
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"Also, it's not about how your abs look, it's about core strength and balance." I have a friend, tall and very slim, who looks like he'd not get out of a paper bag alive. He can pick me up and carry me around. That's strong | |||
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"Also, it's not about how your abs look, it's about core strength and balance. I have a friend, tall and very slim, who looks like he'd not get out of a paper bag alive. He can pick me up and carry me around. That's strong " No 6 pack either | |||
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"Unfortunately abs in a skinny bloke doesn't count. A nice v taper does. If you're not careful Bob Geldof may start an appeal for you. Why don't abdominal muscles count if you're slim? Do I need to artificially sculpt larger chest and pecs for my core to be somehow accepted? What about my thighs? Do I need to wear bigger shoes for them? " For what it's worth TT I think your doing a grand job with your work outs | |||
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"Unfortunately abs in a skinny bloke doesn't count. A nice v taper does. If you're not careful Bob Geldof may start an appeal for you. Why don't abdominal muscles count if you're slim? Do I need to artificially sculpt larger chest and pecs for my core to be somehow accepted? What about my thighs? Do I need to wear bigger shoes for them? " Please don't | |||
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"Unfortunately abs in a skinny bloke doesn't count. A nice v taper does. If you're not careful Bob Geldof may start an appeal for you. Why don't abdominal muscles count if you're slim? Do I need to artificially sculpt larger chest and pecs for my core to be somehow accepted? What about my thighs? Do I need to wear bigger shoes for them? For what it's worth TT I think your doing a grand job with your work outs " I don't work out. This is just from doing martial arts and being a jammy twat with a good metabolism. | |||
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"Shag has the best male body in the forum, he actually has a chest unlike the rest of us " Thanks. I live in the gym lol, is anyone else also following rich pianas bigger by the day, 4 month program series on youtube? | |||
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"Shag has the best male body in the forum, he actually has a chest unlike the rest of us Thanks. I live in the gym lol, is anyone else also following rich pianas bigger by the day, 4 month program series on youtube? " Rich Piana used to be awesome. He knows his shit but mashed every thing up when he started using synthol! | |||
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"Shag has the best male body in the forum, he actually has a chest unlike the rest of us Thanks. I live in the gym lol, is anyone else also following rich pianas bigger by the day, 4 month program series on youtube? " No any good shag? Gains on the scales etc. | |||
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"Shag has the best male body in the forum, he actually has a chest unlike the rest of us Thanks. I live in the gym lol, is anyone else also following rich pianas bigger by the day, 4 month program series on youtube? Rich Piana used to be awesome. He knows his shit but mashed every thing up when he started using synthol! " That is right and as well, he tells how it is and how the pros do it, but very entertaining aint he? | |||
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"Shag has the best male body in the forum, he actually has a chest unlike the rest of us Thanks. I live in the gym lol, is anyone else also following rich pianas bigger by the day, 4 month program series on youtube? No any good shag? Gains on the scales etc. " Yes, only 1kg lol, but as we are natural it will take longer, but can already see improvements, also every night you do feeder workouts for the shoulders, so you do 100 reps side delts then 100 reps rear, its fun. He gives very good advice on nutrition and training, like directly after ur workout have ur shake, then 1 hr later eat your next meal. | |||
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"Shag has the best male body in the forum, he actually has a chest unlike the rest of us Thanks. I live in the gym lol, is anyone else also following rich pianas bigger by the day, 4 month program series on youtube? No any good shag? Gains on the scales etc. Yes, only 1kg lol, but as we are natural it will take longer, but can already see improvements, also every night you do feeder workouts for the shoulders, so you do 100 reps side delts then 100 reps rear, its fun. He gives very good advice on nutrition and training, like directly after ur workout have ur shake, then 1 hr later eat your next meal." Ill go and have a look. I like to change things. | |||
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"Shag has the best male body in the forum, he actually has a chest unlike the rest of us Thanks. I live in the gym lol, is anyone else also following rich pianas bigger by the day, 4 month program series on youtube? Rich Piana used to be awesome. He knows his shit but mashed every thing up when he started using synthol! That is right and as well, he tells how it is and how the pros do it, but very entertaining aint he?" I do find his straight talking fun to listen to. The video of him and the hulk benching is pretty dam impressive. | |||
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"Shag has the best male body in the forum, he actually has a chest unlike the rest of us Thanks. I live in the gym lol, is anyone else also following rich pianas bigger by the day, 4 month program series on youtube? No any good shag? Gains on the scales etc. Yes, only 1kg lol, but as we are natural it will take longer, but can already see improvements, also every night you do feeder workouts for the shoulders, so you do 100 reps side delts then 100 reps rear, its fun. He gives very good advice on nutrition and training, like directly after ur workout have ur shake, then 1 hr later eat your next meal. Ill go and have a look. I like to change things. " Nice one and yes, it is all about keeping it interesting and variety in the training plus its good with goals, as rich sais, 2016 is the year to get big | |||
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"Shag has the best male body in the forum, he actually has a chest unlike the rest of us Thanks. I live in the gym lol, is anyone else also following rich pianas bigger by the day, 4 month program series on youtube? Rich Piana used to be awesome. He knows his shit but mashed every thing up when he started using synthol! That is right and as well, he tells how it is and how the pros do it, but very entertaining aint he? I do find his straight talking fun to listen to. The video of him and the hulk benching is pretty dam impressive." Yes, he makes fun jokes to lol. Is aw that video too, it was impressive. Also the amount of weight they use and reps, wasn't it 3 or 4 plates for 10 reps or more. | |||
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"Martial arts? Can you pin me down? " I do taekwondo, not jujitsu, sorry | |||
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"What do you girls think of my abs, be honest " Take up swimming | |||
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"Martial arts? Can you pin me down? I do taekwondo, not jujitsu, sorry " That'll do | |||
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"Martial arts? Can you pin me down? I do taekwondo, not jujitsu, sorry That'll do " I'm not sure you understand taekwondo, it's all snap kicks...I can't see how that would be any form of pleasure? | |||
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"Unfortunately abs in a skinny bloke doesn't count. A nice v taper does. If you're not careful Bob Geldof may start an appeal for you. Why don't abdominal muscles count if you're slim? Do I need to artificially sculpt larger chest and pecs for my core to be somehow accepted? What about my thighs? Do I need to wear bigger shoes for them? For what it's worth TT I think your doing a grand job with your work outs I don't work out. This is just from doing martial arts and being a jammy twat with a good metabolism. " I do Jiu Jitsu, what art do you do? | |||
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"Martial arts? Can you pin me down? I do taekwondo, not jujitsu, sorry That'll do I'm not sure you understand taekwondo, it's all snap kicks...I can't see how that would be any form of pleasure? " Trust me. I understand. I know how to fight with my feet. I also know how to let a man win | |||
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"Martial arts? Can you pin me down? I do taekwondo, not jujitsu, sorry That'll do I'm not sure you understand taekwondo, it's all snap kicks...I can't see how that would be any form of pleasure? Trust me. I understand. I know how to fight with my feet. I also know how to let a man win " You play to lose! | |||
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"Martial arts? Can you pin me down? I do taekwondo, not jujitsu, sorry That'll do I'm not sure you understand taekwondo, it's all snap kicks...I can't see how that would be any form of pleasure? Trust me. I understand. I know how to fight with my feet. I also know how to let a man win You play to lose! " I put up a good fight though | |||
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"Is "abs don't count on a thin man" the male equivalent of "boobs don't count on a fat lass"? I'll remember this thread the next time someone has a shit over a suggestion a thin woman should eat a burger on a female equivalent thread " Not sure what you're saying here. Sounds like you are making and familiarising a derogatory comment about the lovely curvier ladies on here and pushing it on to someone else. If someone wishes to open a thread with these kind of comments then a little bit of jokey criticism should be expected. I for one would not have asked people's comments on an open forum. Yes I get lots of positive comments but having suffered from body dismorphia for over twenty years I have learned to accept criticism and joke at myself. Your point is pointless and peoples opinions whether positive or negative are allowed to be made unless malicious. That's the whole point of an open forum. You've just highlighted and twisted a comment for your own personal gain and the comradary and sympathy of others. Not cool. | |||
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"Is "abs don't count on a thin man" the male equivalent of "boobs don't count on a fat lass"? I'll remember this thread the next time someone has a shit over a suggestion a thin woman should eat a burger on a female equivalent thread Not sure what you're saying here. Sounds like you are making and familiarising a derogatory comment about the lovely curvier ladies on here and pushing it on to someone else. If someone wishes to open a thread with these kind of comments then a little bit of jokey criticism should be expected. I for one would not have asked people's comments on an open forum. Yes I get lots of positive comments but having suffered from body dismorphia for over twenty years I have learned to accept criticism and joke at myself. Your point is pointless and peoples opinions whether positive or negative are allowed to be made unless malicious. That's the whole point of an open forum. You've just highlighted and twisted a comment for your own personal gain and the comradary and sympathy of others. Not cool. " At least you're not in the wrong body. Bullied through school for being girly. Built muscles to hide it. Then came out as trans and regretted building the physique. | |||
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"Is "abs don't count on a thin man" the male equivalent of "boobs don't count on a fat lass"? I'll remember this thread the next time someone has a shit over a suggestion a thin woman should eat a burger on a female equivalent thread Not sure what you're saying here. Sounds like you are making and familiarising a derogatory comment about the lovely curvier ladies on here and pushing it on to someone else. If someone wishes to open a thread with these kind of comments then a little bit of jokey criticism should be expected. I for one would not have asked people's comments on an open forum. Yes I get lots of positive comments but having suffered from body dismorphia for over twenty years I have learned to accept criticism and joke at myself. Your point is pointless and peoples opinions whether positive or negative are allowed to be made unless malicious. That's the whole point of an open forum. You've just highlighted and twisted a comment for your own personal gain and the comradary and sympathy of others. Not cool. " No. My point is that it is seen as incredibly rude to say to a slim woman "go and eat something", and I agree that it's rude. I have seen the "boobs don't count on a fat lass" comment here too, and I found that rude too. I also find it incredibly rude to say to a slim man that because he's slim he should go and eat a steak or that his body "doesn't count". If you've suffered from body dysmorphia for 20 years why on earth would you want to put someone else down for the way they look? | |||
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"I love how this thread became a huge bitch fest between guys about each others bodies. For fucks sake! What the hell do you guys do it for? I try and stay fit and healthy and keep trim but I certainly dont bother if I eat a pie or a burger! If the people you're with are so fixated on how you look then maybe they're not so worth meeting! " I started it as I looked at those muscle mags back in the 90's and ever since then I have been hooked on it. I do it mostly for myself and of course for the women. | |||
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"Is "abs don't count on a thin man" the male equivalent of "boobs don't count on a fat lass"? I'll remember this thread the next time someone has a shit over a suggestion a thin woman should eat a burger on a female equivalent thread Not sure what you're saying here. Sounds like you are making and familiarising a derogatory comment about the lovely curvier ladies on here and pushing it on to someone else. If someone wishes to open a thread with these kind of comments then a little bit of jokey criticism should be expected. I for one would not have asked people's comments on an open forum. Yes I get lots of positive comments but having suffered from body dismorphia for over twenty years I have learned to accept criticism and joke at myself. Your point is pointless and peoples opinions whether positive or negative are allowed to be made unless malicious. That's the whole point of an open forum. You've just highlighted and twisted a comment for your own personal gain and the comradary and sympathy of others. Not cool. No. My point is that it is seen as incredibly rude to say to a slim woman "go and eat something", and I agree that it's rude. I have seen the "boobs don't count on a fat lass" comment here too, and I found that rude too. I also find it incredibly rude to say to a slim man that because he's slim he should go and eat a steak or that his body "doesn't count". If you've suffered from body dysmorphia for 20 years why on earth would you want to put someone else down for the way they look? " Because he asked people to be honest. If we all blew smoke up each other's backsides no one would achieve anything. | |||
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"Stop reading mags and looking at pics of hot men and get started then shag. " lol that's a good one | |||
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"Is "abs don't count on a thin man" the male equivalent of "boobs don't count on a fat lass"? I'll remember this thread the next time someone has a shit over a suggestion a thin woman should eat a burger on a female equivalent thread Not sure what you're saying here. Sounds like you are making and familiarising a derogatory comment about the lovely curvier ladies on here and pushing it on to someone else. If someone wishes to open a thread with these kind of comments then a little bit of jokey criticism should be expected. I for one would not have asked people's comments on an open forum. Yes I get lots of positive comments but having suffered from body dismorphia for over twenty years I have learned to accept criticism and joke at myself. Your point is pointless and peoples opinions whether positive or negative are allowed to be made unless malicious. That's the whole point of an open forum. You've just highlighted and twisted a comment for your own personal gain and the comradary and sympathy of others. Not cool. " Hang on, you're the one who said my body means fuck all because I'm slim, yes? | |||
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"Is "abs don't count on a thin man" the male equivalent of "boobs don't count on a fat lass"? I'll remember this thread the next time someone has a shit over a suggestion a thin woman should eat a burger on a female equivalent thread Not sure what you're saying here. Sounds like you are making and familiarising a derogatory comment about the lovely curvier ladies on here and pushing it on to someone else. If someone wishes to open a thread with these kind of comments then a little bit of jokey criticism should be expected. I for one would not have asked people's comments on an open forum. Yes I get lots of positive comments but having suffered from body dismorphia for over twenty years I have learned to accept criticism and joke at myself. Your point is pointless and peoples opinions whether positive or negative are allowed to be made unless malicious. That's the whole point of an open forum. You've just highlighted and twisted a comment for your own personal gain and the comradary and sympathy of others. Not cool. No. My point is that it is seen as incredibly rude to say to a slim woman "go and eat something", and I agree that it's rude. I have seen the "boobs don't count on a fat lass" comment here too, and I found that rude too. I also find it incredibly rude to say to a slim man that because he's slim he should go and eat a steak or that his body "doesn't count". If you've suffered from body dysmorphia for 20 years why on earth would you want to put someone else down for the way they look? Because he asked people to be honest. If we all blew smoke up each other's backsides no one would achieve anything. " There's a difference between not blowing smoke up someone's arse and being rude about their body. In fact being rude about everyone with that body type. | |||
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"If someone wishes to open a thread with these kind of comments then a little bit of jokey criticism should be expected. I for one would not have asked people's comments on an open forum. Yes I get lots of positive comments but having suffered from body dismorphia for over twenty years I have learned to accept criticism and joke at myself" 20 years of body dismorphia yet you can chuck out comments out such as"Abs don't count if you're skinny. If you're not careful Bob Geldof will be after you". How nice and understanding of you. | |||
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"did anyone actually answer the OP's question.... " They're alright for a skinny fella | |||
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"did anyone actually answer the OP's question.... They're alright for a skinny fella " #funnynotfunny (my daughter would be proud of me using that hashtag ) | |||
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"did anyone actually answer the OP's question.... They're alright for a skinny fella " Ah okay. Would be a much nicer place if we could just embrace & accept our differences. | |||
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" Would be a much nicer place if we could just embrace & accept our differences." Absolutely. I'm about as slim as they get on here and I had 15+ years feeling self conscious about my body. So I didn't like the statement that a male body was shit unless the fella spends 30+ hours a month in the gym artificially bulking up shoulder and chest muscles. And for that statement to come from someone supposedly with body dismorphia is so crass and insensitive. | |||
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"Fuck me some of you need to cheer up. Goodnight " Aye well that may well be the case but if someone is going to pop up accusing me of making comments for personal gain and the sympathy of my comrades, whatever the fuck any of that is supposed to mean, just because I suggested their comments towards the OP were really fucking rude...I'm probably going to reply to that. | |||
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"Fuck me some of you need to cheer up. Goodnight Aye well that may well be the case but if someone is going to pop up accusing me of making comments for personal gain and the sympathy of my comrades, whatever the fuck any of that is supposed to mean, just because I suggested their comments towards the OP were really fucking rude...I'm probably going to reply to that. " I've actually lost any intrest in what anyone is saying, but if you feel strongly about something keep going | |||
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"I feel fairly strongly about people making other people feel shit about their bodies, yes, be that for being too fat or being too thin and be they male or female. But tbh they were all at it at the start of the thread so it seems I'm in a minority. On which note I'll bow out. OP I think your abs look good. I like slim men. " | |||
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" Would be a much nicer place if we could just embrace & accept our differences. Absolutely. I'm about as slim as they get on here and I had 15+ years feeling self conscious about my body. So I didn't like the statement that a male body was shit unless the fella spends 30+ hours a month in the gym artificially bulking up shoulder and chest muscles. And for that statement to come from someone supposedly with body dismorphia is so crass and insensitive. " I totally agree | |||
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