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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many women out there are swinging behind their husbands backs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll probably get some abuse for this but I think it would be a turn on to be having it off with a married woman

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'll probably get some abuse for this but I think it would be a turn on to be having it off with a married woman "

Lots of men think that way you aren't alone by any means.

I thought there was something called the "bro code" but perhaps I misunderstood it.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Lots of them cheat but so do men

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"How many women out there are swinging behind their husbands backs?"

I am. Im not saying I'm proud of myself and will probably get verbals for it

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I've met a few married women. Some with their husbands watching some without the husbands knowledge. It's their choice.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I should imagine the number of cheating ladies is less that then number of cheating men but there again, the cheating men tend to spout off about it in the forums and the ladies tend to just get on with it.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest"

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll probably get some abuse for this but I think it would be a turn on to be having it off with a married woman "
especially while her hubby films you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest"
now that does seem daft. Both parties should be able to say they are gonna have sex with someone else with no fear of negativity.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating."

I found my fb of 2 years on here about 6 weeks ago hahaha...

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating."

same thing, lying is lying, making out they are one thing they are not "innocent"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many will say cheating is not swinging....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating. same thing, lying is lying, making out they are one thing they are not "innocent" "

Have you got a FB who lied to you? Is it the lying you don't like or is it the fact your FB had sex with someone else? Was it a real lie or an omission or disingenuous or you made an erroneous assumption?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll probably get some abuse for this but I think it would be a turn on to be having it off with a married woman "

From previous threads, those in that situation often avoid men who fetishise their marital status.

It's different when you chat, are attracted to, or meet someone despite their marital status, compared to when you are attracted to them just because of their marital status.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"How many women out there are swinging behind their husbands backs?

I am. Im not saying I'm proud of myself and will probably get verbals for it"

I've met a few ladies in sad sexless marriages and wish them all good luck and good hunting ... If they find great fbs that makes me feel happy for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cheating theme appears regularly on the forums and the debate will never be put to bed.

BUT why is it a turn on to be with someone cheating...Doesn't it makes it a little uncomfortable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of married men on here who are cheating as well ,mostly be course the wife has gone of sex and they are unhappy in the marridge

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating.

I found my fb of 2 years on here about 6 weeks ago hahaha... "

That you consider him a fb, not a bf, suggests you are in a non-exclusive arrangement, so I don't see the problem.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"I'll probably get some abuse for this but I think it would be a turn on to be having it off with a married woman

Lots of men think that way you aren't alone by any means.

I thought there was something called the "bro code" but perhaps I misunderstood it."

There is a bro code, but it is literally bro/friends ladies.

Or if the man is ill. That gets to me too.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Peoples profiles are not up for discussion please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" The cheating theme appears regularly on the forums and the debate will never be put to bed.

BUT why is it a turn on to be with someone cheating...Doesn't it makes it a little uncomfortable? "

Probably because they are married and they choose to cheat with you but like it's been said previously some are in a sexless marriage and still love their partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message today saying they wanted just this.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I know she is meeting people without my knowledge, wait until I find out who she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating.

I found my fb of 2 years on here about 6 weeks ago hahaha...

That you consider him a fb, not a bf, suggests you are in a non-exclusive arrangement, so I don't see the problem."

My thoughts regarding fb exactly, hence not cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No if someone is a fb it's a casual thing

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating.

I found my fb of 2 years on here about 6 weeks ago hahaha...

That you consider him a fb, not a bf, suggests you are in a non-exclusive arrangement, so I don't see the problem.

My thoughts regarding fb exactly, hence not cheating."

this is why I find all this labelling confusing. Surely a fb is just someone you meet for sex?! How can they cheat on you if you're not in a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating.

I found my fb of 2 years on here about 6 weeks ago hahaha...

That you consider him a fb, not a bf, suggests you are in a non-exclusive arrangement, so I don't see the problem.

My thoughts regarding fb exactly, hence not cheating.

this is why I find all this labelling confusing. Surely a fb is just someone you meet for sex?! How can they cheat on you if you're not in a relationship? "

That's my idea of a fb

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"I know she is meeting people without my knowledge, wait until I find out who she is"

Ha! Don't forget she doesn't know that you are on here without her consent !

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating. same thing, lying is lying, making out they are one thing they are not "innocent" "

I had a FB once who didn't like the fact I met others. The way I saw it, it was none of his business who I slept with when I wasn't meeting him. I mean, not only did he see other women, but we met on a swinging site FFS!

Luckily I no longer have to put up with his jealousy and childish behaviour.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating.

I found my fb of 2 years on here about 6 weeks ago hahaha... "

So did it bother you or did you put your "haha" because you thought it was good to know.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating.

I found my fb of 2 years on here about 6 weeks ago hahaha...

That you consider him a fb, not a bf, suggests you are in a non-exclusive arrangement, so I don't see the problem.

My thoughts regarding fb exactly, hence not cheating."

Me three! I take a FB to be someone you go to clubs with or who you have sex with WITHOUT conditions/strings.

An F.B. isn't in a relationship.

Or they've found a dastardly way of controlling someone's sexual behaviour without committing themselves.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating.

I found my fb of 2 years on here about 6 weeks ago hahaha...

That you consider him a fb, not a bf, suggests you are in a non-exclusive arrangement, so I don't see the problem.

My thoughts regarding fb exactly, hence not cheating.

this is why I find all this labelling confusing. Surely a fb is just someone you meet for sex?! How can they cheat on you if you're not in a relationship? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter who's cheating because at the end of the day its only them that carrys the guilt. we all have different reasons for being on here, but it's where the person is being honest about their reasons or if you choose to believe them that makes the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating.

I found my fb of 2 years on here about 6 weeks ago hahaha...

That you consider him a fb, not a bf, suggests you are in a non-exclusive arrangement, so I don't see the problem.

My thoughts regarding fb exactly, hence not cheating.

this is why I find all this labelling confusing. Surely a fb is just someone you meet for sex?! How can they cheat on you if you're not in a relationship? "

Seconded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I should imagine the number of cheating ladies is less that then number of cheating men but there again, the cheating men tend to spout off about it in the forums and the ladies tend to just get on with it. "

Statistically speaking there's no real difference between the number of men and women that have affairs. I doubt there have been any studies into the proportions of those that do it on swinging websites though so we might have a skewed sample here. The main difference between the genders is the underlying motivation of the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many women out there are swinging behind their husbands backs?"
not me. No need when we play together. I wouldn't cheat on him anyway. I'd be a fool to lose him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of married men on here who are cheating as well ,mostly be course the wife has gone of sex and they are unhappy in the marridge "
that wasn't the question but so eloquently put

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest"
how do you get a cheating fb?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honesthow do you get a cheating fb?"

They have several 'bank error in your favour' cards when they play monopoly

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I should imagine the number of cheating ladies is less that then number of cheating men but there again, the cheating men tend to spout off about it in the forums and the ladies tend to just get on with it. "
not always

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"How many women out there are swinging behind their husbands backs?

I am. Im not saying I'm proud of myself and will probably get verbals for itI've met a few ladies in sad sexless marriages and wish them all good luck and good hunting ... If they find great fbs that makes me feel happy for them "

Thank you. I wasn't hunting for a fwb as I felt let down in the last few months but we found each other by accident and well, here we are

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Many will say cheating is not swinging...."

It isn't.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating.

I found my fb of 2 years on here about 6 weeks ago hahaha...

That you consider him a fb, not a bf, suggests you are in a non-exclusive arrangement, so I don't see the problem."

I'm dyslexic and confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't just get cheating wives, you get cheating fb's that can't be honest

A fb who cheats? . A lying fb yeah but personally I wouldn't say cheating."

Depends on the relationship.. if they are saying that they won't meet and then do it would still be cheating x

There are plenty of cheating people on here.

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