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Do you ever wonder whose hotlist you're on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It'd be interesting to see who has a liking for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes- feel free to PM me if I am!

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I'm curious if we are on any

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I would rather be pm'd than hot listed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, would love to know if I've made anyones hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would rather be pm'd than hot listed"

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a nice pm. And no thats not prime minister

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Yes, would love to know if I've made anyones hotlist. "

You are on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't even know what this hot list thing is? What's it for?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd like to know too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlikely to be many here - unless Fabdom has a thing for chubby wrinkly middle aged men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh I'd love to know who's hotlist I'm on!!!

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Be a miracle if I'm on someone's hot list

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't mind if I am or not

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I'm probably on quite a few people's hate list... never mind hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'm on a few....always checking profile but never messaging !

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

You don't want to be on my hotlist, it's more of a Not List.

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By *iscellaneousCouple
over a year ago

Idle

I would like to know! I always wonder if people can figure out they're on ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, would love to know if I've made anyones hotlist. "

@boldgirl

You're on mine. I've got a thing for skinny dark haired women x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'd be interesting to see who has a liking for you "

No, Never thought about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be deliciously exciting to know. I promise I'll pm any of my Hotlist if they appear on this thread, and hope that others will do likewise to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this said hit list!

I'm probably on fewer hotlists than hit lists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone probably likes to assume they're appreciated or wanted. But you'll never know unless they tell you,so concentrate on telling others they're on your list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never crossed my mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sure if I am anyone's but if I am on yours , Thanks

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I can't see the point in knowing if they are actually using it as a hotlist. If someone likes you they will pm you.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

No. But it's probably really obvious who's on mine since I can't resist fabbing new photos they put up.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

You can sometimes guess that you might be on a hotlist. There are a few people that always fab any new photo we upload.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, would love to know if I've made anyones hotlist. "

Your on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im on no ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not sure if I am anyone's but if I am on yours , Thanks "

Mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i doubt im on anyones im an acquired taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me I guess i'd be on no ones well ok maybe just my wifes but that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not too bothered,most people send messages if they like other people anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather be pm'd than hot listed"

me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not too bothered,most people send messages if they like other people anyway "

You're always popping up in hot photos so you may as well be in a hot list, even though I still don't get the point of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really thought about it, but I always assume they'd message if I was and they wanted to do anything about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have some people that Fab every photo we put up so we might be on someone's hotlist but it would be purely for Mrs

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I use my hot list for a few reasons,

The profile has pictures I like to do in-depth analysis of.

The lady / couple in question I'd like to meet , the distance between us is considerable.

The profile has updates that I enjoy reading,

The profile interests me and I'll be messaging when I've a bit more time

Sometimes it's a combination of more than one reason.

If anyone posts in the thread who's on mine I'll pm them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me if I am or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha there's a few things I'm curious about...like is the holy grail real, how the Egyptians built the pyramids and....whose hot list I'm on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant imagine that I'd be on anyone's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha there's a few things I'm curious about...like is the holy grail real, how the Egyptians built the pyramids and....whose hot list I'm on. "

Chortle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told now and then that they have added me to hot list .....quite flattering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to know if I was on any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's a difference between wanting a perve or appreciating pics and wanting to meet.

Anyone who wants to meet probably messages or chats in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i doubt im on anyones im an acquired taste "

A taste I'd quite like to acquire

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"You don't want to be on my hotlist, it's more of a Not List."

Same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be interested to know if I was on anyone's. One person on the thread is on mine, another has graduated from it since I've met her and can pester her far more thoroughly through other means!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea if I'm on anyone's, if I am thanks but do i wonder about it, no not really. I have my own hotlist I keep an eye on though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never actually considered that we might be on someone's hotlist.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't wonder about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to know if I am.

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I don't think we're on anyone's tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to know if u'm on anybodies bit I doubt that I am x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is small and I never even check the updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be surprised if I was on anyone's

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I very much doubt we are on any. We have 3 forum users on ours.

Pms are always nice to get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 5 on my hotlist.

One has commented on this thread

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"I have 5 on my hotlist.

One has commented on this thread "
im flattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I've never even given it a second thought if I'm honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I want to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'd be interesting to see who has a liking for you "

No

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Doesn't bother me at all. It would be nice to think I was on someones hotlist though lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is empty as they are my friend's now .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 5 on my hotlist.

One has commented on this thread im flattered "

Ha bloody ha

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"My hotlist is small and I never even check the updates "

So what do I post them for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, would love to know if I've made anyones hotlist.

Your on mine "

Oooooh, I'm flattered. You're a hottie! x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I just assume I'm on everyone's hot list until proven otherwise by telegram, delivered by unicorn...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to know who's hotlist Im on

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I just assume I'm on everyone's hot list until proven otherwise by telegram, delivered by unicorn... "

Using the horn as a paper spike, I would imagine? Yep, I have the whole mental image.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

My hotlist is just Fab fem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would assume if I was on anyone's hotlist we would of spoke by now. So I guess if we ain't I ain't

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Hotlists are good ways of seeing profiles where you can easily see status updates etc

As I don't update mine that often I suspect I'm not on many but a good pm as said is definitely better!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Sometimes I do but I know I have people that are on my hotlist that for for one reason or another I haven't invited them to be friends either unlikely to play or that i like perving photos

I would be curious to see who I peaked there interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've posted on other threads who is on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never really thought about it, but I always assume they'd message if I was and they wanted to do anything about it."

You are on ours. Tend to put good looking, interesting people who would need meet on ours. Just because they don't want us doesn't mean we don't appreciate them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i doubt im on anyones im an acquired taste "

Ummmm stop being crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to know who's hotlist Im on"

Think I could take a bloody good guesses to one you would be on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the people on my hotlist are there because I like their pictures, not necessarily because I want to meet them.

If I fab your pics often, that's probably a sign that you're on there.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We put a status up saying 'say boo if we're on your hotlist' worked a treat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i doubt im on anyones im an acquired taste

Ummmm stop being crazy "

You're the crazy. If I had a 'hotlist', you'd be on it

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm sure I'd end up feeling sick and disturbed

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ha, I just asked someone if I was on their hotlist and they said no. So I shall go onsex strike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hotlist yet but there is always time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes would love to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very nosey and would love to know if I'd made anyone's hotlist

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"No. But it's probably really obvious who's on mine since I can't resist fabbing new photos they put up."

Same here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hotlist but a few I have my eye on that are on my to fuck list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've probably got more chance of being on someone's hit list more than hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 friends on this thread

no hotlist people though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to know too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect I'm on none! But hey, feel free to add me!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'd love to be on one lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I've never thought about it !!!

Now I,d love to know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two on this thread are on mine now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to know too"

Me to....I have an idea with the fabbing of my pics and profile views but I think we should be allowed to know who's hotlist we are on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really actually, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to know if I actually made it to someone's hot list be nice to know be even nicer if I got a message

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I'd love to know if I was on any "

.. I'll tell no lies..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i doubt im on anyones im an acquired taste

Ummmm stop being crazy "

Well theres no accounting for taste

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm amazed by the amount of responses to this stupid ponderment I had haha

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

[Removed by poster at 05/02/16 20:53:04]

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"You can sometimes guess that you might be on a hotlist. There are a few people that always fab any new photo we upload.

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And when posting status updates...Unless they're going Ninja.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i doubt im on anyones im an acquired taste

Ummmm stop being crazy

Well theres no accounting for taste "

Well I can tell you Vara you're not on mine anymore...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

My hotlist is for temporary people.

I friend if I meet so until we've met they go in there if we've arranged something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I do wonder, I'm a nosey fucker at times so would love to know, ha.

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By *ife adventurerMan
over a year ago

North Essex

I'd like to think I'd made it onto a hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few. Doubt we are on anyone's though.

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By *ovice_subTV/TS
over a year ago

Warrington

With my luck on here I doubt I'm on anyone's lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really although it is nice to find out at some point when they tell you

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By *enny79TV/TS
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Be a miracle if I'm on someone's hot list "

Ur on mine xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few are on mine but I doubt I make it onto anyone else's list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've added someone on this thread to mine.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Be a miracle if I'm on someone's hot list "
there you go .Jo . I've put you on mine xx

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By *ovice_subTV/TS
over a year ago

Warrington


"I'd love to be on one lol x"

Well I can say honestly that you are on mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'd be interesting to see who has a liking for you "
why worry about something you're never likely to know

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Im not too bothered,most people send messages if they like other people anyway "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely crazy notion I know for a swinging / casual sex site - but wouldn't it be really left-field thinking if people that fancied other people on here told the people that they fancied that they fancied them!? Otherwise how will the people they fancy know they're fancied?

G'wan go inbox the people on your hotlist and tell them.. What's the worst that could happen!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely crazy notion I know for a swinging / casual sex site - but wouldn't it be really left-field thinking if people that fancied other people on here told the people that they fancied that they fancied them!? Otherwise how will the people they fancy know they're fancied?

G'wan go inbox the people on your hotlist and tell them.. What's the worst that could happen!? "

I don't wanna. I just wanna perve the pretty pictures.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i've been added to all hotlists by default, like that U2 album that suddenly appeared on everyones Apple device (tm)

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Absolutely crazy notion I know for a swinging / casual sex site - but wouldn't it be really left-field thinking if people that fancied other people on here told the people that they fancied that they fancied them!? Otherwise how will the people they fancy know they're fancied?

G'wan go inbox the people on your hotlist and tell them.. What's the worst that could happen!? "

I've actually ignored messages off people on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feeling that I'm on more male hotlists than female hotlists! If I'm on any at all!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just going to put it out there and say my friends list is my hotlist I find it easier to check updates from friends and if I trust you enough to see my mug then the chances are I want to get in your pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I want to know "

You are on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me know so we can arrange to fuck

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Never thought about it, but would be nice to know. Noisy me - Mrs

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By *issusAndHubsterCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I use my hot list for a few reasons,

The profile has pictures I like to do in-depth analysis of.

The lady / couple in question I'd like to meet , the distance between us is considerable.

The profile has updates that I enjoy reading,

The profile interests me and I'll be messaging when I've a bit more time

Sometimes it's a combination of more than one reason.

If anyone posts in the thread who's on mine I'll pm them.

"

This usually for us...

It depends how brazen I feel at a time as to whether we pm or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No i doubt im on anyones im an acquired taste

Ummmm stop being crazy

Well theres no accounting for taste

Well I can tell you Vara you're not on mine anymore... "

Crying into my coco...was it disney pjs?

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By *enny79TV/TS
over a year ago

chesterfield

I'd like to know xx

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't keep a hotlist myself so I've never thought about the possibility of me being on anyone else's. However, if I am...thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would also love to know whos list im on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be interesting to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be interesting to know "

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My curiosity has been piqued ..

.I've messaged (where filters allowed) a couple of ladies that are on my hot list..

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast

Nope. If they don't have the balls to mail.. Meh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three hot listers and two friends on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I'm pretty sure that I'm not hot list material. It would just be depressing.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Absolutely crazy notion I know for a swinging / casual sex site - but wouldn't it be really left-field thinking if people that fancied other people on here told the people that they fancied that they fancied them!? Otherwise how will the people they fancy know they're fancied?

G'wan go inbox the people on your hotlist and tell them.. What's the worst that could happen!? "

This is my usual MO though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohh I'd love to know who's hotlist I'm on!!! "

Same here. Curiosity and all that lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I'm pretty sure that I'm not hot list material. It would just be depressing."

Wow wow wow. Uve just made my hotlist chic. Ur seriously hot. ??

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I think I am on one persons hot list on this thread..... not saying who though lol... its secret ... really not bothered who else's I am on ...

Who am I kidding lol ???? ...of course I'm curious xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have mods on my hotlist for when the Speilberg wannabes ruin the non directing rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I am on one persons hot list on this thread..... not saying who though lol... its secret ... really not bothered who else's I am on ...

Who am I kidding lol ???? ...of course I'm curious xxxxx "

Mwah hunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I am on one persons hot list on this thread..... not saying who though lol... its secret ... really not bothered who else's I am on ...

Who am I kidding lol ???? ...of course I'm curious xxxxx "

Already know your on mine dont you!! Mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could not give a concern on been on someone's hot list. I know I have one, I do not mind been on.

Though have had people on my own

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No, I never think about it, people will message me if they want me - but someone I had no idea was an admirer did mention it on a thread not long ago

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

I can think of a couple of women who probably do- not for any sexual reason but mainly because they're a bit decking nosey

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not something I worry about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes wonder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use my hot list for a few reasons,

The profile has pictures I like to do in-depth analysis of.

The lady / couple in question I'd like to meet , the distance between us is considerable.

The profile has updates that I enjoy reading,

The profile interests me and I'll be messaging when I've a bit more time

Sometimes it's a combination of more than one reason.

If anyone posts in the thread who's on mine I'll pm them.

This usually for us...

It depends how brazen I feel at a time as to whether we pm or not... "

You, brazen? Tell me more Missus!

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

Id love to see who has hotlisted me

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I just hotlist people to perv at their photos, everyone is too far away for me. There's been a few on this thread that have been on the list at some point

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

Who wouldn't?!

At least one lady on this thread who is, and who I've told.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Yes secret admirers mmmm very horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I am on one persons hot list on this thread..... not saying who though lol... its secret ... really not bothered who else's I am on ...

Who am I kidding lol ???? ...of course I'm curious xxxxx "
hey Suzy you're on mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not thought about it but it would be flattering of course. I use my friends list and my hotlist though.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"I think I am on one persons hot list on this thread..... not saying who though lol... its secret ... really not bothered who else's I am on ...

Who am I kidding lol ???? ...of course I'm curious xxxxx hey Suzy you're on mine x "

You know you are on mine...... xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think i have made anyone's HOT list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought about it, do have a few on mine though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally someone will message me and tell me I'm on their hotlist!

I'm no more likely to meet them - but it's a lovely compliment so I obviously thank them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It'd be interesting to see who has a liking for you "

Nah, I'm just not that needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no cos our hotlist isnt always full of people we like - just people we watch out for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in a word NOPE

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

None, I expect, so no, I don't wonder.

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By *enny79TV/TS
over a year ago

chesterfield

I guess noones oh well xx

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I only care who's on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I ? Lol??

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Can't imagine I'd be on many, I've got about dozen on mine though xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm probably on loads

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

I think be nice to see who has hot listed, also might have shy people hotlist that Darent bite bullet and make first move so to speak

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By *issusAndHubsterCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I use my hot list for a few reasons,

The profile has pictures I like to do in-depth analysis of.

The lady / couple in question I'd like to meet , the distance between us is considerable.

The profile has updates that I enjoy reading,

The profile interests me and I'll be messaging when I've a bit more time

Sometimes it's a combination of more than one reason.

If anyone posts in the thread who's on mine I'll pm them.

This usually for us...

It depends how brazen I feel at a time as to whether we pm or not...

You, brazen? Tell me more Missus!"

shhh it's a secret PB

Naughty Bear xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no too bothered. It just means they are keeping an eye on me, but maybe for all the wrong reasons lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If you've got people on your hotlist that you're too shy to message just message them.

They might say no but they might say yes. You've nothing to lose really

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