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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After sending a message that is read,is it ok to message them to see if they fancy a social,maybe more to follow,or is it that classed as mithering?

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

No, if they haven't replied they aren't interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't reply they're not interested. Why would you message them again?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If you've had no reply to your message, assume the person isn't interested.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Mithering yes. Great word as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site rules say:

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day.If you don't get a response, assume they aren't interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don't keep messaging,there's nothing worse than this

If someone is interested in you they will let you know

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not having had a response could mean that they may reply. If you jump the gun you will probably kill all chances of ever getting one.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"After sending a message that is read,is it ok to message them to see if they fancy a social,maybe more to follow,or is it that classed as mithering?"

If someone messages me and I'm interested in a social, I'll tell them, even if that's not what they suggested in the message.

If I read a message and don't reply, usually I'm not interested. Sometimes a few slip though the net though. If someone sends me another message after a few months, or more, that's ok, but anyone who sends me another message soon after a read but unanswered one tends to get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After sending a message that is read,is it ok to message them to see if they fancy a social,maybe more to follow,or is it that classed as mithering?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to the 9 for their input,still fairly new to all this,just want to get plenty of smiles on my face and try not to p**s anyone off,cheers

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