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"why do people put on there profile " if you don't have a face pic your message will be deleted" or words to that effect, these same people don't even have a face pic or even any photos, on there profile, idiots the lot of them " Because they are narrow minded xx | |||
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"why do people put on there profile " if you don't have a face pic your message will be deleted" or words to that effect, these same people don't even have a face pic or even any photos, on there profile, idiots the lot of them " They want you to attach a face pic to your message and presumably they would do the same? | |||
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"why do people put on there profile " if you don't have a face pic your message will be deleted" or words to that effect, these same people don't even have a face pic or even any photos, on there profile, idiots the lot of them " I don't have a face photo on show due to the nature of my job. I state on my profile that,I have one to send as,it's on file here. | |||
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"why do people put on there profile " if you don't have a face pic your message will be deleted" or words to that effect, these same people don't even have a face pic or even any photos, on there profile, idiots the lot of them Because they are narrow minded xx" I take that back That comment suggests their whole outlook is narrow and g certainly do NOT think that However their specific reasoning for not entertaining any profile without a pic is narrow xxx | |||
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"why do people put on there profile " if you don't have a face pic your message will be deleted" or words to that effect, these same people don't even have a face pic or even any photos, on there profile, idiots the lot of them Because they are narrow minded xx I take that back That comment suggests their whole outlook is narrow and g certainly do NOT think that However their specific reasoning for not entertaining any profile without a pic is narrow xxx" Nor do I think them idiots | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 04/02/16 18:49:46]" Wow When I send a first message I include a face pic. When someone else sends me one I expect a face pic. Kind of because I have to find the person attractive | |||
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"No not idiots. It generally means if you do not have a face pic to show via private message... " | |||
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"why do people put on there profile " if you don't have a face pic your message will be deleted" or words to that effect, these same people don't even have a face pic or even any photos, on there profile, idiots the lot of them They want you to attach a face pic to your message and presumably they would do the same?" ^ this | |||
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"why do people put on there profile " if you don't have a face pic your message will be deleted" or words to that effect, these same people don't even have a face pic or even any photos, on there profile, idiots the lot of them " They are not idiots. They want to see if there is an attraction and not waste their time or yours if there isn't. No point chatting for ages only to send face pics and have no attraction. | |||
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"Because women are in very high demand and are in very short supply! Women can call the shots to some extent. They get so many messages that they can afford to place high standards in order to filter men out. Like when you buy a car. You look at adverts... You may find 20, people tend to dismiss ones without pics. Why? Because they can!" Not really because they can. People want to know what a car looks like before they commit to going to see it and take a test drive. If there are 20 ads, they're not going to go and see them all just in case one without photos is the best. They're going to use the time they have to their best advantage and see the best prospects. Part of how they decide which are the best prospects is from the photos. | |||
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"why do people put on there profile " if you don't have a face pic your message will be deleted" or words to that effect, these same people don't even have a face pic or even any photos, on there profile, idiots the lot of them " If you're potentially doing yourself out of meets by not being willing to show them what you look like, I'd suggest it's not them being idiotic. They'll have plenty more options who will send a face pic. | |||
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"Because women are in very high demand and are in very short supply! Women can call the shots to some extent. They get so many messages that they can afford to place high standards in order to filter men out. Like when you buy a car. You look at adverts... You may find 20, people tend to dismiss ones without pics. Why? Because they can! Not really because they can. People want to know what a car looks like before they commit to going to see it and take a test drive. If there are 20 ads, they're not going to go and see them all just in case one without photos is the best. They're going to use the time they have to their best advantage and see the best prospects. Part of how they decide which are the best prospects is from the photos." Exactly. It's the same here. | |||
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"Because women are in very high demand and are in very short supply! Women can call the shots to some extent. They get so many messages that they can afford to place high standards in order to filter men out. Like when you buy a car. You look at adverts... You may find 20, people tend to dismiss ones without pics. Why? Because they can! Not really because they can. People want to know what a car looks like before they commit to going to see it and take a test drive. If there are 20 ads, they're not going to go and see them all just in case one without photos is the best. They're going to use the time they have to their best advantage and see the best prospects. Part of how they decide which are the best prospects is from the photos. Exactly. It's the same here." Yep. It's not really just because people can though. It's sensible. It ensures they make best use of their time, only looking at the best prospects. Guys often tell me I should at least meet them for a social because I shouldn't judge books by their covers and I won't be able to tell if I get on with them or not unless we meet and blah blah blah. It's just not possible to meet everyone. And in many cases I just don't need to. Do I miss out on meeting a few excellent people that way? Almost certainly, yes. That's the trade off to protect my sanity (what little I have left!) | |||
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"Because women are in very high demand and are in very short supply! Women can call the shots to some extent. They get so many messages that they can afford to place high standards in order to filter men out. Like when you buy a car. You look at adverts... You may find 20, people tend to dismiss ones without pics. Why? Because they can! Not really because they can. People want to know what a car looks like before they commit to going to see it and take a test drive. If there are 20 ads, they're not going to go and see them all just in case one without photos is the best. They're going to use the time they have to their best advantage and see the best prospects. Part of how they decide which are the best prospects is from the photos. Exactly. It's the same here. Yep. It's not really just because people can though. It's sensible. It ensures they make best use of their time, only looking at the best prospects. Guys often tell me I should at least meet them for a social because I shouldn't judge books by their covers and I won't be able to tell if I get on with them or not unless we meet and blah blah blah. It's just not possible to meet everyone. And in many cases I just don't need to. Do I miss out on meeting a few excellent people that way? Almost certainly, yes. That's the trade off to protect my sanity (what little I have left!)" I agree, same as the cars... The one without the photo might be the best! Oh, I hate all that begging, etc. Men should let the women do the chasing! | |||
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"why do people put on there profile " if you don't have a face pic your message will be deleted" or words to that effect, these same people don't even have a face pic or even any photos, on there profile, idiots the lot of them " We say we will send face pics but if we don't get one with any messages then we won't reply. Unreasonable? Probably but you wouldn't meet a faceless person | |||
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