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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I need some advice please I've have a friend here on fab and we use to play and have fun together I would like to ask him to go to a club on Valentine's weekend but I'm afraid of what he will be thinking that I want something more than be his fab friend ? Could you help please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell him

Oh, you have, here in the lounge

Just say there's an event going on that weekend, no strings attached

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you but I wish it would be so simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want something more than just a fab friend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would be lying if I said no but I know what we are and I'm happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be lying if I said no but I know what we are and I'm happy with that "

Then this is why you're struggling in asking, because you're hoping that he does see it as more than just another club night. If you're happy with what you've got I think it's easy to say to him there's an event you want to go to, just say the date rather than valentines.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you I think I will take your advice I'm happy with what I have so why jeopardise that right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you I think I will take your advice I'm happy with what I have so why jeopardise that right ? "

That depends if you can hold your emotions back and can carry on as before, I know I can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or, just be up front with him and tell him you want to be more than "just friends". If he says he doesn't, then you can say that you're also cool with that. Does he want to go to a club with you anyway.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Why can't you just suggest going out together for the weeknd, don't make it about valentines, just make it about going out with a friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I rather control my emotions than lose him as a friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or, just be up front with him and tell him you want to be more than "just friends". If he says he doesn't, then you can say that you're also cool with that. Does he want to go to a club with you anyway. "

Yes we have been before but it's on Valentine's weekend you see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why can't you just suggest going out together for the weeknd, don't make it about valentines, just make it about going out with a friend "

Yes that's a good idea Oh gosh why this has to be so complicated lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it's valentines weekend, but why does that have to be a big issue. Friends can go out together too. . It doesn't just have to be about loved up couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know it's valentines weekend, but why does that have to be a big issue. Friends can go out together too. . It doesn't just have to be about loved up couples. "

Just need to bite my tongue and don't say nothing stupid like I love you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know it's valentines weekend, but why does that have to be a big issue. Friends can go out together too. . It doesn't just have to be about loved up couples.

Just need to bite my tongue and don't say nothing stupid like I love you lol "

Like the song lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's valentines weekend, but why does that have to be a big issue. Friends can go out together too. . It doesn't just have to be about loved up couples.

Just need to bite my tongue and don't say nothing stupid like I love you lol

Like the song lol "

Hey, if you do it's out there. So what? He might surprise you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know it's valentines weekend, but why does that have to be a big issue. Friends can go out together too. . It doesn't just have to be about loved up couples.

Just need to bite my tongue and don't say nothing stupid like I love you lol

Like the song lol

Hey, if you do it's out there. So what? He might surprise you. "

I like the way you think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's valentines weekend, but why does that have to be a big issue. Friends can go out together too. . It doesn't just have to be about loved up couples.

Just need to bite my tongue and don't say nothing stupid like I love you lol

Like the song lol

Hey, if you do it's out there. So what? He might surprise you.

I like the way you think lol "

It's a shame I can't think like that with my own life!! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know it's valentines weekend, but why does that have to be a big issue. Friends can go out together too. . It doesn't just have to be about loved up couples.

Just need to bite my tongue and don't say nothing stupid like I love you lol

Like the song lol

Hey, if you do it's out there. So what? He might surprise you.

I like the way you think lol

It's a shame I can't think like that with my own life!! Lol. "

Well you should xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's valentines weekend, but why does that have to be a big issue. Friends can go out together too. . It doesn't just have to be about loved up couples.

Just need to bite my tongue and don't say nothing stupid like I love you lol

Like the song lol

Hey, if you do it's out there. So what? He might surprise you.

I like the way you think lol

It's a shame I can't think like that with my own life!! Lol.

Well you should xx "

I'm getting there. xx

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