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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I learnt a lesson tonight. I found out im not attractive. Its only taken me 38 years to find that out. I certainly wont pm anyone with the above or as such again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't stress on what others think of you, be happy in your own skin my friend

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I learnt a lesson tonight. I found out im not attractive. Its only taken me 38 years to find that out. I certainly wont pm anyone with the above or as such again

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or do you mean your not attractive to that one person?

Attractiveness is sunjective, I'd never message someone with that on their profile as I have absolutly no idea what they find attractive.

Bu t I wouldn't lose any sleep over one person not finding you attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I learnt a lesson tonight. I found out im not attractive. Its only taken me 38 years to find that out. I certainly wont pm anyone with the above or as such again

or do you mean your not attractive to that one person?

Attractiveness is sunjective, I'd never message someone with that on their profile as I have absolutly no idea what they find attractive.

Bu t I wouldn't lose any sleep over one person not finding you attractive

And for the record i think your very attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't win 'em all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey mr Eastwood your veri says sexy ! Xxxxxxxxx that's so much better xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry what some online weirdoe thinks, they are prob just trolling and insecure.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP I offered to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I learnt a lesson tonight. I found out im not attractive. Its only taken me 38 years to find that out. I certainly wont pm anyone with the above or as such again

Bloody you've only had one knock back in 38 years I'd consider that good going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me Pal, there are a lot of people your age who aren't in as good shape as you.

Lets face it, physical attraction is subjective. Some women have told me I'm good looking, but just not their type. So to put a silver lining on it, you can be attractive, but on a swinging site everyone is going to have different opinions on what is attractive - especially when it comes down to kinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry what some online weirdoe thinks, they are prob just trolling and insecure."

You do come out with some stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry what some online weirdoe thinks, they are prob just trolling and insecure.

You do come out with some stuff

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Yes ty, but it is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry what some online weirdoe thinks, they are prob just trolling and insecure."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a thing for gingers and freckles. ... meanwhile Mrs do hates both gingers and freckles. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I learnt a lesson tonight. I found out im not attractive. Its only taken me 38 years to find that out. I certainly wont pm anyone with the above or as such again

or do you mean your not attractive to that one person?

Attractiveness is sunjective, I'd never message someone with that on their profile as I have absolutly no idea what they find attractive.

Bu t I wouldn't lose any sleep over one person not finding you attractive

This.. I will not message or reply to anyone who has that written anywhere on their profile.... Everyone sees people differently..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. Let's see your face. Then I can let you know if i think you're attractive. Your bod is lush. I'm guessing your face could quite well be too. So ignore the haters!!!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

One person out of how many people on the site?.....you are doing well

.....and just for the record I think you are a hottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry what some online weirdoe thinks, they are prob just trolling and insecure."

It's not a nice thing to hear but if someone doesn't find you attractive it doesn't make them weirdos, a troll or insecure they just don't find you attractive looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry what some online weirdoe thinks, they are prob just trolling and insecure.

It's not a nice thing to hear but if someone doesn't find you attractive it doesn't make them weirdos, a troll or insecure they just don't find you attractive looking "
Yes but there is other way to say it, unless they got a bad personality trait and cant be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some would find the stipulation for attractive people to be very unattractive. What you find attractive won't be the same as mine or many others. I find muscle bound men and women to be unattractive, I'm sure they find Mr. Average unattractive. Looks isn't everything, some beautiful people are far too shallow or dense or whatever. I won't have sex with a woman if I don't get on with her, no matter how gorgeous she might be. honestly wouldn't worry about what one couple thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractiveness is subjective though. You may not be that persons cup of tea, doesn't mean you won't be another's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry what some online weirdoe thinks, they are prob just trolling and insecure.

You do come out with some stuff

Yes ty, but it is right

Of course it's not right, not finding somebody attractive does not make you a wierdo or troll, it simply means you don't fancy them

I say your not my type to men every day that don't mean I'm insecure it means...they aren't my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry what some online weirdoe thinks, they are prob just trolling and insecure.

You do come out with some stuff

Yes ty, but it is right

Of course it's not right, not finding somebody attractive does not make you a wierdo or troll, it simply means you don't fancy them

I say your not my type to men every day that don't mean I'm insecure it means...they aren't my type

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That is right, although it depends how they say it back you know, saying not my type is allright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op. Let's see your face. Then I can let you know if i think you're attractive. Your bod is lush. I'm guessing your face could quite well be too. So ignore the haters!!!

This! ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I learnt a lesson tonight. I found out im not attractive. Its only taken me 38 years to find that out. I certainly wont pm anyone with the above or as such again

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a lot of vain peeps on here mate these women on here must be absolute goddesses where us average or what we seems to be good looking guys are thing but average in todays world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry what some online weirdoe thinks, they are prob just trolling and insecure.

It's not a nice thing to hear but if someone doesn't find you attractive it doesn't make them weirdos, a troll or insecure they just don't find you attractive looking Yes but there is other way to say it, unless they got a bad personality trait and cant be nice."

You don't know how they said it, he didn't say, he just said he's found out he's not attractive, they could have simply said your not my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha you have all fallen for the compliment me thread !

I might give it ago..

As I seem to be no body's type at all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that attractive but I've met many attractive guys. I don't contact anyone that is hung up on what they think is attractive though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely we have all been turned down on here at some point, itnt that just part of swinging?

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Get your cock in me.

That's a compliment right? I mean, I assume that that's what guys want to hear, right??

But, seriously though, this:

"Bloody you've only had one knock back in 38 years I'd consider that good going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha you have all fallen for the compliment me thread !

I might give it ago..

As I seem to be no body's type at all!!"

I don't have a type your ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry what some online weirdoe thinks, they are prob just trolling and insecure.

You don't know how they said it, he didn't say, he just said he's found out he's not attractive, they could have simply said your not my type "
That is right as we don't know, but yeah saying not my type is the best way to say not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Attractiveness is subjective though. You may not be that persons cup of tea, doesn't mean you won't be another's."

Totally agree with the above

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

They say opposites attract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say opposites attract

That's not true all the stunners keep turning me down

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Haha you have all fallen for the compliment me thread !

I might give it ago..

As I seem to be no body's type at all!!"

Hey! Everyone is allowed to want to get complimented!

Your body is incredible!

There, there's one for you.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"They say opposites attract

That's not true all the stunners keep turning me down

Exactly, so what does that say about you?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"They say opposites attract

That's not true all the stunners keep turning me down

Well I'm a minger, fancy a fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It wasnt a sorry your not my type kind of reply....but best not to discuss pms. Some good points and the grow a thick skin is true. Ill man up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say opposites attract

That's not true all the stunners keep turning me down

Exactly, so what does that say about you?

Aww I like her, can we keep her

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"They say opposites attract

That's not true all the stunners keep turning me down

Exactly, so what does that say about you?

Aww I like her, can we keep her

ha ha ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly that person was not for you, but there is other's on here that are and it's just finding them, so just take this knock back on the chin and move on.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Some would find the stipulation for attractive people to be very unattractive. What you find attractive won't be the same as mine or many others. I find muscle bound men and women to be unattractive, I'm sure they find Mr. Average unattractive. Looks isn't everything, some beautiful people are far too shallow or dense or whatever. I won't have sex with a woman if I don't get on with her, no matter how gorgeous she might be. honestly wouldn't worry about what one couple thinks.

You're cute though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's horses for courses...

one mans meat is another mans poison....

don't take it personally...

I never do.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I learnt a lesson tonight. I found out im not attractive. Its only taken me 38 years to find that out. I certainly wont pm anyone with the above or as such again

or do you mean your not attractive to that one person?

Attractiveness is sunjective, I'd never message someone with that on their profile as I have absolutly no idea what they find attractive.

Bu t I wouldn't lose any sleep over one person not finding you attractive

And for the record i think your very attractive

You knows the feelings mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it. I get told that regularly. You can't be everyone's cup of tea. Chin up mate.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I learnt a lesson tonight. I found out im not attractive. Its only taken me 38 years to find that out. I certainly wont pm anyone with the above or as such again

Well haven't seen your face, but great body!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I learnt a lesson tonight. I found out im not attractive. Its only taken me 38 years to find that out. I certainly wont pm anyone with the above or as such again

How would anyone else expect you to know what they consider "attractive"?

If they were rude after being so vague, it says more about them than anything else.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Going by your pics I'd say you look pretty hot

But if someone doesn't find you attractive they shouldn't be unkind about it eh? X

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Going by your pics I'd say you look pretty hot

But if someone doesn't find you attractive they shouldn't be unkind about it eh? X"

Some people take it as a personal insult that anyone dares to not be appealing to them and have to take every possible opportunity to make sure everyone knows they don't measure up.

And if one of those people should actually think they are good enough and make contact, well, the cheek of it! They have to be slapped back down into place pronto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha you have all fallen for the compliment me thread !

I might give it ago..

As I seem to be no body's type at all!!"

Exactly what I thought. OP has done well with all the white lady Knights in armour riding in lol.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Haha you have all fallen for the compliment me thread !

I might give it ago..

As I seem to be no body's type at all!!

Exactly what I thought. OP has done well with all the white lady Knights in armour riding in lol.

To be fair, it's partly down to how it's phrased. If he'd stormed off on one about rude, up their own arse couples, it wouldn't have gone like this.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Don't worry what some online weirdoe thinks, they are prob just trolling and insecure.

It's not a nice thing to hear but if someone doesn't find you attractive it doesn't make them weirdos, a troll or insecure they just don't find you attractive looking "

Exactly!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I love your Arse xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be disheartened. Hugs xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha you have all fallen for the compliment me thread !

I might give it ago..

As I seem to be no body's type at all!!

Exactly what I thought. OP has done well with all the white lady Knights in armour riding in lol.

cant win on here at times!

If you're nice to someone you're 'white knighting' if you're the flipside then the forums are hostile & bitchy

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Haha you have all fallen for the compliment me thread !

I might give it ago..

As I seem to be no body's type at all!!

Exactly what I thought. OP has done well with all the white lady Knights in armour riding in lol.

cant win on here at times!

If you're nice to someone you're 'white knighting' if you're the flipside then the forums are hostile & bitchy

So true!

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

I've had that a few times......oops maybe I shouldn't advertise that

Don't worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha you have all fallen for the compliment me thread !

I might give it ago..

As I seem to be no body's type at all!!

Exactly what I thought. OP has done well with all the white lady Knights in armour riding in lol.

cant win on here at times!

If you're nice to someone you're 'white knighting' if you're the flipside then the forums are hostile & bitchy

So true!

Yep. Sometimes makes you think twice about commenting for fear of being jumped on!!!

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

"Haha you have all fallen for the compliment me thread !

I might give it ago..

As I seem to be no body's type at all!!

Exactly what I thought. OP has done well with all the white lady Knights in armour riding in lol.

cant win on here at times!

If you're nice to someone you're 'white knighting' if you're the flipside then the forums are hostile & bitchy

So true!

Yep. Sometimes makes you think twice about commenting for fear of being jumped on!!! "

Wish someone would jump on me !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is rude to you send the hit sqaud

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast

Attractiveness is individual and subjective.. She's not the authority of what it means to everyone, just herself.

She sounds like an ignoramus. Chalk it up to a lucky escape from her and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up OP you are attractive don't let anyone tell you otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha you have all fallen for the compliment me thread !

I might give it ago..

As I seem to be no body's type at all!!

Exactly what I thought. OP has done well with all the white lady Knights in armour riding in lol.

cant win on here at times!

If you're nice to someone you're 'white knighting' if you're the flipside then the forums are hostile & bitchy

So true!

Yep. Sometimes makes you think twice about commenting for fear of being jumped on!!! "

Nope....makes me want to post all the more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha you have all fallen for the compliment me thread !

I might give it ago..

As I seem to be no body's type at all!!

Exactly what I thought. OP has done well with all the white lady Knights in armour riding in lol.

cant win on here at times!

If you're nice to someone you're 'white knighting' if you're the flipside then the forums are hostile & bitchy

So true!

Yep. Sometimes makes you think twice about commenting for fear of being jumped on!!!

Nope....makes me want to post all the more

Oh I'm not letting it stop me. Just saying.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I'm not that attractive but I've met many attractive guys. I don't contact anyone that is hung up on what they think is attractive though. "

Yeah, but your body is to die for (as evidenced WHEN your pics are up) and guys aren't really that fussed about how your face looks.

However, having seen your face pics I have to disagree and say you ARE attractive.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I've had this too! One lady recently took a look at my cock and was like "Wow Nice cock!" We got chatting and she said my face wasn't the right shape, then stopped chatting! Lol.

Sometimes I get women saying "wow, what a great looking guy".

Who knows... Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Like others have said, what is or isn't attractive is different for everyone

Beauty or Indeed attractiveness, is in the eye of the beholder

As long as you are happy in your own skin, that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could put a bag on your head ? You better not apply for Le Boudoir as they only take the beautiful people now

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