FabSwingers.com forum: What's your safe word?

By *iforfun999 OP Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Do you have a safe word you use for anyone or use the one which was given to you for that session?

Mine is 'Swarovski', because 'no', 'stop', 'red' and other similar words are still terms used in play. Swarovski is a company in Austria who are known worldwide for their quality of crystal which they make for jewellery, chandeliers, collectable ornaments, binoculars, cats eyes in the road and many other products sold globally. If my mind is in the zone to think Swarovski, it's not in the zone for play! LOL.

Any interesting safe words you use or have overheard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is gazebo, quite distinctive and not easily misheard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my safe word is harder?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

fuck off works for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fuck off works for me lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That welsh village with huge name lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fuck off works for me lol"

Haha yea works for me too

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

AAAARGHHH!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My safeword is safeword. Does the trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to use "Stella"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My safe word is Mosler - always go with the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My safe word is pineapples, I adopted it after watching a Kevin Hart show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is

Come near me with that and I'll f**king kill you

Works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supercallyfragilisticexpiallidotious

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

Rhinoceros it's not a word that I've ever heard being used in play

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Mine is spatula but he has to use it more than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two one is for play to stop and the other is for my mater to change tact as I want the play to continue and they are red and amber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supercallyfragilisticexpiallidotious

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"fuck off works for me lol"

Works for me to.

I just clearly state No, if the other cant understand it theres seriously something wrong with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have a safe word you use for anyone or use the one which was given to you for that session?

Any interesting safe words you use or have overheard? "
letsgetthefuckoutahere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rent to slow down.

Mortgage to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When indulging in BDSM play then I give a new safe word every time. Always two or more syllables, always a noun, never a verb. Not in favour of traffic lights as amber can mean you should consider stopping or f**k it and go!

So porridge, giraffe and apostrophe are fine and hey if you use any of those in sexual play (normally) you are clearly weirder than I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use a three syllable safe word, that way we don't have to change it if were using a ball gag, aah aah aah is easy to get. Like big bad wolf,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop it I'm dying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it really difficult to communicate when I'm being beaten.

My Domme reads me really well but if we're pushing the limits hard she gives me something to hold so I can drop it if needed.

That's assuming I can let go

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By *adenceWoman
over a year ago

North Lincolnshire

Traffic lights when new to each other. I quite like the Big Bad Wolf one though- agree re gag, etc. I'd like to think the Dom I'm with can begin to read me well and know when and where to push so safe word barely used. xx

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By *empted123Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Mine is Juliet Bravo.As used in the league of gentlemen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm choking on a cock or being bit a few sharp taps to the buttocks or side of the head do the trick.

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down

Try that once more and I'll fuckin kneecap you tends to work for us.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buttercup as leave me a fucking alone dnt always work lol z marie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geronimo...........

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"My safeword is safeword. Does the trick. "

Ha ha! This is mine too!

It cuts out having to remember a word, and like OP said, if your mind is thinking about a safeword, it's probably time to say it, and safeword is probably the word that's already there in your brain. Lol

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

"Mine is spatula but he has to use it more than me

Spatula is only used when Curly surfaces

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Mine is spatula but he has to use it more than me

Spatula is only used when Curly surfaces

Shhhhh least said and all that

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Youuglyfuckingdog

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

My safe word is 'red'....I have never had to use it yet but I know my husband will stop everything and everyone if I say it

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By *iforfun999 OP Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

"That welsh village with huge name lol

That would stop them dead in their tracks! LOL. For those who don't know the town, it's:

llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That welsh village with huge name lol

That would stop them dead in their tracks! LOL. For those who don't know the town, it's:

llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch

Oh I thought you meant rhyl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have one word for slow down and another for stop altogether.

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By *ancyDrewWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

mine is Chubb cos they make safes

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Mine is, "Oi, I said stop; are you hard of hearing?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fluggaenkoecchicebolsen

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