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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get so many messages from men who want to meet but as neither of us can accommodate, the chances of meeting are slim.

I seem to have more fun at a club for this reason.

Does anyone else find this a problem too?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Please keep the same avatar... I can't decide who you are from one day to the next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get so many messages from men who want to meet but as neither of us can accommodate, the chances of meeting are slim.

I seem to have more fun at a club for this reason.

Does anyone else find this a problem too?"

Nope , we do outdoor , car , parties etc.....

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Nope I accommodate anytime day or night maybe the odd short notice and still cant get a meet lol

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

A lot of people seem to go for hotel rooms. I wouldn't have a problem with that.

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

Yup. Though I suspect get a lot fewer msgs than you do, let alone meet offers!

Worse still, few of the clubs are open day times. Often end up with a day room somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels work great.

I can't meet often but when I do I make the most of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please keep the same avatar... I can't decide who you are from one day to the next! "

I like to keep you on your toes

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area


"Hotels work great.

I can't meet often but when I do I make the most of it. "

Very true! And tbh, nice hotel vs kestrels in February....

Just the staff complain about you having sex in the pool at the hotel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hotel meets are OK for one off meets, but I prefer regular meets with the same person and hotels are a bit expensive for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels suuts me. They arent expensive if you book a couple of weeks in adavnce xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hotels work great.

I can't meet often but when I do I make the most of it.

Very true! And tbh, nice hotel vs kestrels in February....

Just the staff complain about you having sex in the pool at the hotel"

I'd choose Kestrels over a hotel any time of the year.

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over a year ago

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Hotel meets are OK for one off meets, but I prefer regular meets with the same person and hotels are a bit expensive for that "

It's ok, I'll pay

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only accommodate during the day but i'd rather not..

I've only ever been to 1 club and I wasn't that impressed...will have to try some others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use hotels a lot, you can get them for a resnoble price now days, I always offer to pay half so its upto them then if they want to meet, I do still get a lot of guys who aren't prepared to even go half's on a hotel, that's upto them I suppose but plenty are

I'd sooner get a hotel than go to a club, I tend to turn club meets down

Infact if I'm honest I'd sooner do a hotel meet than go to somebodies home

Damn these typos, third time lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get so many messages from men who want to meet but as neither of us can accommodate, the chances of meeting are slim.

I seem to have more fun at a club for this reason.

Does anyone else find this a problem too?"

Yes we do as don't want people at Mrs times house

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area


"I can only accommodate during the day but i'd rather not..

I've only ever been to 1 club and I wasn't that impressed...will have to try some others "

You should. I'd agree with miss innocent - kestrels is fab and go when ever I can.

I won't speak for her but my assumption is that she and so many other single women go, it must be an environment that enjoy being in.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hotels work great.

I can't meet often but when I do I make the most of it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to favour hotels, they suit the way I like to meet better than a club does.

I do find Kestrels fun though with a regular friend as opposed to meeting someone there for the 1st time.

Only met once in a guys house, felt okay with it as had loads of chat & met him socially at least twice beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only accommodate during the day but i'd rather not..

I've only ever been to 1 club and I wasn't that impressed...will have to try some others

You should. I'd agree with miss innocent - kestrels is fab and go when ever I can.

I won't speak for her but my assumption is that she and so many other single women go, it must be an environment that enjoy being in. "

Not everybody likes clubs though

If I'm honest going to a club is always my last choice of places to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accommodate or pay for hotels. I have a regular partner who pays for a room and has done for the past 3 years. On here it's no more expensive for a man to pay for a hotel than to pay for a club. I prefer to meet regularly too,and have met men from here who accommodate at their home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't accommodate or pay for hotels. I have a regular partner who pays for a room and has done for the past 3 years. On here it's no more expensive for a man to pay for a hotel than to pay for a club. I prefer to meet regularly too,and have met men from here who accommodate at their home. "

I'd love to find a man who can accommodate but unfortunately, for various reasons, most who message me can't.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I get so many messages from men who want to meet but as neither of us can accommodate, the chances of meeting are slim.

I seem to have more fun at a club for this reason.

Does anyone else find this a problem too?"

Yes. I also find a lot of guys just assume I will accommodate, even though my profile says that I can accommodate but I won't until I know someone a bit and trust them. I'm highly disinclined to accommodate for a first meet.

When possible I am willing to go halves on a hotel but usually men try to talk me into accommodating. Few are willing to pay half of the hotel cost.

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

Seeing as i nearly always need to travel to I pay for room ill need some sleep at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if I only had to pay £10 to get into a club I would meet at kestrals/abfabs its a beautiful clean club with a sunbathing area outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotels suuts me. They arent expensive if you book a couple of weeks in adavnce xx"

What are you doing in a couple of weeks time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We accommodate. We play with others who accommodate. We play at clubs. We play in hotels when we're traveling.

If people still can't meet up its not because we didn't try

-Courtney

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I can accommodate so I'm fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer hotels anyway. But I don't meet particularly regularly anyway, so it's not an issue for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and clubs aren't something I'd go for. I'd rather pay more and have a hotel room so I can meet someone alone, I don't want a load of extra people I don't know or like there with me.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I prefer to meet at my home however I do want to get to know said person before inviting them into my home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, and clubs aren't something I'd go for. I'd rather pay more and have a hotel room so I can meet someone alone, I don't want a load of extra people I don't know or like there with me."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if I only had to pay £10 to get into a club I would meet at kestrals/abfabs its a beautiful clean club with a sunbathing area outside "

And a pool so much better value than a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if I only had to pay £10 to get into a club I would meet at kestrals/abfabs its a beautiful clean club with a sunbathing area outside

And a pool so much better value than a hotel."
yes sleep on a sunbed and fuck all day mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't accommodate but can meet outdoor bin car or hotel but people pass me by

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I get so many messages from men who want to meet but as neither of us can accommodate, the chances of meeting are slim.

I seem to have more fun at a club for this reason.

Does anyone else find this a problem too?"

We have the opposite problem,most people want to meet up at clubs and that's not for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if I only had to pay £10 to get into a club I would meet at kestrals/abfabs its a beautiful clean club with a sunbathing area outside

And a pool so much better value than a hotel.yes sleep on a sunbed and fuck all day mmmm "

No, I swim in the pool, use the hot tubs, have lunch, chat.

I don't just go to a hotel, fuck and then leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if I only had to pay £10 to get into a club I would meet at kestrals/abfabs its a beautiful clean club with a sunbathing area outside

And a pool so much better value than a hotel.yes sleep on a sunbed and fuck all day mmmm

No, I swim in the pool, use the hot tubs, have lunch, chat.

I don't just go to a hotel, fuck and then leave."
when I go on a fun meet I have breakfast see the sights maybe lunch then hotel then out for meal then hotel then breakfast then fun then home have been known to stay for three days with one woman ex forumite I used to see regular

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I can't accommodate but can meet outdoor bin car or hotel but people pass me by"
I'm not surprise people pass you by if you want to meet in a bin

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