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hi meeting cpls is impossible

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By *ro Maintenance Man OP   Man
over a year ago

laysdown

Where am I going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a read thru the couple of hundred similar threads that have been posted and you shall find your answers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning OP.

As a single guy on here you are in the biggest group of Fab members. Most are looking for females or couples - so it's very much a numbers game and you have a lot of competition.

What makes you stand out over and above your competition? Your profile text is one sentence.

Your pics seem OK.

When you message people what do you say? How do you approach them? Do you talk as though they're a couple or do you address the lady only? That first approach is the key - first impressions and all that when they'll get loads of emails.

Oh and as an aside, I associate 'Boi' with 'gay' .. maybe it's just me, but as you say you're straight maybe that's sending mixed messages?

Anyway good luck fella! Hope you find what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where am I going wrong "
put your cock away approach people with respect ,grovel a bit that sort of thing works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont take pictures in bathrooms with your pants round your ankles. Its not sexy to say the least.

Replacing letters for numbers to me i find irritating.i thought it was cool when i was 13....no not even then tbh.

Get some more pictures but only 1 cock shot is needed!write a profile. What are you like? & What are you looking for?

Sorry to be harsh but its stiff competion as it were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible spelling doesn't help. Immediate turn off for me

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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

We"d always say read the person profile always make sure your what their looking for

We get loads of MSG and in subject field we request you put S&V or V&S

Still get hundreds off msg without so we just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Address them as a couple shows respect towards the man,compliment something about profile,pic's etc

Don't send a cock pic first off.Avoid crudities in your profile text.If you have a face pic on your profile try smiling.Despite all of that donz't feel rejected if it'a no as we all see something different in each other attraction is a complicated area to fathom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said , address your message to both rather than just the lady.

Remember both halves of the couple can see the messages. I've had guys say - meet me now and B would never know!

Your profile is pretty short - just add a little more to it. Maybe try a big social - there must be lots in your neck of the woods. Face to face you can sell yourself more easily plus the social side is fun too.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is required.

If you cant do Patience, go Solitaire....

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

Perhaps the user name and a two sentence profile isn't helping? Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where am I going wrong "

Pop a short skirt on. Do your hair and makeup and they just come to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your first pic as it looks awful in our opinion with your trousers round your ankles like you've decided to take a quick pic after your morning poo.

Also add more txt to your profile as it doesn't really say anything. Tell people what your looking for and what you have to offer them.

Go to clubs and socials as play meets are much easier to get once you've socialised within the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make your message respectful and write it approaching both as opposed to just the woman. If you alienate the guy immediately you wont get a second chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your profile look like it appeals to couples who want to enhance their bedroom dynamic?

If not? you have the answer

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Morning OP.

As a single guy on here you are in the biggest group of Fab members. Most are looking for females or couples - so it's very much a numbers game and you have a lot of competition.

What makes you stand out over and above your competition? Your profile text is one sentence.

Your pics seem OK.

When you message people what do you say? How do you approach them? Do you talk as though they're a couple or do you address the lady only? That first approach is the key - first impressions and all that when they'll get loads of emails.

Oh and as an aside, I associate 'Boi' with 'gay' .. maybe it's just me, but as you say you're straight maybe that's sending mixed messages?

Anyway good luck fella! Hope you find what you're looking for "

Boi sounds gay? Hmm.

How about sausage, if I may ask.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

With us, I Risky (m) run the account. I keep Frisky up to date and show her anyone I think will interest her.

If I saw your user name, as you use boiler, I would assume that you are bi or gay, so wouldn't look.

Once in your profile it says you are a straight guy looking for mm couples and TS/TV. So are you straight or bi?

Finally 18 - 99... Either you are not fussy or are desperate...Neither are attractive...

No one will knock you for being straight, bi or gay but you need to be clear and honest. If you have something on your profile that puts doubt into people's mind, they will move on to the next profile ...

Hth...

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