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By *ub_liminalTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *ub_liminalTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"How do you politely alert someone to their obnoxious, catty forum demeanour without breaking rules?

Seems.. Tricky. Lol."

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"How do you politely alert someone to their obnoxious, catty forum demeanour without breaking rules?

Seems.. Tricky. Lol."

Put up a thread perhaps??

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Meow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good bye regular posters...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you do that en-masse .....

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

What did I say this time?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

And just what is wrong with being catty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slap them with your penis.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Fliping heck op youve only been here a week your going to end up wearing yourself out if you start a thread everytime you think someone is catty

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By *ub_liminalTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"And just what is wrong with being catty "

Haha. Some seem prickly to the point of want to bait arguments.. Personally find that Bizzare and jarring. Nothing wrong with the occasional spot of Playful cattiness though.. . Xx.

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By *ub_liminalTV OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"Slap them with your penis."

Meh, sounds like effort. Feel free to jump in and dish out the cock slaps when necessary though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you politely alert someone to their obnoxious, catty forum demeanour without breaking rules?

Seems.. Tricky. Lol."

Send them a polite pm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No fun if we were all the same now would it ?

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

Yawnnnn what was the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question was god I don't know something about pets ,cats I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iams not sure.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Iams not sure."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like digging my nails in and scratching a back though on occasion..

Sarah

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Message them and tell them nicely, it's better and takes an adult approach.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"How do you politely alert someone to their obnoxious, catty forum demeanour without breaking rules?

Seems.. Tricky. Lol."

I don't think you can. Or should. I know that the few people who tend to make comments that rub me up the wrong way on here won't have the same effect on others. I have absolutely no right to attempt to inform them of my feelings towards them since I am interpreting words on an Internet screen and jumping to all sorts of conclusions, with little to no back story. Maybe they're having a shit time and unloading on here where it's relatively anonymous? I'm sure everyone has their reasons and I may judge them for their behaviour but that is my own issue and not theirs. To tell them what I think privately would be awfully arrogant, as if my opinion mattered more than anyone else's.

However, if it's someone you consider a friend in and you think they're shooting themselves in the foot then that's an entirely different scenario.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Message them and tell them nicely, it's better and takes an adult approach.

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And it probably won't change a thing anyway.

Besides, it's very easy to misunderstand things said on here. What one person interprets as catty, particularly when they're new, isn't necessarily catty at all.

I've seen the OP wade in and attack someone on here in the bitchiest way, accusing them of being nasty when they'd said nothing at all wrong and hadn't been nasty in the slightest.

The OP, to me, has more than a hint of irony to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to be catty about them being catty.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Best to be catty about them being catty. "

And raise the bar. It's essential to be more catty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best to be catty about them being catty.

And raise the bar. It's essential to be more catty "

Our resident Goddess can bestow gifts of cattiness for the most catty too

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think the OP must have been feline a bit cross last night

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I think the OP must have been feline a bit cross last night "

I'm sure there's no claws for concern.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I once asked a Forumite if they had a problem with me...they always quoted my posts and argued with them so often to the point I felt I was being bullied! They hadn't realised and after a brief conversation thanked me as it made them more aware of how their posts might come across.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I think the OP must have been feline a bit cross last night

I'm sure there's no claws for concern."

Maybe they pawsed for thought....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once asked a Forumite if they had a problem with me...they always quoted my posts and argued with them so often to the point I felt I was being bullied! They hadn't realised and after a brief conversation thanked me as it made them more aware of how their posts might come across. "

Was it me? I remember something similar but can't remember who it was. If I offend people I hope they'd tell me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP must have been feline a bit cross last night

I'm sure there's no claws for concern.

Maybe they pawsed for thought...."

Catatonic - a pick me up to take after cattiness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you politely alert someone to their obnoxious, catty forum demeanour without breaking rules?

Seems.. Tricky. Lol.

I don't think you can. Or should. I know that the few people who tend to make comments that rub me up the wrong way on here won't have the same effect on others. I have absolutely no right to attempt to inform them of my feelings towards them since I am interpreting words on an Internet screen and jumping to all sorts of conclusions, with little to no back story. Maybe they're having a shit time and unloading on here where it's relatively anonymous? I'm sure everyone has their reasons and I may judge them for their behaviour but that is my own issue and not theirs. To tell them what I think privately would be awfully arrogant, as if my opinion mattered more than anyone else's.

However, if it's someone you consider a friend in and you think they're shooting themselves in the foot then that's an entirely different scenario."

This

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't really find anyone insufferable.

I find that if I don't like the way someone posts I tend to ignore them. I can't change how they behave so I change my behaviour cause I'm in control of my feelings.

If someone is abusive then report the post to Admin. If you don't like what they say then stop reading it.

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