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is my profile just going to disappear overnight or do i get an email saying i have been reported etc???
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"I couldn't get in once. I don't know why tho. Lasted just over a day and I cannot for the life of me think what i'd done. Never bothered to find out cos it does state somewhere that admin wont get into convo about it. " I would have hoped they would send a message briefly explaining why after the ban is lifted... otherwise how do people know what not to do if they don't know what they did? | |||
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"just had my irst threat of being reported
is my profile just going to disappear overnight or do i get an email saying i have been reported etc???
i dont like this uncertainty "I wouldn't worry. Anyone who says they are going to report you will be seen by a message like that of guilty of intimidation. Its the ones who don't say anything and report you ant to worry about  | |||
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" how do people know what not to do if they don't know what they did?" I've had a few..I had to read that bit 4 times | |||
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"if its something daft they usually dont do anything about it, ive reported men lots of time for abusive messages and nothing at alls been done, there profiles not been suspended or anything, so i dont bother any more so shouldnt worry about it" Sometimes it takes a few hours - I guess it dpends on when admin get around to reading the message. I reported a guy recently and thought they hadn't done anything as an hour or so later he was still around.... but his profile was suspended the next day | |||
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"messaged someone on here on behalf of someone who is in hospital but she took it as stalking an threatened to report me and him" I wouldn't worry. As long as your not being offensive you can mail who you like unless your blocked. Sounds like a jealous woman to me. | |||
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"messaged someone on here on behalf of someone who is in hospital but she took it as stalking an threatened to report me and him" So..... Someone in hospital said to you ...... say hi to X for me and tell her im in hozzy........ so you said to her .... X says ullo he's in ozzy ....and she said.....You bliddy stalker im reporting you ? | |||
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"messaged someone on here on behalf of someone who is in hospital but she took it as stalking an threatened to report me and him So..... Someone in hospital said to you ...... say hi to X for me and tell her im in hozzy........ so you said to her .... X says ullo he's in ozzy ....and she said.....You bliddy stalker im reporting you ?" pretty much | |||
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" how do people know what not to do if they don't know what they did? I've had a few..I had to read that bit 4 times" The Leith Polithe Dithmitheth uth ........ | |||
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" how do people know what not to do if they don't know what they did? I've had a few..I had to read that bit 4 times The Leith Polithe Dithmitheth uth ........" udder | |||
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"messaged someone on here on behalf of someone who is in hospital but she took it as stalking an threatened to report me and him" Was the message "Hi, Mr - - - says: Thanks you fucking bitch for putting me in the hospital. Fuck off and die you cunt. Have a nice day." | |||
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"messaged someone on here on behalf of someone who is in hospital but she took it as stalking an threatened to report me and him So..... Someone in hospital said to you ...... say hi to X for me and tell her im in hozzy........ so you said to her .... X says ullo he's in ozzy ....and she said.....You bliddy stalker im reporting you ? pretty much" Hmmmmmmmm ........ She might be jumpy like me. I once had a woman forumite contact me cos a bloke she was related to asked her to put a word in. I went do lally tap. At him - not her. | |||
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Was it worth reporting? It just made me giggle. Bless. | |||
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" how do people know what not to do if they don't know what they did? I've had a few..I had to read that bit 4 times The Leith Polithe Dithmitheth uth ........ udder" Titty | |||
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"I never know whether to bother reporting people. I had one guy last night who, after I sent a polite no thanks to his message, came back and asked if I was a tranny with fake tits cause I look like a man in my pics!
Was it worth reporting? It just made me giggle. Bless. "oh come backs like that just make me laugh its like the ones where they tell you your not all that anyway and can do better then you down the pub 
they not worth reporting i just find them amusing | |||
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"It pisses me right off when I can't go back and laugh at them cause they've blocked me though! "ooooooooooo i know
how frustrating is it when you have though of a witty reply and they have blocked you lol | |||
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"It pisses me right off when I can't go back and laugh at them cause they've blocked me though!
ooooooooooo i know
how frustrating is it when you have though of a witty reply and they have blocked you lol"Just remember to add them to your blocked list as well. Some of them only block you for a short time so you can't reply.... they really get very confused when they remove you from their blocked list and yet still can't see you | |||
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"It pisses me right off when I can't go back and laugh at them cause they've blocked me though!
ooooooooooo i know
how frustrating is it when you have though of a witty reply and they have blocked you lol
Just remember to add them to your blocked list as well. Some of them only block you for a short time so you can't reply.... they really get very confused when they remove you from their blocked list and yet still can't see you "i had one guy once, you know the typical story, told him i didnt want to meet so he did the nasty come back message, told me he could do better and i had done him a favour by saying no etc then blocked me then every day he'd come on un block me, send me a nasty message then block me again 
gave be a couiple of weeks worth of amusment
as i though about how unbothered he really was that he was going thro all this effort just for me lol | |||
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"It pisses me right off when I can't go back and laugh at them cause they've blocked me though!
ooooooooooo i know
how frustrating is it when you have though of a witty reply and they have blocked you lol
Just remember to add them to your blocked list as well. Some of them only block you for a short time so you can't reply.... they really get very confused when they remove you from their blocked list and yet still can't see you "How do you do that when they've already blocked you and you can't see their profile? I'd deleted the messages so can't do it from there. | |||
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"It pisses me right off when I can't go back and laugh at them cause they've blocked me though!
ooooooooooo i know
how frustrating is it when you have though of a witty reply and they have blocked you lol
Just remember to add them to your blocked list as well. Some of them only block you for a short time so you can't reply.... they really get very confused when they remove you from their blocked list and yet still can't see you
How do you do that when they've already blocked you and you can't see their profile? I'd deleted the messages so can't do it from there. "Add their username manually to your block list | |||
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"It pisses me right off when I can't go back and laugh at them cause they've blocked me though!
ooooooooooo i know
how frustrating is it when you have though of a witty reply and they have blocked you lol
Just remember to add them to your blocked list as well. Some of them only block you for a short time so you can't reply.... they really get very confused when they remove you from their blocked list and yet still can't see you
How do you do that when they've already blocked you and you can't see their profile? I'd deleted the messages so can't do it from there. "It's either via the message or I think you can do it from a username search.... it's been a while but I know you can block someone who has blocked ouy. | |||
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"It pisses me right off when I can't go back and laugh at them cause they've blocked me though!
ooooooooooo i know
how frustrating is it when you have though of a witty reply and they have blocked you lol
Ah that's it - I cut and paste from the message or a username search.
Just remember to add them to your blocked list as well. Some of them only block you for a short time so you can't reply.... they really get very confused when they remove you from their blocked list and yet still can't see you
How do you do that when they've already blocked you and you can't see their profile? I'd deleted the messages so can't do it from there.
Add their username manually to your block list " | |||
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"I am sure I typed a reply in that one lol" Yup... got it! Fanks! | |||
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"It pisses me right off when I can't go back and laugh at them cause they've blocked me though!
ooooooooooo i know
how frustrating is it when you have though of a witty reply and they have blocked you lol
Just remember to add them to your blocked list as well. Some of them only block you for a short time so you can't reply.... they really get very confused when they remove you from their blocked list and yet still can't see you
How do you do that when they've already blocked you and you can't see their profile? I'd deleted the messages so can't do it from there.
Add their username manually to your block list "Now that is useful to know.... we are going to block all two of the cheeky bastards that had the nerve to block us.... that'll teach em manners  | |||
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"I am sure I typed a reply in that one lol Yup... got it! Fanks! "How did you get it... and the quote remain here?????? | |||
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"I am sure I typed a reply in that one lol Yup... got it! Fanks!
How did you get it... and the quote remain here?????? "I'm guessing you wrote it before the quote bit. About adding them manually to the block list. | |||
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"Never ceases to amaze me how quickly you can go from the most desirable person they have ever seen and wish to play with, to the skinniest/fattest/fuggliest person ever if you reply with a thanks no thanks to some people. xx "I've just had to upgrade to being a tena lady woman lol!!!
Thanks Laine lol!! (or should that be pmsl???). | |||
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"I am sure I typed a reply in that one lol Yup... got it! Fanks!
How did you get it... and the quote remain here??????
I'm guessing you wrote it before the quote bit. About adding them manually to the block list. "Ooops - I can see it now stuck in the middle.... I must be getting tired lol | |||
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"Never ceases to amaze me how quickly you can go from the most desirable person they have ever seen and wish to play with, to the skinniest/fattest/fuggliest person ever if you reply with a thanks no thanks to some people. xx "and dont you find that its usually the ones who moan on their profile that manners cost nothing and a simple no thanks would be nice are usually the ones who cant handle rejection?
and it has to be said that i have found the younger guys on here are usually the ones with the best manner | |||
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"Never ceases to amaze me how quickly you can go from the most desirable person they have ever seen and wish to play with, to the skinniest/fattest/fuggliest person ever if you reply with a thanks no thanks to some people. xx
and dont you find that its usually the ones who moan on their profile that manners cost nothing and a simple no thanks would be nice are usually the ones who cant handle rejection?
and it has to be said that i have found the younger guys on here are usually the ones with the best manner "Yep, most insulting mail I ever received was from the female of a couple. Fortunately I did report them and their profile was gone the next day, no idea if they jumped or were pushed though. xx | |||
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"just had my irst threat of being reported
is my profile just going to disappear overnight or do i get an email saying i have been reported etc???
i dont like this uncertainty "An answer from Admin on what happens with reports. Obviously every one is checked, and the following tells you what happens if the report is proved, but you can also be assured if there is no substance to the report, then nothing will be actioned. ******* Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above). Every single report sent via the REPORT link is re_iewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported. Admin PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day. Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted: -- Your feedback has been saved. A website admin will shortly re_iew your feedback and take the necessary action. After re_iewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning. By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you. ****** | |||
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"I couldn't get in once. I don't know why tho. Lasted just over a day and I cannot for the life of me think what i'd done. Never bothered to find out cos it does state somewhere that admin wont get into convo about it. " Granny, you naughty woman !!
Admin would have probably answered you though if you had asked, as it was your profile. It is only when people ask for other peoples profiles that I doubt they will answer. | |||
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"I couldn't get in once. I don't know why tho. Lasted just over a day and I cannot for the life of me think what i'd done. Never bothered to find out cos it does state somewhere that admin wont get into convo about it. Granny, you naughty woman !!
Admin would have probably answered you though if you had asked, as it was your profile. It is only when people ask for other peoples profiles that I doubt they will answer."Mistaken Identity Guv....... Im webildered !! | |||
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