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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having a lousy emotional day so can you FABulous folk cheer me up please? xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gee thanks guys, you're all heart!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a great day today the ex brought the kids through to visit me and we had a great lunch and their smiles made me feel on top of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gee thanks guys, you're all heart! "
Sorry you are having a crappy day have a big ((((hug ))))from me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a lousy emotional day so can you FABulous folk cheer me up please? xx"
hi claire, i've just looked at your profile and you seem lovely. Hope that helps and have a BIG HUG xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gonna seem kinda shallow after the guys post above. But boobs they make me smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge hugs here, hugs for all, get your comforting big hugs here.

Don't be shy don't be glum or you'll get a banana across yer bum! xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a lousy emotional day so can you FABulous folk cheer me up please? xx"

Well i got a pay rise and had a phone call from an old friend which was really nice.

You get bad days so the good days seem even better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the hugs guys and being flippant about boobs still makes me smile so thank you too mwahxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ben n jerrys ice cream whilst watchin a decent film

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Went to the pictures on my own earlier and watched Hereafter, partly why I am emotional lol

Should have had the Ben and Jerrys, then fallen into a carb and sugar enduced coma, that would have done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Become a Lake!

An aging Hindu master grew tired of his apprentice complaining, and so, one morning, sent him for some salt. When the apprentice returned, the master instructed the unhappy young man to put a handful of salt in a glass of water and then to drink it.

"How does it taste?" the master asked. "Bitter," spat the apprentice.

The master then asked the young man to take another handful of salt and put it in the lake nearby. Once the apprentice swirled

his handful of salt in the water, the old man said, "Now drink from the lake."

As the water dripped down the young man's chin, the master asked, "How does it taste?" "Fresh," remarked the apprentice.

"Do you taste the salt?" asked the master. "No," said the young man.

At this, the master took the young man's hands, offering, "The pain of life is pure salt; no more, no less. The amount of pain

in life remains exactly the same. However, the amount of bitterness we taste depends on the container we put the pain in.

So when you are in pain, the only thing you can do is to enlarge your sense of things a bit...

I like licking the nougat from the inside of a walnut whip..whilst `aving my toes tickled...curiously it makes me giggle...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Having a lousy emotional day so can you FABulous folk cheer me up please? xx"

awwwwww {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

i know how you feel, often get dys like that and the folk on here never fail to cheer me up xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So is the container we have to use pre-determined, do you think?

Got me thinking now.... bit like a funeral I was at where someone said that God never promised to deliver us from suffering, or help us in this life, afterall, he didn't help his own son, did he?

But he did promise that with faith we would eventually come to make sense of it all...... still working on that bit, admittedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems yer doing it already really doesn`t it ....taking yer mind of yer probs......I just look at that sort of shit sometimes ...it gives me a nudge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That looks a bit flippant in retrospect...I didn`t intend it to be .....

I think theres great value, in finding something we enjoy in times of trouble ...I think its focus ....to be honest

Hope you`re smiling soon x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That looks a bit flippant in retrospect...I didn`t intend it to be .....

I think theres great value, in finding something we enjoy in times of trouble ...I think its focus ....to be honest

Hope you`re smiling soon x"

Understood and thank you xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if ya warm yur hands, ya can stick them in my pants if that will cheer you up..

will defo do the trick for me..

I is all heart...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if ya warm yur hands, ya can stick them in my pants if that will cheer you up..

will defo do the trick for me..

I is all heart..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family make me happy, the beauty of the place I live makes me happy, I just wish I could bottle the essence of it all for those days I'm unhappy. xxx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

My great niece Mia made me laugh this morning.

3rd week at dancing class.. and she aint dainty.

bless her for trying tho..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My family make me happy, the beauty of the place I live makes me happy, I just wish I could bottle the essence of it all for those days I'm unhappy. xxx"

One thing I HAVE learned, is that it is as unnatural to be happy all the time as it is to be unhappy, and to allow myself to feel it with out indulging in too much self-pity! That way I can appreciate the happiness too, and treat it the same way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My family make me happy, the beauty of the place I live makes me happy, I just wish I could bottle the essence of it all for those days I'm unhappy. xxx

One thing I HAVE learned, is that it is as unnatural to be happy all the time as it is to be unhappy, and to allow myself to feel it with out indulging in too much self-pity! That way I can appreciate the happiness too, and treat it the same way xx"

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My family make me happy, the beauty of the place I live makes me happy, I just wish I could bottle the essence of it all for those days I'm unhappy. xxx

One thing I HAVE learned, is that it is as unnatural to be happy all the time as it is to be unhappy, and to allow myself to feel it with out indulging in too much self-pity! That way I can appreciate the happiness too, and treat it the same way xx"

Very true, how can you feel one never having experienced the other. xxxx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Think of the countdown to Cannock?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think of the countdown to Cannock?"

Good plan, thanks!

Am lots happier, now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thought i need to get something and soon lol

Well chin up gorgeous and was the film good ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a smile,and thinking about my grand kids that always cheers me up

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Being with K - we spend far to much time apart at the moment

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

my daughter made me happy yesterday by winning first place in her classs for playing violin at music festival for schools

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs to OP!

I have days like yours too, luckily they are far and between.

What makes me happy? In no particular order:

My cat lying on my chest and purring

My dog flipping over on his back so that he can have his tummy rubbed

My pets on my lap and chest

Walking the dog

Cooking and enjoy the result of my labour of love

Waking up every morning and realise I am still alive

Camping

Fresh Air

Clear bright and white winter mornings

A great job that I enjoy

Great friends that love and support me without being judgemental

Great food that is cooked for me

etc. etc...

Simple pleasures really, and quite a few are free!

Life is grand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sausages make me happy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know im a bit of a twat at times but the one thing that really makes me happy is seeing my son and hearing him say he loves me even thou we dont get much time together .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice wee drink ,good music and great company and conversation ,nothing else required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all have our up and down moments, im a bit down at the moment but i know why so i can get over it in time ..its those days when u just feel down for no reason that are hard to deal with but if im home i go walk the beach and it always cheers me up ,or if im at my daughters ill snuggle up with my littleist grand daughter and tickle her back,she giggles and i giggle ....job done !!,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The smiles and cuddles from my little one's always gets rid of the blues

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Simple pleasures make me happy, but then again im simple , hope your feeling better Claire xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money makes me happy. Shallow I know, but alas true.

And I don`t want to see all this "money isn`t everything" and "money doesn`t buy happines" shite, as the only folk that pass such comments are common peasants and n`er do wells.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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One thing I HAVE learned, is that it is as unnatural to be happy all the time as it is to be unhappy, and to allow myself to feel it with out indulging in too much self-pity! That way I can appreciate the happiness too, and treat it the same way xx"
Well i hope alot more happy times then sad ones xx What we think about ourself becomes the truth for us, And we are responsible for our thoughts what we think and our feelings the words we speak an wright at times we blame others for our frustrations..but no person no place no thing we are the thinkers and do this to ourselfs .... so for me when i feel crap things not how i would like them i turn it around and think positive and i find that help seeing the good in things and in life and people not just bad stuff as can muck your head up if you let it. Kisses xxxxxx jo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bump!

Just to say thanks for ALL the replies, you did cheer me up, so, equilibrium restored, once again THANK YOU xxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Bump!

Just to say thanks for ALL the replies, you did cheer me up, so, equilibrium restored, once again THANK YOU xxx "

yay!!!!! thats what we like to see

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Beer for me, fruit based drink for the lady, and a romcom........ only joking!111

SEX What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always happy. It takes a shitty tosspot of a person to rile me and when that happens I usually tell them that it's a real pity they threw the wrong part away after they were born. That fucks em off no end and I walk away happy happy happy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have I mentioned that Sausages make me happy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have I mentioned that Sausages make me happy ? "

On holiday in the Lorna Doone valley I spent a day by the cristal clean waters of the brook, relaxing in the long green grass under the shade of an ancient tree, listening to the laughing, gurgling brook, the sounds of the birds and the soft sunlight filtering through summer leaves. A lady walked by and I greeted her. She returned my greening and said "store this moment for the future".

When I am down, this is where I go.

Wise words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not working and getting paid for it.

Winning at the bookies.

crime and of course ..getting away with it

oh and maybe sex but i never tried it

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Buying shirts

Playing music

Last minute victories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Driving my car

Watching happy films

Listening to happy catchy music that makes me want to dance

Finding bargains in the shops

Having a good shag (OK I said it now)

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