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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"You seem normal"

I've had messages to this effect a few times, so tell me is this a really mediocre compliment, or are you guys saying that some of the beautiful ladies on site are as mental as a box of adorable kittens?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Works both ways

Runs for cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was the seem in " " ??

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Even my mother doesn't describe me as normal lol xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think it must be standard, you seem normal, your not like the rest and any other deviation otherwise I must be the most normal easy to talk to person on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal is great. I can't be arsed with people who are all "look at me, I'm so kooky". Probably not what they mean by it, but I'd take it as a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank heavens for a touch or normality once in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got a lovely mouth

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm sooooo normal it hurts sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,ve had a few of those messages and take them as a compliment with regard to others on here. normal on here = good I think

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

What is normal ?

If were all the same ie normal life would be boring

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Did I tell you how I got these scars?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a wierdo

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

You have two arms two legs and breasts. That's normal. But yes, it's pretty lame.

The arab blokes in Egypt came out with some pretty overblown stuff on the beach to my step-daughter...I love your eyes and your lips I am a virgin and I have been waiting for you. Your husband (we told them she was married) must be the luckiest man in the world to wake up next to your beautiful face...you are a diamond.

She stayed there with the bloke from the beauty salon and I have a camel farm.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Not a normal profile as your pics are superb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll take it as a good thing then lol.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Going by some of the messages I get and looking at my local updates I think in fab terms normal is great

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

"you seem normal "..boy would I be pissed if someone said that too me...though its highly unlikely that anyone would say that of course. .

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down

To be fair, some people are just really shite at starting up a chat with people. We've had that line a couple of times. "we contacted you because we think you're just like us" is another strange one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm normal...oh...wait...as you were, apparently I'm not

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Normal in Norfolk is not a compliment

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I'm exceptionally normal.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"To be fair, some people are just really shite at starting up a chat with people. We've had that line a couple of times. "we contacted you because we think you're just like us" is another strange one!"

Ha ha ha...yeah I've had that a few times too...always strikes me as a bit strange as they're a couple and I'm a singleton...makes me wonder which one they think I'm like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few of those & yestersay I got my first "you look familiar, have I seen you before? I swear it was on a night out" soon blocked his ass!

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By *hampagneAfterpartyCouple
over a year ago

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A large number of single women on here are batshit crazy so to find a normal woman is nice But I wouldn't ever tell her she's normal as it's not a compliment she wants a to hear lol

I think it is a compliment on here though! You should take it as one.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We quite often get 'you look normal' when people see our face pics.

Makes you wonder what they were expecting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as normal, only varying degrees of weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define normal?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define normal? "

And there in lays the challenge which is why I think it's a strange comment to message someone I kind of read it like "Hi you seem average" lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define normal?

And there in lays the challenge which is why I think it's a strange comment to message someone I kind of read it like "Hi you seem average" lol"

Oh btw I'm not saying I'm not I just wouldn't say it to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had quite a lot of men on here tell me I'm normal. I think it's because talk about cups of tea and my aching feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take everything message wise with a big pinch of salt as most of it is just a way in.

Normal could be meant as a compliment or oil be that you're not as ranty as the last profile viewed.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knitter, if you're normal then we'd happily be normal with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normal in Norfolk is not a compliment "

Doesn't Norfolk still have a Witchfinder General ?

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"Normal in Norfolk is not a compliment

Doesn't Norfolk still have a Witchfinder General ?"

We have our own sex website

www.FabSibling.com

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

Normal is normal .....a bucket of frogs is not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""You seem normal"

I've had messages to this effect a few times, so tell me is this a really mediocre compliment, or are you guys saying that some of the beautiful ladies on site are as mental as a box of adorable kittens?"

well I would have gone for mad as a box of frogs, and of course normal is a variable which puts you slap bang in the middle of the mad people of fab

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

One person's norm is another person's kink

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

The message I hate getting is "Hi" or sometimes it's "Hi, how are you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have two arms two legs and breasts. That's normal. But yes, it's pretty lame.

The arab blokes in Egypt came out with some pretty overblown stuff on the beach to my step-daughter...I love your eyes and your lips I am a virgin and I have been waiting for you. Your husband (we told them she was married) must be the luckiest man in the world to wake up next to your beautiful face...you are a diamond.

She stayed there with the bloke from the beauty salon and I have a camel farm."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""you seem normal "..boy would I be pissed if someone said that too me...though its highly unlikely that anyone would say that of course. ."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""you seem normal "..boy would I be pissed if someone said that too me...though its highly unlikely that anyone would say that of course. .

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Hello forum I am Normal I have been normal for a long time I want to change

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre


""you seem normal "..boy would I be pissed if someone said that too me...though its highly unlikely that anyone would say that of course. .

Hello forum I am Normal I have been normal for a long time I want to change"

You're not normal. Normal is boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah had that comment too! Sometimes think it's just indulging in small talk and thinking of something to say...I don't look into it really

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


""you seem normal "..boy would I be pissed if someone said that too me...though its highly unlikely that anyone would say that of course. .

Hello forum I am Normal I have been normal for a long time I want to change"

Please don't ever change. You sound my dream girl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""you seem normal "..boy would I be pissed if someone said that too me...though its highly unlikely that anyone would say that of course. .

Hello forum I am Normal I have been normal for a long time I want to change

You're not normal. Normal is boring. "

Oh dear normal is boring I'm going to go and kill my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear normal is boring I'm going to go and kill my profile "

Dont do that.... that would be a normal reaction

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By *verReadyGirthMan
over a year ago

city centre


""you seem normal "..boy would I be pissed if someone said that too me...though its highly unlikely that anyone would say that of course. .

Hello forum I am Normal I have been normal for a long time I want to change.

You're not normal. Normal is boring.

Oh dear normal is boring I'm going to go and kill my profile "

Knitter- you're too hot for normal. We've been through this. Get that profile sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this often. It's odd, but not offensive.

Along with 'oh you're cute'

Ffs. Am I a kitten??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement "

You've mentioned your scars on a paranoid way a few times... Your scar is far cooler than any tattoo on here to be honest. I have no idea why it would bother you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement "

Wow. That's rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement

You've mentioned your scars on a paranoid way a few times... Your scar is far cooler than any tattoo on here to be honest. I have no idea why it would bother you."

Im not talking about rhe chest scar but the dozens (hundreds?) Of self harm scars on my left arm.

They are less cool.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement "
why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You live and you learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal"

People are weird about mental illness?

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

Not sure why this got on to scars but I have 3 two small ones and one large the small ones were a gift courtesy of the Argintinans the larger one a treasured gift from our glorious field surgeons some people ask me about them I say there just a passage of time no more ..... As for self harm etc I honestly don't know but I tend to find that it's not always someone else that's to blame, I made a mistake, but I live with it, it's always easier to put your shit on someone else as most of us seem to do but you cannot heal a mind that has no wish to be healed.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal

People are weird about mental illness?"
but how do they know what caused them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal

People are weird about mental illness?but how do they know what caused them"

They're hundreds of parrallel crisscrossing cuts on my fore arm of various ages.

Its pretty obvious what they are.

Although the smiley face has faded these days

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal

People are weird about mental illness?but how do they know what caused them

They're hundreds of parrallel crisscrossing cuts on my fore arm of various ages.

Its pretty obvious what they are.

Although the smiley face has faded these days

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just strange you come across so many people freaking out they normally just stare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal

People are weird about mental illness?but how do they know what caused them

They're hundreds of parrallel crisscrossing cuts on my fore arm of various ages.

Its pretty obvious what they are.

Although the smiley face has faded these days

just strange you come across so many people freaking out they normally just stare"

They're people ive known for years it would be weirder if they just stared rather than expressing some kind of surprise that many of the cuts were done during the time ive know them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal

People are weird about mental illness?but how do they know what caused them

They're hundreds of parrallel crisscrossing cuts on my fore arm of various ages.

Its pretty obvious what they are.

Although the smiley face has faded these days

just strange you come across so many people freaking out they normally just stare

They're people ive known for years it would be weirder if they just stared rather than expressing some kind of surprise that many of the cuts were done during the time ive know them."
fair enough would of thought if they had known you years they could have expressed surprise without freaking out. You must just be unfortunate to know so many rude people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal

People are weird about mental illness?but how do they know what caused them

They're hundreds of parrallel crisscrossing cuts on my fore arm of various ages.

Its pretty obvious what they are.

Although the smiley face has faded these days

just strange you come across so many people freaking out they normally just stare

They're people ive known for years it would be weirder if they just stared rather than expressing some kind of surprise that many of the cuts were done during the time ive know them.fair enough would of thought if they had known you years they could have expressed surprise without freaking out. You must just be unfortunate to know so many rude people"

I wouldn't describe them as rude.

More concerned

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal

People are weird about mental illness?but how do they know what caused them

They're hundreds of parrallel crisscrossing cuts on my fore arm of various ages.

Its pretty obvious what they are.

Although the smiley face has faded these days

just strange you come across so many people freaking out they normally just stare

They're people ive known for years it would be weirder if they just stared rather than expressing some kind of surprise that many of the cuts were done during the time ive know them.fair enough would of thought if they had known you years they could have expressed surprise without freaking out. You must just be unfortunate to know so many rude people

I wouldn't describe them as rude.

More concerned "
well if someone freaked out and insinuated I wasn't normal than I'd find that rude, but each to our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal

People are weird about mental illness?but how do they know what caused them

They're hundreds of parrallel crisscrossing cuts on my fore arm of various ages.

Its pretty obvious what they are.

Although the smiley face has faded these days

just strange you come across so many people freaking out they normally just stare

They're people ive known for years it would be weirder if they just stared rather than expressing some kind of surprise that many of the cuts were done during the time ive know them.fair enough would of thought if they had known you years they could have expressed surprise without freaking out. You must just be unfortunate to know so many rude people

I wouldn't describe them as rude.

More concerned well if someone freaked out and insinuated I wasn't normal than I'd find that rude, but each to our own "

You seem to be on this like a dog with a bone i dont know why you seem to be trying to start an argument.

I do not take it as rude, they are surprised by the severity of my scaring (its much more severe than usual for self harm) and they are surprised that while going through all that that i remained perfectly happy an normal in public.

And i certainly wouldnt describe my self as unfortunate for knowing them

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but youu seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal

People are weird about mental illness?but how do they know what caused them

They're hundreds of parrallel crisscrossing cuts on my fore arm of various ages.

Its pretty obvious what they are.

Although the smiley face has faded these days

just strange you come across so many people freaking out they normally just stare

They're people ive known for years it would be weirder if they just stared rather than expressing some kind of surprise that many of the cuts were done during the time ive know them.fair enough would of thought if they had known you years they could have expressed surprise without freaking out. You must just be unfortunate to know so many rude people

I wouldn't describe them as rude.

More concerned well if someone freaked out and insinuated I wasn't normal than I'd find that rude, but each to our own

You seem to be on this like a dog with a bone i dont know why you seem to be trying to start an argument.

I do not take it as rude, they are surprised by the severity of my scaring (its much more severe than usual for self harm) and they are surprised that while going through all that that i remained perfectly happy an normal in public.

And i certainly wouldnt describe my self as unfortunate for knowing them

"

Maybe the lady is just trying to understand I don't se anything nasty in what she has said, maybe you should chill out a little

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Outside of fab i usualy keep my scars covered and most people in my life have no idea i have them.

When some prople have seen them (I've forgotten and rolled up my sleeve etc) and they've seen them after the initial freak out "but you seem so normal" has been a fairly universal statement why would people freak out seeing scars? I went out with someone with horrendous face scars people used to stare but noone ever freaked out or said he wasnt normal

People are weird about mental illness?but how do they know what caused them

They're hundreds of parrallel crisscrossing cuts on my fore arm of various ages.

Its pretty obvious what they are.

Although the smiley face has faded these days

just strange you come across so many people freaking out they normally just stare

They're people ive known for years it would be weirder if they just stared rather than expressing some kind of surprise that many of the cuts were done during the time ive know them.fair enough would of thought if they had known you years they could have expressed surprise without freaking out. You must just be unfortunate to know so many rude people

I wouldn't describe them as rude.

More concerned well if someone freaked out and insinuated I wasn't normal than I'd find that rude, but each to our own

You seem to be on this like a dog with a bone i dont know why you seem to be trying to start an argument.

I do not take it as rude, they are surprised by the severity of my scaring (its much more severe than usual for self harm) and they are surprised that while going through all that that i remained perfectly happy an normal in public.

And i certainly wouldnt describe my self as unfortunate for knowing them

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I was merely curious not starting an argument. Why would mine surprised by your scaring I've been around many self harmers some so!severe they've been in danger of losing limbs, a guy whose eyes which where scared to fuck from constantly looking them until they bled. I just have a different take and experience on it to you, that's why I raised a question. But if you want to see it as trying to start an argument fair play. Not like you have never questioned anyone now is it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

And I'm not sure what is normal for self harming everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I'm not sure what is normal for self harming everyone is different

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Yeah and it's a sensitive thing and you kept on and on at him then. Who gives a fuck how many people you know that have done it, doesn't give you any supreme knowledge on it. He was saying what his experiences were why couldn't you just accept it instead of arguing the toss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I'm not sure what is normal for self harming everyone is different

Yeah and it's a sensitive thing and you kept on and on at him then. Who gives a fuck how many people you know that have done it, doesn't give you any supreme knowledge on it. He was saying what his experiences were why couldn't you just accept it instead of arguing the toss.

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hey seawitch thx left what you do to him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I'm not sure what is normal for self harming everyone is different

Yeah and it's a sensitive thing and you kept on and on at him then. Who gives a fuck how many people you know that have done it, doesn't give you any supreme knowledge on it. He was saying what his experiences were why couldn't you just accept it instead of arguing the toss.

hey seawitch thx left what you do to him? "

I didn't do anything to him, he was gonna leave anyway just this stupid argument made him go sooner than he had planned, he couldn't be arsed to spend his last days on here arguing. I'm fucking so annoyed! People should pick their battles more wisely, have empathy yeah by all means but just cos you know someone who's self harmed doesn't make you more clued up on the hows and whys than someone that's actually done it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I'm not sure what is normal for self harming everyone is different

Yeah and it's a sensitive thing and you kept on and on at him then. Who gives a fuck how many people you know that have done it, doesn't give you any supreme knowledge on it. He was saying what his experiences were why couldn't you just accept it instead of arguing the toss.

hey seawitch thx left what you do to him?

I didn't do anything to him, he was gonna leave anyway just this stupid argument made him go sooner than he had planned, he couldn't be arsed to spend his last days on here arguing. I'm fucking so annoyed! People should pick their battles more wisely, have empathy yeah by all means but just cos you know someone who's self harmed doesn't make you more clued up on the hows and whys than someone that's actually done it. "
hey I havnt seen the argument but he has talked about his mood swings in the past x

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over a year ago


"And I'm not sure what is normal for self harming everyone is different

Yeah and it's a sensitive thing and you kept on and on at him then. Who gives a fuck how many people you know that have done it, doesn't give you any supreme knowledge on it. He was saying what his experiences were why couldn't you just accept it instead of arguing the toss.

hey seawitch thx left what you do to him?

I didn't do anything to him, he was gonna leave anyway just this stupid argument made him go sooner than he had planned, he couldn't be arsed to spend his last days on here arguing. I'm fucking so annoyed! People should pick their battles more wisely, have empathy yeah by all means but just cos you know someone who's self harmed doesn't make you more clued up on the hows and whys than someone that's actually done it. hey I havnt seen the argument but he has talked about his mood swings in the past x "

It's in this thread. Yeah and he's in a good mood and getting on with things. I'll look after him anyway!

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over a year ago


"And I'm not sure what is normal for self harming everyone is different

Yeah and it's a sensitive thing and you kept on and on at him then. Who gives a fuck how many people you know that have done it, doesn't give you any supreme knowledge on it. He was saying what his experiences were why couldn't you just accept it instead of arguing the toss.

hey seawitch thx left what you do to him?

I didn't do anything to him, he was gonna leave anyway just this stupid argument made him go sooner than he had planned, he couldn't be arsed to spend his last days on here arguing. I'm fucking so annoyed! People should pick their battles more wisely, have empathy yeah by all means but just cos you know someone who's self harmed doesn't make you more clued up on the hows and whys than someone that's actually done it. hey I havnt seen the argument but he has talked about his mood swings in the past x

It's in this thread. Yeah and he's in a good mood and getting on with things. I'll look after him anyway! "
hey say hi from me and tell him to pay no mind to these buffoons ,in the scheme of things they matter not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I'm not sure what is normal for self harming everyone is different

Yeah and it's a sensitive thing and you kept on and on at him then. Who gives a fuck how many people you know that have done it, doesn't give you any supreme knowledge on it. He was saying what his experiences were why couldn't you just accept it instead of arguing the toss.

hey seawitch thx left what you do to him?

I didn't do anything to him, he was gonna leave anyway just this stupid argument made him go sooner than he had planned, he couldn't be arsed to spend his last days on here arguing. I'm fucking so annoyed! People should pick their battles more wisely, have empathy yeah by all means but just cos you know someone who's self harmed doesn't make you more clued up on the hows and whys than someone that's actually done it. hey I havnt seen the argument but he has talked about his mood swings in the past x

It's in this thread. Yeah and he's in a good mood and getting on with things. I'll look after him anyway! hey say hi from me and tell him to pay no mind to these buffoons ,in the scheme of things they matter not "
. I'll tell him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks gorgeous is he paying for boob job now ,phew another £

5,000 saved

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

Wow lots been going on while I've been gone gone from normal to mood swings to self harm in one giant leap

Self harming is a wide and emotive subject everyone is different and does it for different reason and can get into a circle of self harm and self destruction.

Seawitch if the poster is a friend of yours talk to them but don't judge them but try and get them help

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Phew ... Hoping for normality to return ...just for the record .. I would say normal in fabspeak means easy to talk to and have sensible conversations with .. A good thing .. Not the best compliment every .. But reassuring and safe

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"And I'm not sure what is normal for self harming everyone is different

Yeah and it's a sensitive thing and you kept on and on at him then. Who gives a fuck how many people you know that have done it, doesn't give you any supreme knowledge on it. He was saying what his experiences were why couldn't you just accept it instead of arguing the toss.

"
mental illness is talked about on here often.

I was questioning him on his experiences, as I was interested. I've seen different experiences to him. I wasn't rude, abusive, I didn't accuse him of anything I was saying what I had experienced as was he.

I said that I found people that reacted the way they did to him rude as did someone else. And I do think they are rude.

If he didn't want to talk about any of it he wouldn't have answered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant beat a touch of normal - one normal is different to anothers normal though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks gorgeous is he paying for boob job now ,phew another £

5,000 saved "

What!? No! Was hoping you would!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ummmmm I was sleeping I hope everyone is okay sprinkling pixie dust, blowing kissed, sending virtual hugs and thinking nice thoughts.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"And I'm not sure what is normal for self harming everyone is different

Yeah and it's a sensitive thing and you kept on and on at him then. Who gives a fuck how many people you know that have done it, doesn't give you any supreme knowledge on it. He was saying what his experiences were why couldn't you just accept it instead of arguing the toss.

hey seawitch thx left what you do to him?

I didn't do anything to him, he was gonna leave anyway just this stupid argument made him go sooner than he had planned, he couldn't be arsed to spend his last days on here arguing. I'm fucking so annoyed! People should pick their battles more wisely, have empathy yeah by all means but just cos you know someone who's self harmed doesn't make you more clued up on the hows and whys than someone that's actually done it. hey I havnt seen the argument but he has talked about his mood swings in the past x

It's in this thread. Yeah and he's in a good mood and getting on with things. I'll look after him anyway! "

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


" You must just be unfortunate to know so many rude people

I wouldn't describe them as rude.

More concerned well if someone freaked out and insinuated I wasn't normal than I'd find that rude, but each to our own "

I would have said the way he described it was his friends were freaked out because they found out he has issues that they didn't know about and it was more out of concern than being rude.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Did I tell you how I got these scars?"

You did

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I consider myself normal and I consider being told I seem normal on here as a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be normal...then i joinned fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to be normal...then i joinned fab "

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