FabSwingers.com forum: Not verified = I'm shit? !!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's happened to me. I've not done it to anyone else.

Sod 'em though. Move on, forget about them.

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

He prefers sheep. Im English though so I m certain Id not ignore you. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

I've only asked for one vari to prove that I do meet, but would always vari someone else even if things didn't work and didn't see each other again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wouldn't worry about it or try and seconds guess his motives

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Don't give or ask for verifications.

I tell playmates afterwards if I want to see them again, if I say it's not going to happen and they contact me I ignore them. If I contact them and they ignore me, it's no strings sex, they didn't promise me a kidney I move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people we meet don't verify us... Mostly single guys to be fair.

Don't worry about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

Maybe he died of exhaustion on the way home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really wouldn't worry about it or try and seconds guess his motives "

This. Maybe he just cant be bothered. Or maybe he has considered it a one off thing.

I wouldn't concern yourself with it. I would suggest no veri is better than some generic nonsense you see too often on hear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not bothered with the veri and I'm not that bothered if we don't repeat the night but I just wondered if I had done something wrong cos I hate the thought! I had a pretty good night!!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

curvy just dont take it to heart that they havent verified you

it happens where people dont get verified from other people for multitude of reasons

not verified = im shit, I bet your far from the comment that has been used on your post

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'm not bothered with the veri and I'm not that bothered if we don't repeat the night but I just wondered if I had done something wrong cos I hate the thought! I had a pretty good night!!"

You will always assume a negative reason, but that doesn't mean there is a negative reason. As above, the best advice is just to try and put it out of your head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a confusing one once where the guy was really keen to meet again and then he just vanished...these things aren't worthm worrying about as there are so many others and we can't all be compatible with everyone we meet. I don't get the importance that some place on veris and the need to continue chatting after the meet. If it happens great, but if it doesn't that is also great. It's not really a big deal to me. That to me is what the perfect one off nsa sex is all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main reason for using the verification feature should ALWAYS be to offer proof that the person/s met are real and not fictional pixels.

That's why Admin take fraudulent use seriously. Comments beyond that are optional and it must be remembered that each user can set their profile to approve ANY verification prior to showing it?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

It's no reflection on you or on the fun . You met ..hopefully you enjoyed it ..he's then just not wanting to repeat it . There's quite afew folks who only do one off meets . It suits them to keep it totally no strings and fresh . There are also others who if click with people would prefer repeat performance .It's just a matter of finding those who fit what you want too .

Shame he couldn't of just sent a polite reply but maybe worried about possible drama it could cause . Just have no expectation of other people and then if you do get repeat meet its a bonus !

It's not easy sometimes on here and a thick skin is a definite requirement . Just take the site for what it is...a chance for some adult fun . Hgz xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he verified? If not, he can't verify you.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I'm not bothered with the veri and I'm not that bothered if we don't repeat the night but I just wondered if I had done something wrong cos I hate the thought! I had a pretty good night!!"
why would you have done something wrong? You can't be compatable with everyone.

You said you had a good night, surely that's all that matters.

As long as I've has a good time I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv met and not verified and not been verified, but don't see it as a problem. It's not competion is it , or am I looking at it wrongly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

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unfortunately yes it does seems some people on here are out to get what they want and nothing else

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I had a confusing one once where the guy was really keen to meet again and then he just vanished...these things aren't worthm worrying about as there are so many others and we can't all be compatible with everyone we meet. I don't get the importance that some place on veris and the need to continue chatting after the meet. If it happens great, but if it doesn't that is also great. It's not really a big deal to me. That to me is what the perfect one off nsa sex is all about."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Weren't me, Guv.

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over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

unfortunately yes it does seems some people on here are out to get what they want and nothing else "
or just want nsa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not, but she's not verified and you get so much shit in here is you're a woman not verified! Get accused of being a fake, cock tease, no intention of meeting etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all for your comments

I should stop worrying about it I know!!

I have a thick skin and would have preferred an honest reply even it was to say you've got a chuff like a wizards sleeve or something lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It's not, but she's not verified and you get so much shit in here is you're a woman not verified! Get accused of being a fake, cock tease, no intention of meeting etc"

And too many veris and get called a slutty Skaggs sleep-about!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Thanks all for your comments

I should stop worrying about it I know!!

I have a thick skin and would have preferred an honest reply even it was to say you've got a chuff like a wizards sleeve or something lol

Useful for wand insertions.....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Thanks all for your comments

I should stop worrying about it I know!!

I have a thick skin and would have preferred an honest reply even it was to say you've got a chuff like a wizards sleeve or something lol

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what did you message him saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Weren't me, Guv.

Can you prove it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this last time i was on here long ago...it was a woman who asked me to lick her 'tender wetness' and that kinda talk does nowt for me..i had to stop myself from creasing..hence we did not give eachother feedback as the meet was not great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met people from here and we've never verified each other yet remain friends, still talk, occasionally meet up etc...

Some people put zero stock in verifications I guess..

I wouldn't worry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks all for your comments

I should stop worrying about it I know!!

I have a thick skin and would have preferred an honest reply even it was to say you've got a chuff like a wizards sleeve or something lol

Useful for wand insertions....."

Exactly haha

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By *quirell2015Man
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

If you need a second opinion I'm here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks all for your comments

I should stop worrying about it I know!!

I have a thick skin and would have preferred an honest reply even it was to say you've got a chuff like a wizards sleeve or something lol

what did you message him saying?"

I just said "hey..Thanks for a lovely evening..I enjoyed it" something along those lines!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you need a second opinion I'm here

Thankyou

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

I'm not sure whether this will help and I suspect not as I'm sure the circumstances of your meet were very different. Anyhow, the only time I didn't verify after a meet was when I had been very disappointed by how unlike her profile pics and description the lady in question actually turned out to be. I hesitated for quite some time because I wasn't sure it was fair on others for me to give her a positive verification and so help to persuade others that she was entirely genuine....she was but, certainly wouldn't have turned out to be what people were expecting, just as she wasn't for me.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

And too many veris and get called a slutty Skaggs sleep-about!

That's my name!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

Understandable...I had sent lots of face pics to this guy though and previous to meeting on here we had chatted on another site where there were other pictures...I'm no oil painting imo but people have always said that pictures don't do me justice and I'm better in the flesh!! So I hope that this isn't the case!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Thanks all for your comments

I should stop worrying about it I know!!

I have a thick skin and would have preferred an honest reply even it was to say you've got a chuff like a wizards sleeve or something lol

what did you message him saying?

I just said "hey..Thanks for a lovely evening..I enjoyed it" something along those lines!

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well there's nothing really to reply to.

If I've had a meet I've enjoyed I message just to say thanks for a good time as I take it as that's a generic message. Then they have the choice of either ignoring it, responding in like or responding in a fashion that says they would be interested in meeting again.

I used to leave verifications all the time but not so much now unless it is someone who doesn't have any and I ask if they want one.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Also if I met someone and on the evening they said they wanted to meet again, I'd take it with a pinch of salt until they messaged me saying it, some say it out of politeness and some in post coital bliss

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Thanks all for your comments

I should stop worrying about it I know!!

I have a thick skin and would have preferred an honest reply even it was to say you've got a chuff like a wizards sleeve or something lol

Useful for wand insertions....."

I've been known to slitherin..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure it was nothing to do with you op.

Perhaps the guy wasn't as nice as you thought he was? Perhaps it was just another notch on a bedpost for him? Maybe he just hasn't had time to do one for you.

I've had a couple of meets where others haven't verified me. One, the first I had, had on here admittedly didn't go well from my point of _iew. Felt I'd been set up by her husband.

The second, last year, I met a couple after several messages saying they wanted to meet and when could I? After meeting all they kept on about was me verifying them, even though they had several already. I verified them but never got one back. Maybe I wasn't what they hoped, I don't know. What I do know is that when they get a veri, they rarely give one back. I think they just wanted her to get 'a reputation'. Just loads of verifications.

Another lady I met last year, said she didn't want one.

Who knows why people don't verify? Just forget and move on.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you had a good time

so you didn't get words validating that......

doesn't change the good time you had.

why you would allow this to impact you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all for your comments

I should stop worrying about it I know!!

I have a thick skin and would have preferred an honest reply even it was to say you've got a chuff like a wizards sleeve or something lol

Useful for wand insertions.....

Exactly haha

Can you make a rabbit appear too??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

You should meet us, we have a scoreboard setup by the front door, so you can check before you leave

Seriously though, don't worry about it. you enjoyed yourself, so all is good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha thanks for.making me giggle!

Like I said it's not so much the veri I care about..It would be nice to have one to prove I'm real! But I'm not interested in people 'bigging me up' in black and white.

I will stop trying to analyse and just move on!!

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

I am absolutely certain it wasn't...

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By *eeDee25Woman
over a year ago

crook

I hate them who take ages to verify or dont.i have to ask at times for men to do verify me. Some do and some dont

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

I am absolutely certain it wasn't..."

Thankyou

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By *eeDee25Woman
over a year ago

crook

I always verify who i meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A verification is used to show people are real not how great or not great a fuck you are, everyone has different tastes and ways of doing things so whats great for one isnt great for another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not bothered with the veri and I'm not that bothered if we don't repeat the night but I just wondered if I had done something wrong cos I hate the thought! I had a pretty good night!!"

The thread title suggests that you are bothered

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

Happened to me this week, left him a verification but nothing in return and ignored my messages. This was a 'friend' and the third time we'd met - as of this morning he is no longer a friend xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

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that is such a twatish thing to do,i hope you don't let it spoil your time on fab sadly there are many on here like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

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that is such a twatish thing to do,i hope you don't let it spoil your time on fab sadly there are many on here like that

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

Happened to me this week, left him a verification but nothing in return and ignored my messages. This was a 'friend' and the third time we'd met - as of this morning he is no longer a friend xx"

That's really rubbish! It's when they beg you for one then they can't be bothered to do you one I get annoyed.

I'm happy not to be verified anymore apart from the odd one to prove I'm still active. I have no expectations anymore other than the actual meet.

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

O/P all i can add is how rude and try to not let it spoil this way of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me a few times but what's worse is the few meets I've had who have stayed hard in my mouth but as soon as I've tryed fuckin em they have flopped. Still cannot decide if I'm a good sucker or a crap fucker lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

Yes both ways

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

Feel you're assuming too much in saying he 'clearly didn't have a good night'.

Also, not everyone rushes to leave a veri after a meet, sometimes they just don't leave one. It's NO reflection on you.

Last time I had a single male profile on here, my first meet (F) didn't give me a veri for nearly a month... then I got one of the best veris ANYONE could wish for...(Flippin wish I'd kept it!)...

Just don't jump to conclusions about the lack of a veri or contact from him since - we all have lives away from here and sometimes they get in the way (heavens!!) and cause us to let things slip sometimes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

That or he's hapoy to meet you but doesnt want to be associated with you publicly

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

that is such a twatish thing to do,i hope you don't let it spoil your time on fab sadly there are many on here like that

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but any is it twattish, the op never mentioned they had discussed leaving verifications or that their had been promises of a glowimg report. She also sent a generic thankyou message.

She also said she had a good time so he must of treated her well on the meet.

If promises had been made I could understand that attitude but all I can see he's guilty of is having NSA. Which is what most people do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CC ....don t worry about it ..doesn t mean he didn t have a great time with you .

We re not all looking to " publicise " our meets . I actually ask NOT to be commented on...I m a private guy ...the most important thing ...is you both know whether you enjoyed yourselves or not...

As for him not replying to your " after message "...well take out of that what you will...don t get down about it , don t personalise it..just move on . Not everone is like that , but ???

Take care...hope you have loads more fun !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I met a couple. They invited me round theres. To cut a story short. Hubby spit hes dummy out because the mrs wouldnt keep her hands to herself. Sat between us and said its time you left. I got blocked. Bastards. I needed a veri at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ignored someone once after I attended a party with him and he stabbed me in the back by trying to cause shit with his female friend.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

That or he's hapoy to meet you but doesnt want to be associated with you publicly "

I believe this happens quite a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

I've had the same this week too,wasn't a play meet just a social. I think it's just courtesy to verify after a meet? But maybe that's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo...Following a meet last week the guy hasn't verified me and hasn't replied to my message.

Clearly he didn't have a good night!

That's fine but...A little bit of feedback would be nice! Some constructive criticism?

Have any of you had a meet then completely ignored the person afterwards?? Or had this type of thing occur?

that is such a twatish thing to do,i hope you don't let it spoil your time on fab sadly there are many on here like that

but any is it twattish, the op never mentioned they had discussed leaving verifications or that their had been promises of a glowimg report. She also sent a generic thankyou message.

She also said she had a good time so he must of treated her well on the meet.

If promises had been made I could understand that attitude but all I can see he's guilty of is having NSA. Which is what most people do. yes i understand that but i think we are talking about the difference between what is a nice thing to do and what's not nice ie the man was obviously not a gentleman,if i meet i will always verify and won't just ignore afterwards as that is pig ignorant in my book, oink oink oink

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the supportive messages!

It certainly won't ruin my future time on fab!

I was just curious as to some of the possible reason..which you provided thankyou!

I'm a people pleaser (it's one of my many flaws!) So I just wanted to know that he hadn't had a completely shit time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would advise not to focus on it.

People do disappear and sometimes they reappear.

I disappeared for 3 months due to a family crisis and a smashed phone - the family crisis meant the phone and getting back on fab were way down my priority list.

Things do genuinely happen out there in peoples real lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How could verify him if you aren't verified yourself ?

Was he verified already ?

In answer to your question : yes, lots of times

I don't give a hoot

By contrast I've also verified people who were crap shags.

So even if you get one back, it might be out of a false sense of 'duty' rather than proof that your moves were great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe get your next meet to sign a veri pre-nup

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I have done it, felt bad for ages but just couldn't bring myself to speak to him.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Yes. I met a couple. They invited me round theres. To cut a story short. Hubby spit hes dummy out because the mrs wouldnt keep her hands to herself. Sat between us and said its time you left. I got blocked. Bastards. I needed a veri at the time

You could always take me for coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always take me for coffee

Caffine sends me light headed

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've had a few meets who didn't verify me. I was annoyed at the time (because I blimmin verified them!!), but now I've forgotten who they were. It's not that important overall.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"I'm not bothered with the veri and I'm not that bothered if we don't repeat the night but I just wondered if I had done something wrong cos I hate the thought! I had a pretty good night!!"

Ask him! x

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm not bothered with the veri and I'm not that bothered if we don't repeat the night but I just wondered if I had done something wrong cos I hate the thought! I had a pretty good night!!

Ask him! x "

Yep I do this

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What others do after a meet is only indicative of them.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Surely veris are only to say that some one turned up, was who , and the sex they said they were, and bore at least a slight resemblance to the person on the profile ( and pics, if there are any)

It's not a performance report . ( well it's not intended to be, even though people use it as such )

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