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"I think a profile that actually says something about you and what you would bring to a meet might help. " The current profile is a well-known spoof cv first crafted in 1998. It was quite funny when it first appeared, .....but it doesn't say anything about you | |||
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"I would bring fun and sexy to a meet. But by the time I've arranged a meet they already know about me through sending pics and chatting. It's just very frustrating. I think that's the nature of the beast though lol." Those meets don't pan out though. You are clearly missing capturing the interest of the people that do actually meet rather than mess about. | |||
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"I would bring fun and sexy to a meet. But by the time I've arranged a meet they already know about me through sending pics and chatting. It's just very frustrating. I think that's the nature of the beast though lol." I don't understand. Presumably it is because they have got to know you through chatting and exchanging photos, which is the normal approach, that they have decided to meet you.... | |||
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"Over the last few months every meet arranged with someone has either turned out to be a fake a no show or even the opposite sex. So obviously I'm curious to get a true verdict of myself. The question is how many would actually meet me if they could?. I won't take this as a deffinate meet just curious to see who would." I'd simply not meet you as you don't accom. This maybe the same for some others too. Also if you're having such issues with no shows ect then points to you needing to review your vetting process . Keep the faith and wish you the best on here !! X | |||
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"Don't get me wrong it doesn't happen all the time. I have had a cpl of great meets it's just the last few months the site seems full of time wasters a fakes. " That's what you're attracting then. We're advising you why that might be. You seem unwilling to accept the advice you asked for. What were you actually wanting from this thread? What is it you want to hear? | |||
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"I couldnt say without seeing your face xx" ^this. | |||
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"I would bring fun and sexy to a meet. But by the time I've arranged a meet they already know about me through sending pics and chatting. It's just very frustrating. I think that's the nature of the beast though lol." If that's what you'd bring then articulate that in your profile.. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like your profile its funny and you've put some thought into it. Good luck OP Hate to burst the bubble but it's a well-known spoof cv widely available on the internet https://www-users.cs.york.ac.uk/susan/joke/essay.htm " Why would someone do that,do they not have anything to say in their own words I wonder... | |||
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"Lol...i would...your profile made me laugh out loud...always a positive xx" Even though they're not his words? | |||
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"Over the last few months every meet arranged with someone has either turned out to be a fake a no show or even the opposite sex. So obviously I'm curious to get a true verdict of myself. The question is how many would actually meet me if they could?. I won't take this as a deffinate meet just curious to see who would." Additionally I would suggest you be more strict in your vetting process. | |||
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"Lol ditto I'm streight cheers for the beer though lol" That's one reason why I said I wouldn't touch you. The second reason is you're a guy!!!! ![]() | |||
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"Can't send you a face pic hun you've blocked non site supporters" Thats not the point. You need a noncock pic on your profile. People dont want to have to ask.....says on your verifications you had a meet ....in a car?...in January???? Thats enough to put anyone off. | |||
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"36 hours later and no changes have been made, no advice has been taken, with the copied and pasted spoof cv still on display. Why bother asking for advice?" Maybe he needs to mull over the answers and draft a new profile... I don't know but this often happens with these threads. ![]() | |||
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"36 hours later and no changes have been made, no advice has been taken, with the copied and pasted spoof cv still on display. Why bother asking for advice? Maybe he needs to mull over the answers and draft a new profile... I don't know but this often happens with these threads. ![]() A whole new profile, this time without copy and pasting would be a good idea, but there were a few quick fixes suggested repeatedly | |||
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"Over the last few months every meet arranged with someone has either turned out to be a fake a no show or even the opposite sex. So obviously I'm curious to get a true verdict of myself. The question is how many would actually meet me if they could?. I won't take this as a deffinate meet just curious to see who would." I'm confused as to what you're looking for. You say you're straight but complain when they turn up and are "the opposite sex". ![]() | |||
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"Over the last few months every meet arranged with someone has either turned out to be a fake a no show or even the opposite sex. So obviously I'm curious to get a true verdict of myself. The question is how many would actually meet me if they could?. I won't take this as a deffinate meet just curious to see who would. I'm confused as to what you're looking for. You say you're straight but complain when they turn up and are "the opposite sex". ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"At frist i had 3 meets cancel me then got chatin again after we met sed they wish they never cancel the meet sed i was worth it n my sex drive was incredible along wiv my lickin out expet tease so yeh just bare wiv the ladys gopein to getmore ladys like the ones i had was a amazin experince anyone else wanna try me if they dare to that is haha ![]() { INSERTS FACEPALM EMOJI } | |||
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"True" As has been said, two cock pics, 1 body shot. Ok, our profile text is maybe a bit run of the mill but I didn't understand yours at all, sorry. Write your own, then it will be about you, and might achieve your objective. F half posting and good luck | |||
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"At frist i had 3 meets cancel me then got chatin again after we met sed they wish they never cancel the meet sed i was worth it n my sex drive was incredible along wiv my lickin out expet tease so yeh just bare wiv the ladys gopein to getmore ladys like the ones i had was a amazin experince anyone else wanna try me if they dare to that is haha ![]() Swoons dramatically. We're in the presence of a love God ![]() | |||
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"At frist i had 3 meets cancel me then got chatin again after we met sed they wish they never cancel the meet sed i was worth it n my sex drive was incredible along wiv my lickin out expet tease so yeh just bare wiv the ladys gopein to getmore ladys like the ones i had was a amazin experince anyone else wanna try me if they dare to that is haha ![]() ![]() Do you mean you actually understand Klingon? | |||
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"I like my profile. It's bloody funny. Pmsl. Your still not getting it!!! By the time I meet, the other person or persons they know all they need to know about me. As we would have communicated. I think I bloody explained that! They will have seen my face pics. They will know I'm genuine and would have seen I'm not at all bad. They then decide to meet then cancel. Omg what part of that do you not understand dew dew dew hard work you negative people are aye lol " I understand what you are saying, and with my understanding I have come to the conclusion that maybe, just maybe, after corresponding with you and arranging a meet they then decide they don't want to be bored by you in person. | |||
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"My words or not it's bloody funny. Trust me I'd rather be a fake and make someone lol than be a fake and make someone pissed and sad. ! !!" A fake is still a fake. At the moment your profile is misleading and several may have been attracted to it believing you're really that witty, then find out you're not. That's the problem with pretending to be something you're not. | |||
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"I think a profile that actually says something about you and what you would bring to a meet might help. The current profile is a well-known spoof cv first crafted in 1998. It was quite funny when it first appeared, .....but it doesn't say anything about you" And you can see where the copy + paste stops, because the OP suddenly loses the ability to find the shift key. On that basis - it's a no from me. | |||
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"Hasn't anyone noticed that the whole thing is s wind-up? ![]() If by wind- up you mean that the profile is a well-known spoof cv widely available on the Internet , then yes that was noticed a long while back in the thread | |||
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"Don't get me wrong it doesn't happen all the time. I have had a cpl of great meets it's just the last few months the site seems full of time wasters a fakes. " That is just fab for you. We have had couples who turn out to be single guys. Single fems who are guys. It doesn't matter what site your on there will always be fakes and timewasters pretty much like normal life. People are right your profile doesn't tell me anything about you. What your looking for etc. Only thing I have read is your a firefighter but I don't know if thats the truth or not. It could just be something said. Also as someone else has said your pics need more than cock shots. When I had a single profile on here if a man sent me a cock shot I would simply just delete the message. Not interested. | |||
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"Thank you to everyone who posted on this thread. It was very interesting to read and explore both sides and it revealed both positive advice and just how negative and almost viscous some people can be in an open forum. The next question I may post on here maybe: Isn't it incredible how much courage some people have when giving abuse from behind a computer. I Wonder if they would do that face to face." There is no abuse in this thread. You asked for an honest picture - you have to take the tough with the smooth if you do that and not be sensitive about it. The fact the humorous stuff wasn't yours was bound to cause comments - you yourself were saying about fakes. It's not a huge problem, but its not a true representation of you and people are bound to be wary of that. Sorry, hope things get better for you, but that's the way people will see it as things stand. | |||
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" Isn't it incredible how much courage some people have when giving abuse from behind a computer. I Wonder if they would do that face to face." Yes, but on the other side of the coin would you ask strangers face to face about your viability? ![]() | |||
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"Each to there own. I am not nor will ever judge you. And some may say that you have a lot to be judged. Simple words in my profile are there to make people happy and interested. It is taken from a well known spoof c.v. but hay. It's fun. Unlike many profiles on here. I really could care less about how they like to be fucked. Or by whom. And a lot of profiles are very much a shit storm of demands. Smile mate chill out and enjoy the ride. Over opinionated people who put people down are a milder form of bullies." Hmm. I thought you weren't judging ![]() | |||
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"Thank you to everyone who posted on this thread. It was very interesting to read and explore both sides and it revealed both positive advice and just how negative and almost viscous some people can be in an open forum. The next question I may post on here maybe: Isn't it incredible how much courage some people have when giving abuse from behind a computer. I Wonder if they would do that face to face." You were given advice, you've chosen not to accept that, that's your perogative, on an open forum you'll get a range of views some will agree some will disagree , the common denominator in the meets you've arranged that have cancelled is .....you... You can't change others behaviours only yours, Einstein said a definition of insanity is to do the same things over and over again and expect a different result.. | |||
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"Each to there own. I am not nor will ever judge you. And some may say that you have a lot to be judged. Simple words in my profile are there to make people happy and interested. It is taken from a well known spoof c.v. but hay. It's fun. Unlike many profiles on here. I really could care less about how they like to be fucked. Or by whom. And a lot of profiles are very much a shit storm of demands. Smile mate chill out and enjoy the ride. Over opinionated people who put people down are a milder form of bullies." Having carefully re-read the entire thread it seems you have had nothing but constructive criticism and positive advice. The fact that you deem that to be judgemental and "over-opinionated" does say rather a lot about you as does your blithe refusal to acknowledge any of the points made or see what is wrong with copying most of your profile text when you yourself complain about too many fakes on the site... | |||
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"It is not insanity to not take advise it's a fuking choice you narrow minded fool. Quoting Einstein? On a swingers forum. Really? omg you are one in a million fair play pmsl. P.s. intelligence is an overrated grade of a minds ability to remember a given subject or subjects of interest to the minds owner. Author: ME... " Was about to give some constructive criticism , but the rant (even though the opinions might be perfectly valid), would be an instant turn off. Attitude and compatibility override other considerations for us. | |||
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"It is not insanity to not take advise it's a fuking choice you narrow minded fool. Quoting Einstein? On a swingers forum. Really? omg you are one in a million fair play pmsl. P.s. intelligence is an overrated grade of a minds ability to remember a given subject or subjects of interest to the minds owner. Author: ME... " You've an interesting turn of character when someone points out you're the master of your own destiny ... Whether that's success or in your case failure. If you read my post.. I said it's your perogative to take the advice or not.. I also said the common denominator in the meets that you've arranged and cancelled on you is you. You need to change your ways.. that's why I quoted Einstein. Your choice you're the bloke complaining. ![]() | |||
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"It is not insanity to not take advise it's a fuking choice you narrow minded fool. Quoting Einstein? On a swingers forum. Really? omg you are one in a million fair play pmsl. P.s. intelligence is an overrated grade of a minds ability to remember a given subject or subjects of interest to the minds owner. Author: ME... " I am starting to understand why you're struggling to find people interested in you. | |||
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"It happens all the time, that they get cold feet, don't worry lol." It's why men wear socks for sex ![]() | |||
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"Over the last few months every meet arranged with someone has either turned out to be a fake a no show or even the opposite sex. So obviously I'm curious to get a true verdict of myself. The question is how many would actually meet me if they could?. I won't take this as a deffinate meet just curious to see who would." After reading this..... No ![]() | |||
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"It is not insanity to not take advise it's a fuking choice you narrow minded fool. Quoting Einstein? On a swingers forum. Really? omg you are one in a million fair play pmsl. P.s. intelligence is an overrated grade of a minds ability to remember a given subject or subjects of interest to the minds owner. Author: ME... " think we can guess why you don't get meets. | |||
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"It is not insanity to not take advise it's a fuking choice you narrow minded fool. Quoting Einstein? On a swingers forum. Really? omg you are one in a million fair play pmsl. P.s. intelligence is an overrated grade of a minds ability to remember a given subject or subjects of interest to the minds owner. Author: ME... think we can guess why you don't get meets." No input from Einstein required! | |||
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"Omg are you dull think about what you bloody text. Yes I am streight so when they are pretending to be female and turn out to be a male I do have a slight issue we it as the weeks of contact and arrangements it's a let down. " there was a guy on here the other day asking for advice, he got avice, he got a bit of ribbing he took the advice on board and the ribbing in a light hearted way, I don't know if he will be successful but if he has the same attitude to it as he did on here he should do well. Your coming across as just not wanting any advice, it might not be the advice you want or what you will use but its your attitude to it. | |||
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" Isn't it incredible how much courage some people have when giving abuse from behind a computer. I Wonder if they would do that face to face." There was no abuse ( apart from you calling someone a fool for their view further on from this post) You asked for advice, you were given it. Maybe time to stop this now. | |||
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