FabSwingers.com forum: fed up

By *tockingsnsuspenders1960 OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in south yorks

Fed up of people being so rude & crude if we see the hubbys face and say not for us, if they reject us we just say no prob and move on. They has got to be some kind of attraction do you think??

People just block you straight away.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been block after my initial message, just means they're not interested, I also block if my message gets deleted, just so I don't make the mistake of messaging again, as for the rudeness, people can be keyboard warriors, hard to ignore some one when they're being blatantly rude to you, but when you get a message like that, delete and block them, they're the one with the issues not you.

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've been block after my initial message, just means they're not interested, I also block if my message gets deleted, just so I don't make the mistake of messaging again, as for the rudeness, people can be keyboard warriors, hard to ignore some one when they're being blatantly rude to you, but when you get a message like that, delete and block them, they're the one with the issues not you."

Yeah this. People block for all sorts of reasons and you can never know why so don't worry about it.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry op, you will always get some online weirdo with problems with no manners, just block and report.

By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

"There has got to be some kind of attraction do you think??"

When I was first involved in this scene, I would have said Yes to that. Now that I have a few (ahem!) years behind me, I actually find that a 'connection' is far more important than superficial attraction. Attraction is what I look for if I'm on a normal vanilla dating site. On here, it's a connection - ie. both of us are looking for what we can do for each other, how we can make each other feel and so on.